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I dont hv issues as long as Aarti's realisations or her every action r her own and not forced upon by a third party like Shobha or Vidhi 😃

Do you guys think if Shobhaji first didn't bring this topic right after their temple convo, she would have accepted or realized love😕 soon, I would say NO..

@Aparna: You raise a valid point and I think in fact it is the point. I actually said this earlier today that Aarti is not actually progressing because she is "in love" with Yash the same way she loved Ansh before the kidnapping happened and she loosened her hold. She needs to feel needed and he does the trick. Pragmatically speaking, it is way too early in the story for Aarti to be in love for real. This is more like a complex mix of feelings that she wants to believe is love because the truth is that Yash gaining her trust with concern to Ansh, so decidedly, making it essential for her to let go a little and set Ansh free, plus the final realisation that Prashant was no longer part of her life, left a huge vacuum, and vacuum sucks in matter. At first she tried to fill the vacuum with Palak's birthday but that totally blew up in her face and now she feels the vacuum filling with her self-satisfaction on working with Yash and being taken seriously as a professional and an artist. Yash is the cause of this fulfillment, and he also happens to be a vulnerable baby who needs taking care of so Aarti is absolutely drawn to him from both ends, and at a surface level, she is showing the (and by the, I obviously mean Shobha's) signs of "love."

This is going to be a long climb for both of these two and I am pretty convinced that this "falling in love" business is more of Aarti fooling herself, but with genuine feelings respect and self-love growing at the same time. Prashant is the only one who can give her a reality check so I look forward to seeing what happens when he comes back.

Originally posted by: bbbccc

Do you guys think if Shobhaji first didn't bring this topic right after their temple convo, she would have accepted or realized love😕 soon, I would say NO..

When she came back she knew her stand in his life and even accepted it. But they again pushed her into same trap😕 or was this trap even built at the time, I mean her whole focus was Palak, so how and where it happened so all of sudden..

They always love to portray women to be weaker, but here Aarti is not just a woman, she is a mother and mothers are never weak😕

If everything fall again apart like everything so far, where does it leave Ansh or Payal?? They have to build story around Yash..

I hope they get back on Palak part too while adding this new one..They kind of overlooked that completely last week..

Agree with you totally. Based on the sequence of events, Aarti plans a party for Palak based on a lie, then Palak and Yash are upset with Aarti and Yash wants to do basically undo his second marriage by still doing the first one's Shraadh. Then everyone decides Aarti is in love.

Huh?? Looks like we zoomed through a couple of months of logic?

@Veena :Aarti realised a bit even before Shobha brainwashed her ..remember she got a bit insecure seeing that Yash-Arpita video clip and asked herself whats happening to me 😉😳...So changes started taking place in her heart before only 😳

Originally posted by: tarantulla_p

@Red, @Indu, I hear you guys- am just not convinced the treatment will be so gentle based on prior record. Aarti has been left out as a fool many times by the CVs - through out the Palak Bday build up there was a mystery of she looks so calm, maybe she has something up her sleeve and she never did.

Tell you what though, I can say I will keep an open mind and attack actual execution flaws as always 😉

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

@Aparna: You raise a valid point and I think in fact it is the point. I actually said this earlier today that Aarti is not actually progressing because she is "in love" with Yash the same way she loved Ansh before the kidnapping happened and she loosened her hold. She needs to feel needed and he does the trick. Pragmatically speaking, it is way too early in the story for Aarti to be in love for real. This is more like a complex mix of feelings that she wants to believe is love because the truth is that Yash gaining her trust with concern to Ansh, so decidedly, making it essential for her to let go a little and set Ansh free, plus the final realisation that Prashant was no longer part of her life, left a huge vacuum, and vacuum sucks in matter. At first she tried to fill the vacuum with Palak's birthday but that totally blew up in her face and now she feels the vacuum filling with her self-satisfaction on working with Yash and being taken seriously as a professional and an artist. Yash is the cause of this fulfillment, and he also happens to be a vulnerable baby who needs taking care of so Aarti is absolutely drawn to him from both ends, and at a surface level, she is showing the (and by the, I obviously mean Shobha's) signs of "love."

This is going to be a long climb for both of these two and I am pretty convinced that this "falling in love" business is more of Aarti fooling herself, but with genuine feelings respect and self-love growing at the same time. Prashant is the only one who can give her a reality check so I look forward to seeing what happens when he comes back.

@Samana, re:bold, Amen.

Here is the new thread, everyone
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www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3069737