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Posted: 13 years ago
#11
Nice post Janaki.And the points you raised are absolutely pragmatic and true.As human nature is so complicated and fluctuating so all I can say is its a RELATIVE term abt love whether it can happen once or twice or thrice.
For some ppl their first love is the last one but there are also cases where after first love ppl fell in love again and sustained the relation life long.For me its all depend on the individual.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#12
Thanks for this post
In my opinion, Love can happen twice but you can never forget your first love. The degree of love can be more when you fall in love second time but that love can't caress your heart for the pain of loosing first love. Both loves have their respective places. When a person crave for love, he/she might fall in love as soon as he/she finds warmth and care. But if one has lived that love part, it's almost impossible to open the gate of heart for second love.
That hypothetical situation where you said, if Aarti dies one day after Yash starts loving her!! *A hug to you for putting that here* You know, a lot of us will get the dilemma of Yash about second love well now. If it's only about getting warmth of love, then no matter how many time, you can fall in love. Once you find a man or woman who loves you unconditionally, I guess, crave for love ends there. No matter your love get accomplished or is with you or not!!
When it is expected that a person can't fall in love when he is already in love with someone then why this condition ends when he/she is alone with memories of his/her beloved. If death can change every emotions then it is a disrespect to the ones who left us in this world with a fulfilled love.
Just because everybody needs anybody, it is not the enough reason for falling in love. World is adjustment but if you have choice of living with time and feeling things with time, why to rush it??!! Now Yash is alone as Arpita died. it is not enough excuse for finding second love. It will be called replacement. Love is something divine.

If Yash will fall in love with Aarti because he must move on!! Then sorry to say, that would be conditional love. And I don't want him to love Aarti conditionally. If Yash falls for her with out any reason and rush and sayings of society then it would be LOVE for me.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#13
Wonderful post.
I really don't know love can happen twice or not...but at least not in the way which is shown in PV these days.
Everyone is forcing Yash towards love. That is not done.
Love is a very beautiful feeling which shouldn't be bound with any condition.😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
#14
Don't think anyone is forcing Yash! Well he can't live in his past forever!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks for the replies, guys!
I also don't understand why so many people here seem to hate Arpita and want Yash to completely forget her, it just doesn't make sense to me. I'm one of the few who is not annoyed with his obsession with her, because it seems very realistic for me for a person in his position. I definitely think Aarti can help him overcome the pain in due time, and I think she's on her way too, because lately Yash has been smiling and looking happy more, it' all because of Aarti.😃 But I also don't want him to forget Arpita, you know? Because that would be disrespecting her memory, and whereas he should remove a lot of her portraits in his room, he should keep at least one in respect to her memory. Many people have portraits of the dead in their house.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post yaar.
According to me love can happen anytime when we trust a person so much in our life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#17
Interesting post...
i feel love is unique...its nt about falling once or twice...
Evry person has its own place in heart ...it can happen anytime under any circumstances...
Can anyone define the first love in words...its nt once or twice...ofcouse u cant subsitute ur dear ones with any other person , that does nt mean u cant fall in love again.
I hope i make sense...

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