Husband and wife ... in proper sense, when ?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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The pace at which the romance has been going on between suraj and sandhya is really dinosaurs years long ... what's the matter ? why is it hard to show a pure, honest, love on screen ? is it sin ? does the indian romance advance at such pace ? guess the indian pooulation would not be what it is now !😉

we are all so happy that Babho has declared peace with Sandhya, the family is quiet and happy, then where is the problem ? Sandhya is a stubborn tuff, gues until she does get her IPS uniform on her, romance won't move a step !!

That's what she wants suraj to understand ...isn't it ? you won't get your piece of cake until you allow me to become thanedaarni ...😛

This whole competition is so dull, badly shot, cast and played ... why are they demolishing this show with such a piece ? and should they show a 'free' trip to Singapore as a honeymoon package, then Sandya will accept to move closer to hubby???

enlight me in this sordid affair please ... am so frustrated watching my favourite show turning like that !

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree to a certain extent on what you wrote. i don't like the pace of romance between sandhya and suraj.. there has to be lot more hugging than just touching hands. no more awkward space in between. they are sleeping on the same bed.. that's huge!! time to end the silliness of just touching hands. i am in no hurry of intimacy scenes..i will be happy with Sandhya being more comfortable with her husband..he is not a stranger anymore Sandy!!!!

i also don't like the competition track. but i don't think its badly shot or badly acted by all of the actors. In my opinion this track is not very well written. its lacking something that used to be there during the first 9 months of the show. the poor writing/screenplay in my opinion is definitely contributing to the steady drop in TRPs in the past few weeks.
when i started watching the show, i was impressed by the writers of the show.. the serial had one good track after another.. i could not give it up..i stayed up all night one night to catch up on the past episodes( until 6 am)😊.. they had me hooked.. granted i have not watched many Indian serials but this one felt different to me.. finally i thought something i can be excited about and tell all my friends that are not Indian about it.

up until Ms. Juliana showed up.. everything was going so well. hopefully the writers and the director can get back on the right track of this show and give the audiences another good reason to fall in love with DABH all over again!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I guess every PH wants a long running show and getting higher TRP. For making a serial interesting they include one track after another. For me the till now the tracks they have included till now is good, logical and sensible. I watch many serials ...for me dabh comes on the top of every serial at present. I got attracted towards this serial is because the story was based on the relationship between a husband and wife(diya and bati).but for the past few episodes the main leads suraj and sandhaya are getting just 2-3 minutes on screen space together. I agree that the creatives specially the director is making the filler scene also entertaining but the basic thing is that the story is about diya and bati ...suraj and sandhya. First of all they should increase the screen space between suraj and sandhya and it will increase only when the writer perceives more scenes on the relationship, emotions ,indulgence ,rapport between a husband and wife and give more attention to their communication(either through dialogue or eye expression) and give a well expressive scene which has lot on emotions with a proper ending to the scene.

Anas and Deepika have lot of potential which they have shown in earlier episode...I guess the writers needs to utilize their main leads potential and give them more screen space to them...why not including the tracks where husband wife communication and emotions are necessary which may include the emotions like love, romance ,togetherness ,shyness ,agreeing ,disagreeing ,discussion ,intelligence talks ,giving suggestions ,appreciation etc. .Hope after the Singapore track love will blossom between them and we will get to see some husband wife relating scenes.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: onceinlove

The pace at which the romance has been going on between suraj and sandhya is really dinosaurs years long ... what's the matter ? why is it hard to show a pure, honest, love on screen ? is it sin ? does the indian romance advance at such pace ? guess the indian pooulation would not be what it is now !😉


we are all so happy that Babho has declared peace with Sandhya, the family is quiet and happy, then where is the problem ? Sandhya is a stubborn tuff, gues until she does get her IPS uniform on her, romance won't move a step !!

That's what she wants suraj to understand ...isn't it ? you won't get your piece of cake until you allow me to become thanedaarni ...😛

This whole competition is so dull, badly shot, cast and played ... why are they demolishing this show with such a piece ? and should they show a 'free' trip to Singapore as a honeymoon package, then Sandya will accept to move closer to hubby???

enlight me in this sordid affair please ... am so frustrated watching my favourite show turning like that !


Dear, yeah as you mentioned its gonna take some more time!

For which you need to understand a few things! First, Sandhya was never looking for a marriage at this younger age! so being a wife, home maker is very difficult!

I hope you have seen previous episodes and watched why the used to sleep separately, why they never even hugged/hold hands together!

This is no mere romance story! This is not a romance between young ones who were waiting to be loved! but between a totally different people! You can compare it with Jodha Akbar movie, where both takes time to understand each other!

Bhabho accepting Sandhya is only part of it, the rest is the understanding between SurYa!
For which Bhabho wanted her kid (she is overprotective about Sooraj and since she knows that he is the special piece of her family) Sooraj to get married to a good/understanding girl! and its natural for her to test Sandhya for the same!!

Also you have to consider that this is happening in an average family! in a little part of Pushkar and not in Mumbai or Delhi,...!! with a house where everyone is working and females are unemployed but educated!!

If I'm correct, Sandhya has learned a lot about Sooraj, but there are lot to be learned about Sandhya by Sooraj, and his family!

But i won't agree to the point that Romance won't move a step!
For which they hugged, played in middle of cotton, took a chance to sleep on same mattress, hold hands, and smile at each other! which are evident after the SurYa came back after the bus-fire accident!! they might be described as slow in advancing to next step!!

The trip to S'pore is not shown as a free trip! Its shown as the achievement of Sooraj with his talent with the help of Sandhya! For which you need to look into the efforts put forward by Sandhya , and the old story told by Bhabho about Sooraj and his fear to take part in competition!

The trip also give a time for the family and Sooraj to learn and understand about Sandhya more!
And of course this will lead to SurYa getting closer!

So before you think about why such a track??!!..., think about the situation in which they are in!

The wide acceptance of the show is very evident from its rooted passion! simplicity! and to adhering to the tagline story!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: wish.naren


Dear, yeah as you mentioned its gonna take some more time!

For which you need to understand a few things! First, Sandhya was never looking for a marriage at this younger age! so being a wife, home maker is very difficult!

I hope you have seen previous episodes and watched why the used to sleep separately, why they never even hugged/hold hands together!

This is no mere romance story! This is not a romance between young ones who were waiting to be loved! but between a totally different people! You can compare it with Jodha Akbar movie, where both takes time to understand each other!

Bhabho accepting Sandhya is only part of it, the rest is the understanding between SurYa!
For which Bhabho wanted her kid (she is overprotective about Sooraj and since she knows that he is the special piece of her family) Sooraj to get married to a good/understanding girl! and its natural for her to test Sandhya for the same!!

Also you have to consider that this is happening in an average family! in a little part of Pushkar and not in Mumbai or Delhi,...!! with a house where everyone is working and females are unemployed but educated!!

If I'm correct, Sandhya has learned a lot about Sooraj, but there are lot to be learned about Sandhya by Sooraj, and his family!

But i won't agree to the point that Romance won't move a step!
For which they hugged, played in middle of cotton, took a chance to sleep on same mattress, hold hands, and smile at each other! which are evident after the SurYa came back after the bus-fire accident!! they might be described as slow in advancing to next step!!

The trip to S'pore is not shown as a free trip! Its shown as the achievement of Sooraj with his talent with the help of Sandhya! For which you need to look into the efforts put forward by Sandhya , and the old story told by Bhabho about Sooraj and his fear to take part in competition!

The trip also give a time for the family and Sooraj to learn and understand about Sandhya more!
And of course this will lead to SurYa getting closer!

So before you think about why such a track??!!..., think about the situation in which they are in!

The wide acceptance of the show is very evident from its rooted passion! simplicity! and to adhering to the tagline story!

Vishnu I agree with all of your post here and @bold and underlined
Yes that is so true that Sandhya had to compromise a lot and learn a lot abt Suraj and his family and Suraj also helped and patiently allowed her time to understand his family.
Now as Sandhya has opened up to Suraj but still not completely opened up as she still has to share the secret of her ambition and dreams of fulfilling her parents and her own dream of becoming an IPS
Once Sandhya reveals all her secret dreams to Suraj their relationship will be complete in every sense and they will be more comfortable and open with each other on every issue😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Juna04


Vishnu I agree with all of your post here and @bold and underlined
Yes that is so true that Sandhya had to compromise a lot and learn a lot abt Suraj and his family and Suraj also helped and patiently allowed her time to understand his family.
Now as Sandhya has opened up to Suraj but still not completely opened up as she still has to share the secret of her ambition and dreams of fulfilling her parents and her own dream of becoming an IPS
Once Sandhya reveals all her secret dreams to Suraj their relationship will be complete in every sense and they will be more comfortable and open with each other on every issue😃


Thank you Juna,😊 and happy that you feel the same, and glad to have points added to it,...!!👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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this serial is now bakwas...no story at all...sandyas over reactions,then chaturi and raj kumar,its funny... last week pregnant news and yesterday episode lath mara..how its possible..

and in competition by luck suaj winning...last announcements..


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Posted: 13 years ago
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this serial is now bakwas...no story at all...sandyas over reactions,then chaturi and raj kumar,its funny... last week pregnant news and yesterday episode lath mara..how its possible..


and in competition by luck suaj winning...last announcements..


all serials are bakwas, for which they are in a way mocking the society we live!!😆

Yeah it lacks story, bc'z we all know the story! Sooraj might/for sure will win in S'pore, they realise the IPS dream of Sandhya!, SurYa getting close! and they lived happily ever after!! 😳

But we all are waiting😍 for the moment of how they bring up every situation! nothing more we expect from the cast and crew!!😆

True! Sandhya's over reactions are very funny! for which she is alone with hus and enjoying the date!😳 and she is in cloud no 9 for being accepted at home and for being accepted by Sooraj!!😳 don't u think she has every reason to overreact to anything!!!😆

Don't u get that idea!😉 she was bargaining with her KID😆, really the poor kid didn't even try anything😲! it was her stupid lame attempt to get a chance to visit S'pore!!😆🤣 its a ROFLing moment nothing serious!!😆

areey yaar, kitna baar bolna padtha hei,...! its a Drama, and Drama mein tho drama hi hoga!!😆 and Yeah he won bc'z he did a desi thing and people liked it, 😳 if your taste was different, oh shit!! you just missed a chance to send him back home!!!😉😆

My motto is " Every tear... is a sign of cutting onions, Every smile... is a sign of brushing, Every silence... is a sign of low balance...! Life is simple don't make it complex"

Edited by wish.naren - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aaron123

this serial is now bakwas...no story at all...sandyas over reactions,then chaturi and raj kumar,its funny... last week pregnant news and yesterday episode lath mara..how its possible..


and in competition by luck suaj winning...last announcements..



100 % agree
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't know what the TM is talking about I LOVED every single episode of Diya aur baati

I am sooo impressed.

I just started watching this show and every single episode is very well written.

I love the hand touch scenes eheh they are sooo cutee!!
Sandhya is slowly falling in love with him and she does realize it its soo cute. I hope i get to see some awesome romantic scenes in Singapore.

The track about the competition is for one and only one purpose

Sandhya made it possible for Suraj to realize his dreams and now its Suraj's turn to make it possible for Sandhya to realize her dreams

The only reason why she is not opening up to him as showed many times earlier is her dreams and ambitions.

So once she realizes he is going to help her, that will break the barrier and she will fall for him completely :)

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