is it really cheating???

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i don't understand why people or even Aarti herself think that she cheated Yash. but i don't think so...Prashant is her past. she had very painful,sad,depressing journey with him. and i think every person had some painful past in their life. some times some incidences r that much painful that we couldn't share them with anyone...that doesn't mean we cheated them.
and after all she is giving her 100% to Yash and his family,she accepted them whole heartedly. she is loyal,committed with him. then what is wrong in it if she doesn't want to discuss her past with Yash??? which is very painful,sad,worst than hell.
i don't think she cheated with him. may be many things Yash had which he also couldn't share with Aarti or any one.u never know. so that doesn't mean he cheated with her or others.
cheating which means that which affect ur persent or future life. like Pratik's false promise to Paridhi... but Aarti's past is not cheating with Yash for me at least.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree to some extent Aditti. But here, the matter isn't of cheating- it is of hiding a truth-or in simple words-lying.

Lies can to some extent be calculated as one of the means to cheat and lies can always bring the worst in life deciding and depending situations like AarYa's.

I'd prefer Aarti telling Yash about her truth very soon and not conceal it further like hwat Shobha said but as you have already mentioned that:she is loyal,committed with him, I would really hope that Yash just hears her out and trusts in her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree with you i think if she will tell yash there relation will be more strong and yash will not feel bad when he will know the truth he will understand her i feel that yash as started has a feeling for her
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yash is shown as a righteous person! (Jai Shri Ram) he simply hates lies!!!! but I think if Aarti tells him the truth today, it will put him in an ajeeb kashmakash...ie to tell his parents or not! Maybe he will understand that sometimes some things are better kept secret...things that may constitute as lying but those even if kept secret will not hurt anybody!!!! Hope you understand what i mean???

Please comment!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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How ever one justifies.. Arthi is lying by omission 😳.. It may be for the greater good as per Shobha..but all skeletons in the closet do have the habit of coming out one time or another. Then Yash may think she cheated by not placing her trust in him preferring to keep the facts hidden from him. 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Loveforlife

Yash is shown as a righteous person! (Jai Shri Ram) he simply hates lies!!!! but I think if Aarti tells him the truth today, it will put him in an ajeeb kashmakash...ie to tell his parents or not! Maybe he will understand that sometimes some things are better kept secret...things that may constitute as lying but those even if kept secret will not hurt anybody!!!! Hope you understand what i mean???

Please comment!!


But that should be Yash's decision. Who is aarti to take that decision for him? She can't expect yash to support her and deceive him.Because this indeed is deception! Let Yash decide once he knows the truth whether he should tell his parents or not. AArti is not hiding the truth thinking about yash's plight, she is thinking of her own plight. In fact, not AArti but Shobha is thinking of aarti's plight, and if aarti agrees with Shobha, she will also be ultimately doing a selfish act!

And this secret is going to hurt Yash. He will be terribly disillusioned. In fact he might even question whether Aarti is a good mother or not. A person who can hide such a huge truth from her husband, might not be able to give the right values to children. WE can't escape the fact that It is bad to tell lies!😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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👍🏼I M ALSO AGREE WITH ALL OF U. YASH IS SO MUCH UNDERSTANDING PERSON. HE UNDERSTANDS AARTI'S FEELING. BUT HIS FAMILY IS SO DRAMATIC SPECIALY BUAJI.

VO KABHI BHI YASH & AARTI KO MILNE NAHI DEGI. PAR VO DONO MILKE RAHENGE. BUT NOW I DON'T THINK THE TRUTH WILL BE COME AGAINST YASH.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree with u... I don't think that Aarti's intention is cheating Yash...
But a person like Yash Sindhiya live with lots of principals.. So some times he might think that Aarti cheated him..no matter How bitter her past was she was not a vidava.. So it might come inbetiween them as a storm.. But i don't think Aarti is cheating as her 1st husband is dead for her.. She don't want that past back.. Even she named her son as Ansh Yash Sindhiya...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: SallyAmanda

I agree to some extent Aditti. But here, the matter isn't of cheating- it is of hiding a truth-or in simple words-lying.


Lies can to some extent be calculated as one of the means to cheat and lies can always bring the worst in life deciding and depending situations like AarYa's.

I'd prefer Aarti telling Yash about her truth very soon and not conceal it further like hwat Shobha said but as you have already mentioned that:she is loyal,committed with him, I would really hope that Yash just hears her out and trusts in her.


i also think same like u. which i noticed abt his character i don't think he will make issue of this truth. at least his character suggests this.don't know what will CV"s show us😆😆
but as per his character may be his reaction will 'ok.so what???' bcs he is like he believes in present and don't much care abt anyones past...but her ex-status matters his family. i don't think he also think same way like his parents. ya i am sure his parents will declare 4th MAHAYUDDHA after knowing her truth😆😆😆.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: hansa2

i agree with you i think if she will tell yash there relation will be more strong and yash will not feel bad when he will know the truth he will understand her i feel that yash as started has a feeling for her


ya that's true that their relation will be more strong but that doesn't mean if she will hide he will create issue abt her ex-status after knowing it ...😛

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