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This isnt a bashing post. Just a take on what i feel, where i can be wrong.
We know Kushi has a family, who adopted her n loves her as the daughter. Yes, she gets scolded or chided by buaji or Garima, bt its d same way my mother scolds me..with love...
But ARNAV has a family which seems like he Sponsers n takes care of. No one is worried for the Sponser... Now i knw why Arnav is lonely n orphaned despite having a family.
Is Arnav related to that family even? Frm the beginning, Nani who is caring n sugarcoat toned towards every1, n even Laxmiji... Has reprimanded n taunted him for everything... She never behaves to him like he is her 27 or 28 yr old grandson, who has a broken childhood n lost his mother. She treats him like the head of d family, like a 50yr old man who has to bottle up his emotions n is only an ATM for the family. She is worried when Laxmi doesnt eat, bt doesnt care whether Arnav ever ate or slept.. Remember d scene, where she called Arnav, to tel dat, Kushi hasnt ate n is waiting for him. She for once, didnt ask, did you eat!
Not Analysing Anjali, since that is done everywhere.
Look at d reaction of the family when Arnav fainted n compare it with d fainting sessions/ hurt sessions of Kushi. When Arnav fainted, all came down hearing Kushi's voice. Bt, it was just Anjali who sat beside him n made him eat... Not even 1 member of his family was there.
Again, Nani realizes each n evry pain of Kushi, n comforts her. Bt, has Nani ever seen Arnav's pain? Ever comforted him? Dont tel me dat Arnav doesnt show his pain.. A mother's heart doesnt need the child's words or tears to knw dat he is hurt.
Now Look at Akash... Was he ever worried abt Arnav? No, i'm not just talking abt the kidnapping track.
Now NK, is searching for his kidnappd cousin, whose life is in danger. Bt, why do i feel frm each of his 'gleeful' ideas that he is searching for His Friend Kushi's favrite 'toy', that shyam snatchd away... Not worried for his brother.
Mami consols Kushi. Bt wat abt Arnav? Was she just saving Kushi's husband? Mami saw, Arnav being carried like a piece of wood by the kidnappers, bt did she think of his life?
No wonder Arnav is emotionaly depended on Anjali. In his family, she is d only one who made him feel dat 'he is lovd'.
ARNAV is heartless, right? How many hearts in his family opend up to lov him...
Arnav doesnt knw d value of love, right? How many of them showd him unconditional love!
ARNAV doesnt knw how to express his feelings..right?
A Child reflects only what is shown to him.
So... ARNAV is an Orphan who Owns a family... Where he is their last priority.
Sory guys, if i ofended any1... Feel free to coment.
We know Kushi has a family, who adopted her n loves her as the daughter. Yes, she gets scolded or chided by buaji or Garima, bt its d same way my mother scolds me..with love...
But ARNAV has a family which seems like he Sponsers n takes care of. No one is worried for the Sponser... Now i knw why Arnav is lonely n orphaned despite having a family.
Is Arnav related to that family even? Frm the beginning, Nani who is caring n sugarcoat toned towards every1, n even Laxmiji... Has reprimanded n taunted him for everything... She never behaves to him like he is her 27 or 28 yr old grandson, who has a broken childhood n lost his mother. She treats him like the head of d family, like a 50yr old man who has to bottle up his emotions n is only an ATM for the family. She is worried when Laxmi doesnt eat, bt doesnt care whether Arnav ever ate or slept.. Remember d scene, where she called Arnav, to tel dat, Kushi hasnt ate n is waiting for him. She for once, didnt ask, did you eat!
Not Analysing Anjali, since that is done everywhere.
Look at d reaction of the family when Arnav fainted n compare it with d fainting sessions/ hurt sessions of Kushi. When Arnav fainted, all came down hearing Kushi's voice. Bt, it was just Anjali who sat beside him n made him eat... Not even 1 member of his family was there.
Again, Nani realizes each n evry pain of Kushi, n comforts her. Bt, has Nani ever seen Arnav's pain? Ever comforted him? Dont tel me dat Arnav doesnt show his pain.. A mother's heart doesnt need the child's words or tears to knw dat he is hurt.
Now Look at Akash... Was he ever worried abt Arnav? No, i'm not just talking abt the kidnapping track.
Now NK, is searching for his kidnappd cousin, whose life is in danger. Bt, why do i feel frm each of his 'gleeful' ideas that he is searching for His Friend Kushi's favrite 'toy', that shyam snatchd away... Not worried for his brother.
Mami consols Kushi. Bt wat abt Arnav? Was she just saving Kushi's husband? Mami saw, Arnav being carried like a piece of wood by the kidnappers, bt did she think of his life?
No wonder Arnav is emotionaly depended on Anjali. In his family, she is d only one who made him feel dat 'he is lovd'.
ARNAV is heartless, right? How many hearts in his family opend up to lov him...
Arnav doesnt knw d value of love, right? How many of them showd him unconditional love!
ARNAV doesnt knw how to express his feelings..right?
A Child reflects only what is shown to him.
So... ARNAV is an Orphan who Owns a family... Where he is their last priority.
Sory guys, if i ofended any1... Feel free to coment.
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