Marriage a scary thought, not joking - Page 3

u noe i am 15 i am not married but wat i can tell is that there r marriages like that but u know if it makes u feel any better not all r like that n when u r gettin married dont marry a stranger my cousin got married to this child hood frand it was an arranged marriage but she had known him most of her life n knew he wasnt marry her cuz of money she knew most of his habits like he didnt smoke but did drink here n there same thing went with my parents they were neighbours n ended up gettin married when u plan to get married into a family u sort of know n like most ppl said to u dont rush in to it n look behind his looks n charm hope that made u feel better also i sort of went through that phase once too but i my mom told me she wasnt gonna let jus anyone get me married to me!

Originally posted by: lil_isha15

u noe i am 15 i am not married but wat i can tell is that there r marriages like that but u know if it makes u feel any better not all r like that n when u r gettin married dont marry a stranger my cousin got married to this child hood frand it was an arranged marriage but she had known him most of her life n knew he wasnt marry her cuz of money she knew most of his habits like he didnt smoke but did drink here n there same thing went with my parents they were neighbours n ended up gettin married when u plan to get married into a family u sort of know n like most ppl said to u dont rush in to it n look behind his looks n charm hope that made u feel better

Thanks for the advice but I don't think my parents would let me marry any of the guys I know😉. And yeah I'll take my time, as much as I can get. You know whats funny? Most of the guys that are my age, they are like my brothers. Their moms love me so much they have to come to my house for raksha bandhan, every year.😆😆

Originally posted by: punjabi#1

Alot of my friends moms have said the same thing about getting killed for money thing to them. I mean our property alone is worth a few million and our business is still growing. Where I live almost all Indians are very rich. I have heard that actual happens, one of friends friend was killed by her husband for money.... 😭

aww hun don't worry believe in god and he will send a rite guy for you....i am not scared of marriage......plus i would like to get married to a guy who loves me....not the guy i love.......the who will love me will take care of ma' happiness. I don't believe in love n all that but if someone who really likes me not my wealth than i will have no problem wid it.....and the best way to prevent ur self from getting killed by ur husbandcis to get married to a equally ritch person😊

hope it helped dear

love,

Aragon

Hi sweety pies.... Look you are only 16s and 17s you don't need to worry about marriage right now. Your primary focus should be your education. Although Im a little older than you I haven't experinced marriage myself but I am in line for it pretty soon. My causin just got married and two of them got engaged and for my sis they are searching so... in like a year or two its my turn. Right now I have made my education my primary goal since I am going to be starting medical school in a year. Sometimes it helps to focus other things to take your mind off of it. I have been thinking about marriage too but I've learned to balance it out as well.

I think you should start focusing on your education and social life like friends and family. And when the time comes you'll know to start thinking about marriage.

The other thing I wanna say to you is that the story line that goes in this soaps are not reality. These soaps are made to take you up and down on a roller coster of emotions, which will make you think like marriages and husbands and your future. You need to learn how to controll them as well as realize that the guy your family will chose for you, they are not just going to choose someone off the streets you know. They will find out his family and background before they agree to it. So.... sweet pe don't worry and take the husband killing you for your money off your mind.

I hope this helps...

SP