Aartis behaviour

nimshya

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Posted: 13 years ago

in todays episode i got really irritated seeing aartis behaviour..well i understand her feelings but telling the commissioner to get out of the house in front of all family members was really bad..and she should also have sum faith in the scindia family or atleast in yash..yash is equally worried like aarti d only difference is dat he is not crying..and in the precap she said bout ansh din like d school i found it utter foolishness...if b4 marraige in case thy had to leave the place and shift sumwhr else will she say the same..

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xxxnm

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Posted: 13 years ago

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HER CHILD IS MISSING. ANY PARENT WOULD REACT LIEK THAT. THIS SHOULD NOT EVEN BE A CRITICSIM. WHY SHOULD WE CARE ABOUT HOW THE FAMILY LOOKS WHEN A CHILD IS MISSING? THAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH DESI SOCIETY. WE CARE ABOUT REPUTATION EVEN IN A CRISIS.

ARTI IS ANGRY AND DESPERATE FOR HER CHILD. IF THE GIRLS HAD BEEN KIDNAPPED AND IT WAS ARTI WHO FORCED THE SCHOOL MOVE, HE WOULD HAVE REACTED THE SAME WAY. AND YASH IS WORRIED ABOUT ANSH BUT HIS FEELINGS FOR ANSH HAVE NOT DEVELOPED INTO THE INTENSITY OF A BIOLOGICAL PARENT YET, SO WHILE HE MAY BE WORRIED HIS FEELINGS ARE NOT THAT OF A DESPERATION OF A BIOLOGICAL PARENT.

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betty77

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Posted: 13 years ago

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ya true ,totally agree with you...

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Vivacious

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Dear, be in the shoes of Aarti n think. A mother's love is instinctual and unconditional.

Ansh is everything to Aarti. He is her world. There is a threat to her child's life. What do u expect from a mother ( Aarti) in such situation. Doesn't she loose control over all her emotions? A mother risks her life to save the child. Sitting calm or being polite to the person who should be active in search of the child , which is his duty is just impossible.

In my view .. Aarti is not only a very good mother but also a decent human who knows how to behave well. But the question is how can one expect a polite n calm behaviour from a mother at the loss of the child ?

I request you to see this link.

Cliffhanger! Lion cub saved by mum in dramatic scenes caught on camera as he cries out pitifully for help

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2041813/Lion-cub-saved-mum-cries-pitifully-help-caught-camera.html#ixzz1uMOChlrA

Edited by vivacious - 13 years ago

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gafulu14

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Posted: 13 years ago

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agree, understand arti's pain , but she shouldn't shout at commisner,coze she live in family have them own peputation. arti act like little low level. if she find by herself then why she didnot found, for her yash broke the door too... even ansh is not yash son, but he felt ansh lost pain like arti too, but he is not showing

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Vivacious

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: gafulu14
agree, understand arti's pain , but she shouldn't shout at commisner,coze she live in family have them own peputation. arti act like little low level. if she find by herself then why she didnot found, for her yash broke the door too... even ansh is not yash son, but he felt ansh lost pain like arti too, but he is not showing

Usually, when a person hears a shocking news or completely gets shattered for a painful reason. Family members run to that person to console and give some energy n hope. Has anyone came to Aarti to hold her n console? They are comfortably seated in their places and didn't bother about her pain n sorrow. Its all about prestige to Papa Scindhia n a High Drama to Gayatri n Bua. No one supported Aarti emotionally. Its needed.

If anyone would have kidnapped Payal or palak instead of Ansh, the house would have been upside down by now. Yash have blasted each n every person to vent out his pain. I won't be surprised if he helds his collar too forgetting the person is Papa Scindhia's friend .

Whatever Yash is doing,it is mostly out of guilt n responsibility rather than Love.

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Harpreet.M

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I'm sorry to say but Aarti's attitude was justified. Her child is missing end of the sentence!

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Sneha

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Dear, be in the shoes of Aarti n think. A mother's love is instinctual and unconditional.

Ansh is everything to Aarti. He is her world. There is a threat to her child's life. What do u expect from a mother ( Aarti) in such situation. Doesn't she loose control over all her emotions? A mother risks her life to save the child. Sitting calm or being polite to the person who should be active in search of the child , which is his duty is just impossible.

In my view .. Aarti is not only a very good mother but also a decent human who knows how to behave well. But the question is how can one expect a polite n calm behaviour from a mother at the loss of the child ?

I request you to see this link.

Cliffhanger! Lion cub saved by mum in dramatic scenes caught on camera as he cries out pitifully for help

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2041813/Lion-cub-saved-mum-cries-pitifully-help-caught-camera.html#ixzz1uMOChlrA

Amazing lion story!! I agree with the above post. Aarti is totally justified for her emotional reaction. It is natural to lose control when your child's safety is at risk and totally justified to start yelling at anyone in sight, especially the ones who are supposed to do something i.e. police, her husband, the men in the house etc.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: vivacious

Usually, when a person hears a shocking news or completely gets shattered for a painful reason. Family members run to that person to console and give some energy n hope. Has anyone came to Aarti to hold her n console? They are comfortably seated in their places and didn't bother about her pain n sorrow. Its all about prestige to Papa Scindhia n a High Drama to Gayatri n Bua. No one supported Aarti emotionally. Its needed.

If anyone would have kidnapped Payal or palak instead of Ansh, the house would have been upside down by now. Yash have blasted each n every person to vent out his pain. I won't be surprised if he helds his collar too forgetting the person is Papa Scindhia's friend .

Whatever Yash is doing,it is mostly out of guilt n responsibility rather than Love.

If Payal and Palak were lost, even Aarti would not have reacted the way she is reacting now shouting at everybody.

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Shreyasee

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@leavesandweaves: excellent point, aarti truly doens't differentiate between the kids, everyone else including Yash does. The thing is, I'm sure the elders wouldnt' have appalled looks on their faces had aarti been crying about palak and payal. Since its Ansh they have a 'don't overreact' look on their faces.

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