I really feel sorry for Ovi

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Posted: 13 years ago
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she has built her future around Arjun, and it seems like he was so wrapped up in work that he also went along...Purvi just happened , when Ovi finds out, she will be very hurt. Arjun was never Purvi's boyfriend and it is not Purvi's fault for falling for the guy- she did not know he was betrothed to another. It is all very complicated and people need to understand that it is not as simple as Arjun breaking off the engagement with Ovi and then getting together with Purvi. I. there will be very hurt feelings 2. it will make things even more bitter and any hope of reconciliation between Archana and her children will be dashed, I cannot see Manav, Teju or probably even DK supporting Purvi instead of Ovi- CVs might make the situation easier by either having Ovi/Purvi fall for someone else or turning Ovi into a very negative character...just so she does not garner viewers sympathy. I really believe that Archana and her family problems should be put right first...then any Arjun-Purvi-Ovi track should come after

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I have started thinking along the same lines. Arjun is not the only eligible man in India. I'm sure Purvi will be able to find a suitable man who'll love her and make her happy. Many of us have fallen in love with one (but bowing down to our parents' wishes) ended up with another and I'm sure many of us are happy with that decision. Purvi will be too, bless the dear girl.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Celina, earlier in one of the post i had mentioned about Ovi's pain too. I feel sorry for Ovi too. She's living in a bubble right now. No one is as upset with Ovi as we are with Arjun. Ovi feels compelled to stay beside Arjun, she's insecure afterall she's a girl coming from a broken family. But I despise the way Arjun is leading her on right now while all the while behind her back, he's busy cornering Purvi. No girl deserves this. If her fiance does love her what good such a marriage do to her? Every second Arjun is delaying the truth, he's letting her build her hopes high... letting her build castles in air, dreaming about a future which he has no intentions of fulfilling. She deserves truth... she deserves to know the guy she loves doesn't love her back... she ought to know that while he's assuring her of getting everything right, he's assuring someone else behind her back of breaking this engagement at the first given opportunity. Does Ovi deserve this?

I would say that if Arjun decides to break the engagement, he should so it right away. Delay is going to hurt her and everyone involved more... and if he has decided to give in then he should let Purvi go immediately.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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The problem is Ovi is refusing to see the truth .. She is crazy about Arjun and that is all that matters to her .. She is not noticing that Arjun does love her. He never holds her hand , touches her , smiles at her , wants to be with her .. He did not do that before(In canada) neither is he doing now .
Teju has also mentioend this to her before .. She is going to get hurt either way . Arjun is never going to love her , even if they get married she wil not get Arjun as he will be in office or business trips 24/7
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: celina30

she has built her future around Arjun, and it seems like he was so wrapped up in work that he also went along...Purvi just happened , when Ovi finds out, she will be very hurt. Arjun was never Purvi's boyfriend and it is not Purvi's fault for falling for the guy- she did not know he was betrothed to another. It is all very complicated and people need to understand that it is not as simple as Arjun breaking off the engagement with Ovi and then getting together with Purvi. I. there will be very hurt feelings 2. it will make things even more bitter and any hope of reconciliation between Archana and her children will be dashed, I cannot see Manav, Teju or probably even DK supporting Purvi instead of Ovi- CVs might make the situation easier by either having Ovi/Purvi fall for someone else or turning Ovi into a very negative character...just so she does not garner viewers sympathy. I really believe that Archana and her family problems should be put right first...then any Arjun-Purvi-Ovi track should come after



Dear Celina..Agree with you@bold. very true. BUT...

If Arjun keeps his mouth mum, it seems that he is indirectly supporting Ovi with her love & affection towards Arjun. Now, one (Sply Ovi) can easily ask a question if there is no feelings for Ovi in Arjun's heart then why he has gone so far with her?? What is the justification of Arjun's behaviour towards her? This is only a caring attitude towards his childhood friend...

For Ovi, she is not mature enough to take any life long responsibility. She even can't understand that Arjun is not free to her, Arjun can not open himself in front of him. Ovi wants thing Rossy because she looks the whole world through pink glass. She is passionate for Arjun. And ye to hona hi tha..one sided love always cause the pain, can't give satisfaction. And it's not right to expect that the man will start loving me only because i love that man. NO Rule can be appiled in terms of HEART.

One thing is very clear, any relationship based on some common pillar of trust, respect and commitment. Arjun is not a good friend, a good lover and a good son. A complete failure in all respect of life.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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hmmm am I heartless? cos I don't feel sorry for her nor can I see her pain cos she is getting whatever she want at one drop of tears.



not to forget to add that loving Arjun at the age of 14 is her own fault because I believe at 14 once's life have only just begun and to think that she built her whole life around Arjun at just 18 years old where her life should have be all abt her higher education is just unthinkable.



seriously Manav and his mother have ruined this kids lives beyond repair for even entertaining the idea of getting her married with nothing to stand on her own, what happen if one day he and DK loses it all, what would his kid fall back on?



I'm sure had Tej face her study not run around playing sport would have gotten a better job not drive around town as cab driver.


I just don't like the idea of girls putting their education and life goals on hold for a guy who may or may not love them back and that Ovi knows that I arjun does not love her at all and that it was her who forced whatever is happening btw them now on him not that he willingly want to marry her.


so u see guys I don't feel sorry for her one bit.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Angel

hmmm am I heartless? cos I don't feel sorry for her nor can I see her pain cos she is getting whatever she want at one drop of tears.



not to forget to add that loving Arjun at the age of 14 is her own fault because I believe at 14 once's life have only just begun and to think that she built her whole life around Arjun at just 18 years old where her life should have be all abt her higher education is just unthinkable.



seriously Manav and his mother have ruined this kids lives beyond repair for even entertaining the idea of getting her married with nothing to stand on her own, what happen if one day he and DK loses it all, what would his kid fall back on?



I'm sure had Tej face her study not run around playing sport would have gotten a better job not drive around town as cab driver.


I just don't like the idea of girls putting their education and life goals on hold for a guy who may or may not love them back and that Ovi knows that I arjun does not love her at all and that it was her who forced whatever is happening btw them now on him not that he willingly want to marry her.


so u see guys I don't feel sorry for her one bit.




totally agree with u!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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U cant force someone to love u! arjun once rejected her n she was well aware that arjun is not at awl intersted in her she treated her as a friend always!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I am feeling sorry for all ...ovi purvi arjun manav archana teju sachin damu the dog...coz they are surviving this show...

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