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Few Conclusions after Yesterday's Episode and Today's Ansh-Kidnapping Spoiler π
1)Highpoint of Ansh Kidnapping and Shobha's appearence :Both certainly hv a connection because now Shobha is aware of how Ansh or Aarti is being treated in Scindia mansion after getting Aarti's phonecall yesterday π€...So what I feel is Shobha might make an appearence in Scindia Mansion and demand Ansh back since Ansh has suffered enough torture and depression in Scindia mansion ...After this whole Kidnapping saga comes to an end ,I bet even Aarti might think of sending Ansh to Shobha's house where he can remain happy ,safe and peaceful at least π€...
This is going to b a real wake-up call for Yash because if Shobha demands Ansh back ,then this means Yash is a failure as a father ; This whole incident might make Yash further determined to change his ways of handling a kid and make sure he is able to win Ansh's heart and confidence and also bring him back to his lively self ...Yash might take this as a real challenge in front of Aarti and Shobha π€...This might also result in Yash going through a change in his own basic nature and trying out different style of parenting where he goes a bit easy and gentle on a kid π³..Mayb this is where Yash will become Ansh's karate trainer(as per one old spoiler) and teach him some self-defence techniques in a fun way π³π³
2)Highpoint of PayPal's behaviour and final action : Till now whatever PayPal did with Ansh ,everything has been either royally ignored or hv gone unnoticed by Yash and his family since they feel teasing and bullying r not really big mistakes ..But if at all PayPal r indirectly responsible for this whole Ansh fiasco ,then this is the real highpoint of PayPal's behaviour which needs serious councelling π ; Bullying at such a young age is a serious issue which needs to dealt with asap or else things might take a worst turn with PayPal growing up into big bullies who might feel there is nothing wrong in bullying or teasing others since their own father encouraged bullying by asking Ansh to tease them back ...
I feel this whole incident will make Yash realise that his kids r victims of a wrong company in the house and he might finally give the responsibility of PayPal's proper parenting in Aarti's hand ...
3)Respecting each other's point of view :Once again this whole Ansh incident should give some lessons to both Yash and Aarti that there is no harm to respect each other's point of view at times if its for the betterment of their own kids ...
If Yash had listened to Aarti regarding PayPal's wrong parenting and if Aarti had listened to Yash regarding "Let Ansh learn to walk on his own rather than always holding his hand and encouraging his fears " ,then neither PayPal would hv turned such big bullies today and nor Ansh would hv gone in such extreme fear and depression just because of PayPal's scary talks ...Problem is at both ends ...If Ansh has gone in extreme depression then PayPal too hv turned extreme bullies ...both their kids need equal attention and support from their opposite parent ...π
4)Equal Focus on all 3 kids together : I feel that if the family and Yash expects PayPal and Ansh to start developing a bond with each other ,then they need to b given equal focus in terms of love as well as discipline ... Why is it that when it comes to showering love or praises, PayPal always has the upperhand with Gayatri's comparisons and when it comes to disciplining or punishments ,Ansh is given the upperhand ...This is where PayPal always gets the golden opportunity to turn the tables against Ansh because they know that their Dadi and Father will only see things which they r going to show
Aarti in yesterday's episode showed a proper balance when she brought water for Palak since she was coughing and at the same time she was also showing concern for Ansh's fears whereas Yash's full concentration was on Ansh-school going mission and so he royally ignored the whole plotting game planned by his own kids ...
Aarti's ways of handling Ansh might not b perfect and like we all say ,she needs to go a bit easy with her over-possessiveness towards Ansh but Yash's way of forcing a kid just to show his over-protective or over-caring side as a father is not right either because then he ends up scaring the kid which is doing no good to his self-confidence either and on other hand PayPal r going scotfree after all the teasing and bullying ...Yash needs to give equal focus on all 3 kids if he really wants to b proactive as a father and make a honest effort of developing a bond between all 3 kids .,..just concentrating on Ansh and going overboard with his set of rules on just Ansh while ignoring PayPal's mischiefs completely ,is only doing more harm for all 3 kids
5) Is Yash's OCD getting in the way of his Parenting style ?? : If Yash is actually a fair parent ,then he will never ignore PayPal's bullying or teasing habits and just concentrate on disciplining Anshπ€..This is where Yash's OCD is definitely coming in the way of his parenting because all he wants is perfection and cleanliness around him which PayPal maintains but not Ansh-Aarti and so he has all the issues with Ansh and not PayPal ...He feels if a kid is all neat-tidy and follows regular time-table of the house ,then the kid is perfect which PayPal follows but not Ansh but he is failing to realise that all these issues r much small compared to the other issues like teasing or bullying or plotting which if an innocent mind of a kid does ,then its certainly not a good parenting ..Ansh might b a bit spolit by Aarti but he does not hv the dangerous habit of teasing or bullying like PayPal ...So the definition of a well-mannered kid itself is flawed in Yash's book because of his OCD nature ..Mayb this whole Ansh incident will finally force Yash to see things beyond his obsession for cleanliness and regular time-tables ππ
6)The increasing comfort between AarYa :π³π³..In all this negativity of parenting ,one positive which has come out from the whole Ansh chapter is the increasing comfort between Aarti and Yash not only during their interaction but even the way Yash dragged Aarti outside with full authority yesterday and we saw Aarti dint really mind his touching her this time ππ ;There was a time when even his slight accidental touch resulted in Aarti jumping to a silly conclusion that he is characterless π but yesterday he actually touches her deliberately to drag her outside the room but she still does not mind which is a proof enough that she is quite comfortable in his company now and he too has found that certain comfort zone with her when it comes to touching at least ππ³π³...So like we had predicted long back ,Ansh is certainly the connecting factor bringing AarYa close ...isn't it π³π³
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Episode Take
What a nail biting episode and a even more suspenseful precap ..OMGGG π²π²π²...What I lvoed about the episode were the realistic touches that was given while showing Yash-Aarti searching for Ansh on the road βοΈβοΈβοΈβοΈ...
The biggest question I hv in my mind is how Ansh reached there on the road ?? π..there r few options
1)He never entered the school premises out of fear because in the morning he overheard the plotting of PayPal regarding how they will lock Ansh in some room where some monster will eat him up ..So out of scare he never really entered the school and ended up running away far in some road and then he does not know how to go back home
2)PayPal locked up Ansh in some school room or bathroom from where he somehow managed to come out but he does not know how to go home and so is helplessly standing on the road and crying for his mother π
Its either of the two options for sure ../but in both cases PayPal is the reason of Ansh's fear and depression ..So once Ansh is found ,I hope he tells the entire reason of his fear and then PayPal gets the earful from Yash π‘π
Car Loop Closed with Aarti finally accepting Yash's lift and Yash finally realising the worth of a joint effort π³
Right now both Yash-Aarti r shown super engaged searching for Ansh ..So their self-realisation of what went wrong might come once Ansh is found ...Then we hv to see how Aarti and Yash thinks about this whole scenario π€ ...
But having said that , I did see slight change in Yash's way of operating today π ...last time when Yash told Aarti to sit in car , she said she will manage in Auto and we saw Yash just drives off with his high ego ...Today once again Aarti said the same that she will manage in auto when Yash asked her to sit in his car and this time it was her ego speaking but we see Yash makes an extra effort and tells Aarti pleasee sit in car because we both should together search for Ansh π³..so finally we see Yash bending down and realising the worth of a joint effort ... Aarti finally accepts his life and the car loop is closed with both together going in same car to search for Ansh βοΈβοΈβοΈβοΈβοΈ...
Yash could hv gone alone too in his car to search for Ansh and let Aarti go in auto ..both could hv searched for Ansh in their own separate ways but this time Yash makes sure they do it jointly together and for this he takes the first initiative ππΌ...So was this part of Yash's realisation that he made a mistake by not taking a joint decision for Ansh and so he wants to rectify it by making sure they both search for Ansh together ?? π€...I guess only time will tell π³
Hatss off to the poor lady ππ
I must praise that poor lady for all the efforts she has taken for Ansh today from finding out about his correct address to giving him food and then even feeding him with so much love and care ππππ...Its clear that she had no greed in her mind or heart and she genuinely wanted to drop Ansh safely to his house but its her husband who is a greedy candidate π‘π‘
I feel as per precap when Yash breaks open the door ,they might either find Ansh's school-bag on the floor or that poor lady in injured condition who might tell Yash-Aarti that her husband ran away with their kid ..I also feel this poor lady might help Aarti and Yash to track down her husbandπ€...
What CVs tried to show here that not all r greedy for money in this world ...the wife was so nice towards Ansh but the husband was greedy ..so different types of people exist ...one can't form a common judgement about all poor people or all rich people π ..
Yash shows the direction to Aarti ...is this a future indication ??
During the whole search mission ,I was noticing these small moments between Aarti and Yash which stood out for me π³...One such moment was when Yash grabs Aarti's shoulder and shows her Ansh's waterbottle because of which both gets a rough idea about the direction of the route where Ansh can go π³...What I liked about the scene was that Yash has got sharp observation skills and he is the one who is showing the route to Aarti here which is again another sign of a joint effort βοΈβοΈβοΈβοΈ...
Aarti's talk to Gayatri on phone ..very practical and realistic ππ
Aarti's has got a quick presense of mind which is clear from the scene where she quickly calls Gayatri and asks her to b alert in case some lady comes with Ansh ππ..I thought mayb Aarti and Yash will rush to Scindia mansion but was pleasantly surprised to see Aarti using Yash's mobile to communicate with family which is quite a rarity in daily soaps as most daily soaps dont bother to use this all important mobile technology πππ
Also I loved how the phone conversation was not dragged much and was kept very realistic with Aarti not going out of her way to please Sasuma on phone ππΌ...
Daddy Scindia Vs Dubey ...Ansh is Whose Pota ??π
Well I feel noone in Scindia family r much bothered about Ansh here .,.they r more bothered about their own reputation and image which might go for a toss if something happens to Ansh π‘π‘...no wonder when Dubeys said Ansh is our pota ,it hits Daddy Scindia hard and he starts arguing with Dubey ...guilty conscious ?? ππ...This proves Scindias still dont hv that emotional attachment with Ansh ...In future ,this is where Shobha and Dubey might ask Ansh back in case Prashant returns π€...I m sure there must b some purpose behind showing Dubeys too in this whole matter π€...This question of Ansh is whose Pota will arise once again in future for sure
Paridi is slowly turning selfish ...
Earlier Paridi was manipulative but in a sweet way ..she wanted her job and freedom and so she did certain manipluations which was fine ...but today I felt she was a bit selfish the way she nonstop ignored Pratik's calls as if she does not care whats happening in the house or her hubby might b missing her ...All this might result in Pratik slowly getting pissed off over Paridi just how Pankaj is pissed off with Vidhi today π
Overall a very eventful episode with a dhamaka precap ...cant wait for tomorrow's episode now for the final outcome and how Aarti-Yash saves Ansh from the kidnapper π
Edited by jyoti06 - 13 years ago