Marriage a scary thought, not joking

I use to love the idea of getting married and always believed I would have a nice married life. But tday I watched like all the hindi soaps and in almost all of them marriages are going through rough patches, break up and stuff. I then wondered would that happen in my life? I treid to make myself feel better by reminding myself that I am born in a rich family, I am a American citizen, look okay, I love to cook and people around me all love me (even stranger are instantly in love with my personality). As I tried to cheer myself up, my mom came and started talking to me. First she is all like that everything is my brothers(the house and all our businesses and everything), I work equal hard at home and work, and that I well most likely take care of them when they are old. Upon me getting mad I was told that my husband would proable kill me for my money if they give me anything. My daddy has already written in his will that I get half of everything when he dies.

Also,In the past week I have been really close to the marriage issue my close cousin is getting married (she is unhappy), there is talk of my brothers marriage. I have had to counsle a lady whos marriage is going horrible and she can't even do anything because she is wholly dependent on her husband and she has children. I mean marriage is not looking very good to be in real life or tv.

But why does a women always gets the rare end of the deal? WHy are guys so lukcy? My husband wouldn't actually kill me for my money would he?

I guess I am the only one with this problem. 😆 I thought I'd see how all the girls felt about this topic but oh well.

are you being serious, or was ur post a joke!?

sweetie........... i am confused!!

i understand u feel scared about marriage...

Originally posted by: ~Pachu*n*Abhi~

It isn't a scary thought n you can't like rely on these soaps to give u an inside life on relationships

They are 99.9% false...and...the .01% is true but only to an extent...so...don't think that when u get married OMG...this will happen...it won't!

Plus you don't know the future!

i agree! take life as it comes... these soaps are just for entertainment! Be positive 😉

I am actually being seriuos!

Alot of my friends moms have said the same thing about getting killed for money thing to them. I mean our property alone is worth a few million and our business is still growing. Where I live almost all Indians are very rich. I have heard that actual happens, one of friends friend was killed by her husband for money.... 😭

Originally posted by: vaidahip

i agree! take life as it comes... these soaps are just for entertainment! Be positive 😉

But the story lines have to come from some where right? What if I am one the unlucky .01 %?

In the past week I have been really close to the marriage issue my close cousin is getting married (she is unhappy), there is talk of my brothers marriage. I have had to counsle a lady whos marriage is going horrible and she can't even do anything because she is wholly dependent on her husband and she has children. I mean marriage is not look very good to be in real life or tv.