supporting gauri!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Anitha

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Posted: 13 years ago

i seriously donot understand on wat terms people r supporting gauri...i mean if nt supporting dey r sayin her acts to b right...earlier gauri used to bash anandi...as we al liked anandi v saw da real gauri n judged her crctly...but nw v hate both jagya n gauri so evryone is comparin da both n decidin dat gauri is right...evry1 jus sayin dat jagya deserves dis frm gauri..yes he deserves all dis but DIS DOESNT MAKE GAURI RIGHT...

c i jus wanna say sumthin a wife n husband relation is so precious wid lots f love n adjustments n sacrifices...but both f dem here r jus SELFISH...evn wen a child does a mistake...mother scolds da child but later she herself goes n pampers da child n shows him da right path...but she doesnt shut da doors on him n leave him unfeeded...so as per my POV gauri shud adjust at times n evn jagya shud adjust but both r not doin so...

if gauri hav dat much f skills as shez a MS she can go banglore wid jagya na as she can get a job of her level evn der...but shez nt ready to adjust fr her husbands happiness why???? here m nt supporting evn jagya as he also shudnt force her to leave a gud job fr his own selfish reason...both f dem r selfish yaar...i don lik people sayin gauri crct as dey donot like da behavior f jagya...🥱😕

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Blukitten

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Posted: 13 years ago

Gauri and jagya both are wrong at their respective places.
Jagya is being egoistic,MCP...he's running away from reality.He wants a better job just to compete with Gauri.
Gauri is wrong in being a showoff and is not handling the situation correctly...here the question is if jagya is intrested in going to bangalore he can go alone also...once he gets settled gets a hang of new job then later on Gauri can join him.
Leaving a good job just coz her husband has got a new job with unknown benefits is stupidity...what if jagya decides to leave bangalore coz he dosent like the new hospital...what would gauri do then ??
she would also become jobless.Its stupid to leave well paying job for a dream.
Here instead of shouting a blaming each other they should sit and discuss all possible scenarios then come to a decision.Its not abt who should sacrifice Its about best decision for both of them.
thts what a sensible husband wife would do...but gaga has never been a sensible couple 😛

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Payal

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Posted: 13 years ago

they both are selfish and mean minded...now anandi nto in pictur their true colour are coming out...before for evrything,i am amazed they ditn blamed anandi if they not geting urine or they doing poty,they sue to balme anandi and their indefreces was hiden behind it and otehr was not able to see nad understand and its always easy to balme on oterhs and be free,but now no anandi..so they are now facing each other with no one in btwn as punch bag...so nwo they nto able to undrestand hwo to work out in the stiky situation...lolzzz..they both compliment each pther quit nicely...she being gauri mata and he being jagat pita ji maharaj 👏 👏 true example of compliementing spouce 🤣 🤣 🤣

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Ashiyana

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: anitha3
i seriously donot understand on wat terms people r supporting gauri...i mean if nt supporting dey r sayin her acts to b right...earlier gauri used to bash anandi...as we al liked anandi v saw da real gauri n judged her crctly...but nw v hate both jagya n gauri so evryone is comparin da both n decidin dat gauri is right...evry1 jus sayin dat jagya deserves dis frm gauri..yes he deserves all dis but DIS DOESNT MAKE GAURI RIGHT...

c i jus wanna say sumthin a wife n husband relation is so precious wid lots f love n adjustments n sacrifices...but both f dem here r jus SELFISH...evn wen a child does a mistake...mother scolds da child but later she herself goes n pampers da child n shows him da right path...but she doesnt shut da doors on him n leave him unfeeded...so as per my POV gauri shud adjust at times n evn jagya shud adjust but both r not doin so...

if gauri hav dat much f skills as shez a MS she can go banglore wid jagya na as she can get a job of her level evn der...but shez nt ready to adjust fr her husbands happiness why???? here m nt supporting evn jagya as he also shudnt force her to leave a gud job fr his own selfish reason...both f dem r selfish yaar...i don lik people sayin gauri crct as dey donot like da behavior f jagya...🥱😕

I've read a lot of different topic about Gauri being right and wrong. In my personal opinion I think she wants Jagat to excel in his career. To make a decision, take charge of the situation and be self motivated. Jagat has been pampered since childhood, he has never really seen struggle or hard time like Gauri has. She has worked hard (though she was supported financially only in EDUCATION) in life to get where she is today. Even though her bade papa (through Bhariv) helped her financially it was her decision and hard work that she got where she is today. She could of gone into another field and be happy with a job or even gotten married to someone else. He only helped her in excelling in her education because she had a drive to learn and do better. She is a self motivated person. she is a ambitious person.

Now for Jagat.. we all have seen his behavior. He has done things that only suits him. Jagat is an adult and should be treated like one. Making a huge decision of moving their entire life to a new city should be take together not only on one persons convince. He should of spoken to her before saying yes to taking a job. I feel he needs to complain about something and so he is making excuses. Has he really tired looking for a job? Made an effort?

Like you mentioned about a mother and a child relationship and scolding him.. I'm sorry to say but they are married. If Jagat does anything wrong why should Gauri go after him. He is an adult and should take responsibilities of his own action rather it is right or wrong. She wants to see him excel in life and his career which isn't wrong at all. Even if he has a MBBS degree he should do something reputable instead of watching tv or hanging out with friends all day long.

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sreevask

@sreevask

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Posted: 13 years ago

Hard work is not done 4 the sake of society...self development @ the cost of some other woman's marital life , torturing her for no reason...lying,disrespect,what not!
if all the sins can b balanced by hardwork, then every one becomes criminal & completes higher education to balance crimes.

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NoOne12

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Posted: 13 years ago

Honestly you have hit the nail...

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garapati

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Posted: 13 years ago

@Ashiyana

As you said gauri wants jagya to excel in his career, this is not not right way. Taunting him you are just MBBS, I am MS and so on. He is good/bad recently he lost everyone from his family, ofcourse his relations with his family is always strained but he still had a hope. Now he is sure that no one is ok to forgive him in his lifetime. If she really loves him as she claims she should be considerate about this. He was always nice to Gauri during miscarriage track he could have easily said this is your fault Gauri ( I am sure if Gauri is in place of Jagya she would have surely sai I told you so on his face), he was very caring towards her. He even helped her during her exams, he dint feel jealous at that time.

If we want a relationship to work even though we are right we have to adjust sometimes for our spouse/partner, and you shouldn't even keep a count on it.

I dont say that she have to quit her job and accompany him to banglore. But she could atleast stayed calm and let him know that he should try that opportunity mean while she will be in Mumbai.

If she sees Sumitra now and sumitra reminds her challenge, I am sure she will be more understanding, loving and caring wife again. You shouldn't act loving and caring but you should feel it.

I hate Jagya to the core, his screen presence make me to forward the video, even then I dont think she is right.

Edited by garapati - 13 years ago