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Originally posted by: Gurtiluv
Yash was overconfident didnt take Aarti's opinion into consideration. He didnt even care about Ansh's feeling since he was scared but Yash sent him to school anyway. I think Aarti approached this the right way since she got everyones consent and really didnt lie to Palak. Yes Palak might have interpreted something else. But maybe Aarti's plan is to make Palak realize that she is her true mother and not her enemy. So the only thing that can backfire is the identity part because it is wrong to change your identity for whatever reason. So I think Aarti's plan will make Yash furious and thatz it. But he will come to realize that she did all this for his daughter and he should respect that.
There is a difference though. Ansh was never really scared of the school initially but aarti couldn't hide her nervousness in front of him.Instead of making him feel at ease, she frightened him. After that, the incident with Palak happened which scared Ansh.Yash handled it with Ansh but aarti made no attempt to make him confident. Then when the next day Ansh starts crying, Yash sent him to school forcibly becoz he thought it was aarti whose insecurities were creating a problem. Of course Yash was wrong, but aarti was wrong too. And Yash never knew this could lead to something like kidnapping.
In this case, its much more serious becoz Aarti knows Palak became ill after arpita died. Every member of the family has warned her that Palak should not get traumatized.Yes, her approach was right. She wasn't overconfident like Yash, but still what she promised was a lie. She knew very well that Palak considered only Arpita her mom, and she promised her that her mom would cm back.so it was a lie.Unless aarti has an actual plan to make Palak get the much req arpita closure, i think this plan of dressing up as arpita and taking it for granted that Palak would start seeing arpita in her is silly.Aarti should know that if her plan backfires and it has every chance to, Palak might even become severely ill! In this case also, as we see, Aarti does not really take Yash's opinion, does she? She asks his permission to celebrate, yes! but she conveniently hides from him what she promised to Palak to get her to agree for the party! And that is the most imp thing, since it could hv grave repercussions! In such a case, I don't find any diff b/w Yash forcing Ansh to school and Aarti hiding the all imp fact from yash and lying to Palak. The only difference is Yash was forceful , rude, and too strict with both aarti and Ansh, while aarti is not.But Aarti is making the exact same mistake as Yash.
Yash's intention to change Ansh's school was right, his approach was wrong. Similarly aarti's intention of making Palak celebrate her birthday is right, but her approach is wrong. Not to forget another similarity b/w the two situations.like aarti was wrong in ansh''s situation, Yash is at fault now. he made no attempt with palak ever!
However, I do hope she has a plan...that is a real plan..and not this foolish idea of making Palak accept her as arpita if she came dressed as her.If she has a real plan, i take back my words about her. And I am really hoping she has a plan, for Palak's sake. That poor child deserves happiness. It was so pleasing to see her smiling yesterday. I sincerely hope, she does not get hurt.
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