In Defense of Arjun

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sweetone

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am a great ARVI fan and have been following all your feelings and discomfort in the way and manner the character of Arjun is been handled by the CVs. Most of you feel that he's no more the original person we knew.
But for me,I believe that every human or character whether in real or reel life both have strengths and weaknesses and nobody is perfect and that's why I feel Arjun is no exception. Initially the Arjun we saw was a practical business-minded person who doesn't see beyond profit and loss. Time is all he only cares for because time is money. He only thinks with his mind and not with his heart all thanks to his upbringing. Business is his field and that's why he excelled there. Love is a totally different arena for him, he's just a like a baby in this field because he has little or no knowledge of the game. And that's why I think he had to rely no his mother to realise his feelings.
Right now you will agree with me he's just confused torn in between friendship and love meaning he's just also realising himself. he's taking things step by step the wax he's handling Ovi not wanting to be utterly selfish and careful enough not to ruin the life long relationship between their families which also his love Purvi is a part of and perhaps if he just throws caution to the winds and break it to Ovi, which I'm pretty much sure, Purvi will be at the receiving end.
Coming to Purvi, all he's asking for is a little bit of trust and understanding which form the essential part of any love relationship. I am not saying Purvi should just throw herself at him at the expense of her self respect but I believe the fight for true love is not a one sided and individualistic affair but rather they will reach the promise land only if they join hands and find their way to victory.
We all might have excelled in a particular field and failed woefully in another and I believe such is the case with Arjun and I believe it is such imperfections that makes who we are and greater humans.
I don't intend to bother you with my long stories for I could go on and on. I know we all have our wishes, dreams and imaginations on what we want Arjun and also his love story with Purvi but all I'm pleading for is for us to apply at least a little bit of practicality and reality in our sense of judgements. ARVI FOR LIFE.

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Aakanksha_7

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Posted: 13 years ago

u knw wat sweetone aftr today's epi i was so angry,frustrated almost strted to hate arjun's character but by readin ur post i calmed a little maybe wabted a reason of hw i canot hate hm n dat reason u gave to thnk on
n m consoled alot maybe i hav been realy in luv wit d character arjun
i cant cmpltely frgt wat he did wit purvi but u r ryt he is just a baby ib dis feild but hope he is quick learner n learns wat being in luv is
n isgst he shud watch sm hindi movies to hw cn u achieve ur love

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..Tangled..

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Posted: 13 years ago

still i hate arjun at the moment though reduced anger a lot aftr dis post. thnx

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sweetone

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Posted: 13 years ago

And you know what? Purvi is better off in managing relationships than Arjun and that's why she looked poised in their relationship while Arjun looks confused. U know why? Purvi is a product of relationship and that's why she's able to balance the situation, I mean right now, she's not hurting anyone, she's careful and she knows her stands. I mean she's handling Arjun the way it should be just that she's a little bit taking it to extreme. yeah, she shouldn't just cling on to him while he's engaged to her complicated sister but at the same time also she shouldn't just push him away anytime he just want to be shown the right way. Arjun on the other hand knows only about one relationship and that's the one with his father. Even with Manav, its more of a business relationship because the latter is his business idol. so all we need is Purvi who has the edge in relationship matters to lead Arjun so that we could have a better than our lovely Arjun back. dont you think?

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namitagloryz

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Posted: 13 years ago

So, Arjun is going to continue keeping Ovi in the dark?Forget about the love bit, he is new to it and thus unable to comprehend but what about friendship, don't you think he should tell Ovi that he doesn't love her as a lover but she's just a friend and ask her to STOP all these disgusting show of affection. Any number of Arjun defending posts are not going to make me relent. His character is damaged beyond repairs.

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masala29

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Posted: 13 years ago

And as confused as Arjun is or trying to find himself, he has to understand that he is playing with he lives of two women who are ultimately sisters. How can any reasonable and intelligent man such as Arjun not understand that the more he tags along Ovi, the more hurt she will be? And how can we expect Purvi to hang on till he reveals to Ovi the truth? That would be so unethical on her part to have an affair with a man who is engaged to be married. I think that if Arjun had not agreed to an engagement with Ovi before he came to India, then Pirvi would have understood him and stood by him. I think that it is this one little detail that has made her loose trust in him.

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soapwatcher1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: masala29
And as confused as Arjun is or trying to find himself, he has to understand that he is playing with he lives of two women who are ultimately sisters. How can any reasonable and intelligent man such as Arjun not understand that the more he tags along Ovi, the more hurt she will be? And how can we expect Purvi to hang on till he reveals to Ovi the truth? That would be so unethical on her part to have an affair with a man who is engaged to be married. I think that if Arjun had not agreed to an engagement with Ovi before he came to India, then Pirvi would have understood him and stood by him. I think that it is this one little detail that has made her loose trust in him.

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Esha Singh

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Posted: 13 years ago

Can someone please explain to me how on earth is Purvi supposed to trust and stand by Arjun when she sees different things happening infront of her eyes ????????

I really don't understand !!!!! No self respecting girl will just stand there and give support, when the person who supposedly loves you is hanging around another girl and allowing her to cling onto him without any objection 🤬

And who can give Purvi the assurance that in the end Arjun is going to marry her ????

If he couldn't stop his engagement due to respect for his dad's & Ovi's reputation, who says that he 's not gonna marry Ovi for the same reason and just dump Purvi ?????

Why would Purvi even trust him or believe anything he says ???? Coz his actions at the moment are a total contrast to what he says

Arjun should realise that the more he hangs out with Ovi , the more he gives her hope and the more difficult it becomes to tell her the ultimate truth that he loves someone else ( if that is true is another question 😡 ). Cause in the end she will end up being more hurt than before...Ovi sees nothing else than a life with Arjun...how is Arjun gonna cope with this situation he created himself and in the meantime expects understanding from Purvi 🤢...totally disgusting

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soapwatcher1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: esha
Can someone please explain to me how on earth is Purvi supposed to trust and stand by Arjun when she sees different things happening infront of her eyes ????????
I really don't understand !!!!! No self respecting girl will just stand there and give support, when the person who supposedly loves you is hanging around another girl and allowing her to cling onto him without any objection 🤬

And who can give Purvi the assurance that in the end Arjun is going to marry her ????

If he couldn't stop his engagement due to respect for his dad's & Ovi's reputation, who says that he 's not gonna marry Ovi for the same reason and just dump Purvi ?????

Why would Purvi even trust him or believe anything he says ???? Coz his actions at the moment are a total contrast to what he says

Arjun should realise that the more he hangs out with Ovi , the more he gives her hope and the more difficult it becomes to tell her the ultimate truth that he loves someone else ( if that is true is another question 😡 ). Cause in the end she will end up being more hurt than before...Ovi sees nothing else than a life with Arjun...how is Arjun gonna cope with this situation he created himself and in the meantime expects understanding from Purvi 🤢...totally disgusting

Esha, all I can say is 👏 Lucidly put - how can any self-respecting girl distrust what her eyes and ears are telling her and support this guy in his attempts to keep their love a secret? Until when? What is the guarantee he will EVER muster enough courage to tell the world of his unwillingness to marry Ovi?

Love does not mean Purvi has to consent to an illicit relationship with an already engaged man, illicit is what it will be until he comes clean.