Originally posted by: cutebarun
This isnt a bashing post. Just a take on what i feel, where i can be wrong.
We know Kushi has a family, who adopted her n loves her as the daughter. Yes, she gets scolded or chided by buaji or Garima, bt its d same way my mother scolds me..with love...
But ARNAV has a family which seems like he Sponsers n takes care of. No one is worried for the Sponser... Now i knw why Arnav is lonely n orphaned despite having a family.
Is Arnav related to that family even? Frm the beginning, Nani who is caring n sugarcoat toned towards every1, n even Laxmiji... Has reprimanded n taunted him for everything... She never behaves to him like he is her 27 or 28 yr old grandson, who has a broken childhood n lost his mother. She treats him like the head of d family, like a 50yr old man who has to bottle up his emotions n is only an ATM for the family. She is worried when Laxmi doesnt eat, bt doesnt care whether Arnav ever ate or slept.. Remember d scene, where she called Arnav, to tel dat, Kushi hasnt ate n is waiting for him. She for once, didnt ask, did you eat!
Sorry I disagree with the fact that she doesnt care about Arnav. He is her grandson. She knows how Arnav is; she raised him. She knows he is gonna eat when he wants to and do what he wants. She knows he is a grown man. She has always worried about him; but they are very different in their thinking so they disagree a lot with each other. She knows Anjali is there to take care of him no matter what. Also, Arnav has always done what he wants to do and when he wants to do; he has behaved like a spoiled brat who wants everything according to him. He always thinks he is right no matter what. Nani is kinda old school so always tries to stop him from doing certain things that she thinks are wrong, but he goes against her. So she is strict with him and scolds him. She behaves like his mother who doesn't want him going out of control. She always tries to show him what is wrong and what is right. If you watch the starting episodes and Lavanaya track, their relationship comes to light. Sometimes, I feel like she is his father who is guiding him; but like most fathers and sons, they disagree a lot and thus fight. But she has always worried about him.She worries that he is going on a wrong path as he just cares about his success and doesn't care about other people's feelings except for his di's. She has never actually treated him like an ATM machine; she stops him from wasting money on other people.
Not Analysing Anjali, since that is done everywhere.
Look at d reaction of the family when Arnav fainted n compare it with d fainting sessions/ hurt sessions of Kushi. When Arnav fainted, all came down hearing Kushi's voice. Bt, it was just Anjali who sat beside him n made him eat... Not even 1 member of his family was there.
Again, Nani realizes each n evry pain of Kushi, n comforts her. Bt, has Nani ever seen Arnav's pain? Ever comforted him? Dont tel me dat Arnav doesnt show his pain.. A mother's heart doesnt need the child's words or tears to knw dat he is hurt.
Now Look at Akash... Was he ever worried abt Arnav? No, i'm not just talking abt the kidnapping track.
Akash actually looks upto Arnav; he is like his role model. Like every little kid wants to be like his/her older siblings, Akash is just like that. For him,Arnav's word means everything. Even during his wedding, he didn't start the wedding until Arnav was there with him. He has always said that whatever Bhai says, goes. This the reason Arnav married Khushi by force, b/c he knew that if he told Akash to not marry Payal, Akash would back off right away without asking him a single question. Akash really respects Arnav. Arnav is like a superman for him lol.
Now NK, is searching for his kidnappd cousin, whose life is in danger. Bt, why do i feel frm each of his 'gleeful' ideas that he is searching for His Friend Kushi's favrite 'toy', that shyam snatchd away... Not worried for his brother.
How can you even say that? He is doing whatever he can to find Arnav. I never got the feeling that hes doing all this just b/c of Khushi. Yea he is a funny character but doesn't mean he doesn't care about his brother.
Mami consols Kushi. Bt wat abt Arnav? Was she just saving Kushi's husband? Mami saw, Arnav being carried like a piece of wood by the kidnappers, bt did she think of his life?
Mammi has never cared about Khushi that much and I don't know if she ever will. The only reason she is helping Khushi is because of Arnav. She wants to see her nephew safe and would do anything for that. She is the one who sold all her jewellery so that Arnav can have money to start his own business (and we know how much she lovesss her jewellery). She has always supported him no matter what.
No wonder Arnav is emotionaly depended on Anjali. In his family, she is d only one who made him feel dat 'he is lovd'.
ARNAV is heartless, right? How many hearts in his family opend up to lov him...
Arnav knows everyone loves him that's why he acts like an idiot with him. He knows his family is always gonna be there for him. But that doesn't give him the right to act so rudely to everyone. Nani was worried about Arnav marrying Lavanya b/c she thought she was not right for him; but agreed to give her a chance and then agreed to their marriage. Akash didn't wanna go to his honeymoon because Arnav "had work". The whole family tried to give them "honeymoon" in the RM. The whole family tries to do small things to make each other happy.
Arnav doesnt knw d value of love, right? How many of them showd him unconditional love!
ARNAV doesnt knw how to express his feelings..right?
A Child reflects only what is shown to him.
Everyone expresses their love to each other in their family, but Arnav just thinks love is stupid. He treats family just the way he treats outside people; but they still stick by him.
So... ARNAV is an Orphan who Owns a family... Where he is their last priority.
Sory guys, if i ofended any1... Feel free to coment.
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