plsss don't kill me...:D

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i know u people will kill me but still i want to put my point here. 😆😆
i think somewhere Aarti herself is wrong after her marriage. i know she is mother of a child and her only life support is Ansh. but i think she should have control her emotions towards Ansh at least for some time. bcs when she very well knew that senior Sindhiya members didn't want to accept Ansh with Aarti. and only bcs of Yash's condition they accepted him. she should have to control her emotions,her possessiveness towards Ansh at least for some time.when everyone get to understand her,they start knowing her very well then she can defiantly behave in normal way with Ansh.but before that she should have to make efforts to adjust or cope up with Sindhiya family then may be they will also understand her better or at least ignore her little mistakes. 😛 or
at least in this situation she can blame them properly😆😆🤣

but at this moment they r also not totally wrong bcs they only observed and saw her over possessiveness and over protective behavior always. and she didn't give her 100% to family or Yash and PayPal. so nw no one can blame Sindhiyas for their rudeness and harshness. why they will pay for selfish mother(who is Aarti for them)?? if she should give them 100% then she or MR and Mrs Dubey should ask them abt this rude behavior or they should blame them.but in this situation no one can blame them totally.this is my POV
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Actually how many days have passed after the marriage??
Not even a week.
And in this week aarti was trying to connect with Payal and Palak but they were rude to her.
She did not want them to force.
What do u expect from her after the mother in law locked ansh in the room when she trusted her and went to market without ansh?
She could not trust anyone.Exactly what yash has done to get her trust?
When one person's trust is broken,It is hard to gain his/her trust.
Yash has not done anything particular which can make aarti trust him so much.
Daddy and mom scindya are not doing this b/c they have seen aarti's possessiveness towards ansh.They are doing it b/c of their ego and possessiveness.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I absolutely agree with you.Right from the beginning the show is all about aarti and her over possessiveness about Ansh.Where is Yash, the Sindhiyas or Palak Payal.The show should be called "Aarti & Ansh ki kahani" and not "Punar Vivah" Sorry no offence but this is just my view point.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pickachu

Actually how many days have passed after the marriage??

Not even a week.
And in this week aarti was trying to connect with Payal and Palak but they were rude to her.
She did not want them to force.
What do u expect from her after the mother in law locked ansh in the room when she trusted her and went to market without ansh?
She could not trust anyone.Exactly what yash has done to get her trust?
When one person's trust is broken,It is hard to gain his/her trust.
Yash has not done anything particular which can make aarti trust him so much.
Daddy and mom scindya are not doing this b/c they have seen aarti's possessiveness towards ansh.They are doing it b/c of their ego and possessiveness.


ya may be u r right. but that's what i am trying to say that if she gave 100% to Yash and PayPal then she can definitely blame them for their selfish behavior and their ego problem. but u saw she didn't present for customs after marriage bcs of search mission of kids room,she always talked abt Ansh. and what is d result of all this now she has to live with Ansh only and can't able to give him fathers love and support if this Punarvivah they will break.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweetsampa39

I absolutely agree with you.Right from the beginning the show is all about aarti and her over possessiveness about Ansh.Where is Yash, the Sindhiyas or Palak Payal.The show should be called "Aarti & Ansh ki kahani" and not "Punar Vivah" Sorry no offence but this is just my view point.


ya agree with u.i mean they should show us all angles of Punarvivah and not only mother and childs relation. i don't understand even that Gayatri locked Ansh in dark room incidence. that's why i am saying cv's want to create pity picture of Aarti and Ansh.and not d real things which r necessary and important.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Why should she concentrate on yash?
When he doesnot give her status of a wife.He does not want a wife for him.
She is trying to concentrate on Payal and Palak but Yash's family doesnot want her to take responsibility of them.
She is there just to get them ready for school e.t.c.
Which is what she is doing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pickachu

Why should she concentrate on yash?

When he doesnot give her status of a wife.He does not want a wife for him.
She is trying to concentrate on Payal and Palak but Yash's family doesnot want her to take responsibility of them.
She is there just to get them ready for school e.t.c.
Which is what she is doing.


cv's showing only pity picture of Aarti and Ansh that's it. nothing more than that.
and Yash always treat Aarti with full respect and he always help her from d beginning of their relation he always fulfill his responsibilities with all care.he gave company to her till her home at tht rainy night, he get started her scooty after coming back from mall,he dropped Aarti and Ansh to school and then was wait for her to dropped her back,he gave her all space which she needs plsss what do u expect more from him if he is not in love with Aarti, and this marriage is just adjustment for him?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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why to blame arti.. in her 1 wk of punar vivah.. who supported her and her child.. whenever a bride come home, everyone tries to make her comfortable.. but here everyone expected from her... fact they behaved badly with ansh from day 1.. be it scolding.. or closing him in the room..

and remember the differences between 2 DILs they are making.. giving 500 to paridhi and 100 to arti... anyways money is a very small thing.. who tried to make her comfortable.. except vidhi and prateek
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well when u go in new enviorment u try to take care of yuor baggage it is just human becauseof feeling of insecurity. and lack of trust not to mention anyone showed or showered extra care for her baggage except the brothers of Yash. this should have been first step from MIL because in end how a family shapes is founded on the level of MIl thinking
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: qqagarg

why to blame arti.. in her 1 wk of punar vivah.. who supported her and her child.. whenever a bride come home, everyone tries to make her comfortable.. but here everyone expected from her... fact they behaved badly with ansh from day 1.. be it scolding.. or closing him in the room..

and remember the differences between 2 DILs they are making.. giving 500 to paridhi and 100 to arti... anyways money is a very small thing.. who tried to make her comfortable.. except vidhi and prateek


ohh these type of people r not exist for me at least bcs they r not humans at all. so plsss don't count them in all this. 😡. i am not blaming her fully. ya i know they behaved very weird and strange with Ansh but she also gave them chance to hate Ansh. she didn't want to put Ansh at side when she was doing that 'dhga kholnewala' custom. she didn't want to give him to Vidhi also.what she said nahi nahi wo gir jayega.as if she is d only mother of this whole world.so if they were already hate him and plus she gave them more chances to hate him more.
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