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Posted: 13 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

Yash is shown as a righteous person! (Jai Shri Ram) he simply hates lies!!!! but I think if Aarti tells him the truth today, it will put him in an ajeeb kashmakash...ie to tell his parents or not! Maybe he will understand that sometimes some things are better kept secret...things that may constitute as lying but those even if kept secret will not hurt anybody!!!! Hope you understand what i mean???

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ya u r right bcs Yash's family is very weird especially his parents. so they will declare 4tha MAHAYUDDHA after knowing her truth.😆😆😆 but i don't think Yash will get hurt or something after knowing Aarti is divorcee. or i don't think he feels he has to tell that truth to his parents bcs
1. he knows his parents very well. hw much orthodox,status conscious they r
2. this is their private matter. if he doesn't have any problem with her truth then he doesn't care for others.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SylvaniaLUX

How ever one justifies.. Arthi is lying by omission 😳.. It may be for the greater good as per Shobha..but all skeletons in the closet do have the habit of coming out one time or another. Then Yash may think she cheated by not placing her trust in him preferring to keep the facts hidden from him. 😊


this is depend on hw he will take this. ya may be first he will think as u said she cheated by not placing her trust in him preferring to keep the facts hidden from him.

but if she explain him that she didn't tell him bcs she scared of loosing him for ever. then may be he will understand her fear and pov. and then will believe her. 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with all your points. she is 100% committed with Yash and is not cheating on him with Prashant. She has nothing to do with him anymore.

But here the story is different. they specifically asked for a widow and these guys lied to them about her status. this is 100% lying.

if the topic didnt come up, they didnt need to say anything about Prashant. he doesnt matter anymore. but if asked, i believe they should know the truth.

imagine for any reason yash sees aarti with prashant and thats when he hears that he is her ex husband (doesnt matter if aarti is fighting with him) but yash will never be able to get that image out of his head.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB


But that should be Yash's decision. Who is aarti to take that decision for him? She can't expect yash to support her and deceive him.Because this indeed is deception! Let Yash decide once he knows the truth whether he should tell his parents or not. AArti is not hiding the truth thinking about yash's plight, she is thinking of her own plight. In fact, not AArti but Shobha is thinking of aarti's plight, and if aarti agrees with Shobha, she will also be ultimately doing a selfish act!

And this secret is going to hurt Yash. He will be terribly disillusioned. In fact he might even question whether Aarti is a good mother or not. A person who can hide such a huge truth from her husband, might not be able to give the right values to children. WE can't escape the fact that It is bad to tell lies!😆


i don't think Ria he will react this way as u mentioned here. bcs as per his character he is very matured,understanding and most of all neutral,stable minded person. so may be he will get shock after hearing this but after thinking over it may be he will understand her situation and pov.
ya but don't know what is in CV's mind😆😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maashlover

👍🏼I M ALSO AGREE WITH ALL OF U. YASH IS SO MUCH UNDERSTANDING PERSON. HE UNDERSTANDS AARTI'S FEELING. BUT HIS FAMILY IS SO DRAMATIC SPECIALY BUAJI.

VO KABHI BHI YASH & AARTI KO MILNE NAHI DEGI. PAR VO DONO MILKE RAHENGE. BUT NOW I DON'T THINK THE TRUTH WILL BE COME AGAINST YASH.


ya totally agree with u.😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: zan101

agree with u... I don't think that Aarti's intention is cheating Yash...
But a person like Yash Sindhiya live with lots of principals.. So some times he might think that Aarti cheated him..no matter How bitter her past was she was not a vidava.. So it might come inbetiween them as a storm.. But i don't think Aarti is cheating as her 1st husband is dead for her.. She don't want that past back.. Even she named her son as Ansh Yash Sindhiya...


ya principles r different in this situation. this is her fear of loosing him for ever. this is not like she is doing something wrong and then hiding from him. this is abt her past. so i don't think his principles will come btw this situation.

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