8/5:Dragon Club :Clash of the Titans..dont miss it

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Credit goes to Maham(Allbut1) for this beautiful Banner 👏👏👏👏👏

Yash making a progress towards Aarti ...Aarti too needs to follow it ...Both needs to strike a proper balance in their relationship 😳😳

Yesterday Yash goes all the way out to convince Aarti once he feels Aarti is not satisfied with his decision 😳...Why does he bother to give her so many explanations when his own family and even Ansh looked fine with the decision ?? 😉..This is real proof that Aarti's opinion matters to him and her reactions affect him a lot 😳
I hv noticed that whatever Daddy Scindia or Gayatri decides ,in most of the cases Yash is indifferent towards it and does not react as if he does not care 😆... but yesterday when he saw Aarti quietly walked off from the living room after Daddy Scindia lectured her about how only men of their house takes decision , Yash looked quite restless there as if he wanted to tell her that moment only that his father's thinking is wrong because thats not the reason why he changed Ansh's school 😳...So he goes inside the room to give her the same explanation not once but repeatedly till he hears from Aarti's mouth that she is fine with it 😳...First he tries to convince her with the excuse of better education but Aarti does not agree and so he tries to convince her with the second excuse of how all 3 kids need to b together to bond well but Aarti is still not convinced 😆😳...So the point is he actually makes double-triple efforts this time to convince his point to someone which he never did before 😳...This is a real proof that Aarti is automatically making a special place in his heart and so he feels the need to be answerable to Aarti till she approves his decision 😳
What I feel is Yash has a habit of taking things for granted because in his family whenever men took decisions ,they automatically got the "Yes" from their women 😆 and so Yash feels Aarti too will do the same but this is where Aarti is different and tough nut to crack 😛 and we see Yash everyday discovering a new face of Aarti 😳 and who knows mayb Yash is taking it as a challenge to win her confidence which itself is the starting point where Yash will come out of his Arpita dreamland and get more involved trying to discover the real Aarti who is very different from all the women he has seen in his family so far and this difference will what make him fall for Aarti 😳😳😳😳..Now it will b a challenge for Yash to convince Aarti about his ways and this is what will make a great passionate love story 😈Tongue because whenever a man is challenged by his woman or whenever a woman dares to oppose a man's view ,it has to b a passionate encounter when the man goes all his way out to live upto the challenge of his woman and prove him right 😉😳😳😳...Yash has already started this passionate journey when yesterday he kept checking out her reaction when she was busy giving him silent treatment 😉😳
I feel Aarti needs someone who can first boost up her self-esteem a bit ...like we had discussed earlier ,Aarti has a low self-esteem and does not trust people easily because of her past experiences ... Seeing the kind of male domination in Scindia Family when it comes to decision-making ,she feels further scared and insecure because she was betrayed by a man only in the past ...So here I believe Yash need to make efforts and give her the assurance that when it comes to their kids ,they will b jointly taking decisions here ...Yash himself needs to come out of his family's shadow and go for this positive change in decision making ..This is where both needs to strike a balance and come out of their past shadows because change in both their thoughts is what needed for a positive start 👍🏼...
If Aarti stays with her ego and feels only she has rights to take decisions for Ansh and if Yash stays with his own thought-process that being a man only he will take the major decisions for the kids , then they can never strike a proper balance and the kids will suffer more ..If both agree that a change is needed since the world is progressing ,then they should first themselves come out of their regressive thought-process and then think about their kids ...I said regressive because Yash's POV regarding how discipline can b achieved only with strict schooling or how only men can take major decisions is old-school parenting and decision-making 👎🏼 while Aarti's POV that how she is the Mother India for Ansh and will always remain so since all Men r morons like Prashant while she has the best knowledge of parenting being a mother 😆 is again a partial and one-sided thought-process 👎🏼...Let Yash come out of the shadow of his family's style of decision-making and take his own individual decision and let Aarti come out of the shadow of her bitter past experience and take a neutral decision in present ...all issues will automatically resolve 😆😛

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Episode Analysis
Wowww what an episode 👏👏👏...This is the kind of episode we wanted where Yash and Aarti can openly interact with each other about all the issues and finally its happening ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Today Gurmeet and Kratika were top-notch 👏👏..Kratika stole the show when she was blurting out her frustations to Pratik 😆👏👏 an d Gurmeet stole the show in the last scene when he made his intentions clear to both Ansh and Aarti 👏👏👏
Pratik-Aarti finally developing a perfect Devar-Bhabhi bonding ⭐️⭐️⭐️
I will hv to give spl credit to Pratik for this episode today 😉 since he was the one who actually took the initiative to bring that Gundi-Aarti back in action who will simply speak her heart out whether she is right or wrong but simply speak out without thinking twice 😳 ;Loved the way Pratik motivated Aarti to go and speak to Yash ,at least make a start somewhere 👏😳...I can already see a wonderful Devar-Bhabhi relationship developing where Pratik is slowly becoming the best buddy of Aarti with whom Aarti feels comfortable to share her emotions as well as blurt out her frustations easily 😳...She has bottled up lots of emotions as a mother in her heart and she finally feels comfortable to let it out in front of Pratik 👏👏...So in this Scindia mansion ,finally Aarti finds a companion with whom she can feel at home 😳
Now I will exvlusively discuss about the clash of the titans ..Yash's final decision vs Aarti's possessiveness for Ansh 😎
Aarti was paranoid for Ansh since the time she sends him to school simply because she and Ansh till now only had each other for protection ..they r not used to crowd ...all of a sudden they r forced to come out of their comfort zone and face the world .,..so she is feeling more possessive for Ansh
But today Yash made his intentions clear behind putting Ansh in a new school ...he wants Ansh to grow up independently and not become over-dependent on his mother because in long run ,its not good for his future 👍🏼 ..He also wants Ansh to come out of his own comfort zone and face the challenges in life because being a boy ,its for his own good 😳
Yash being a silent observer has noticed that Aarti is fulfilling every single demand of Ansh because of which Ansh is not ready to come out of the shadow of his mother or see things on his own because his mother is always safeguarding Ansh ...Whenever Ansh is put in a challenging situation like a new school ,new friends ,Ansh is not able to adjust because his mother has always kept him in a comfortable surrounding ..Whenever someone is either making fun of Ansh or being unfair with him ,he is not able to reply back to that person because he is always protected by his mother and so he hopes everytime his mother will come to the rescue like how today she comes to his rescue and goes directly to Yash asking him to put Ansh back in old school
Yash wants Ansh to become self-sufficient and independent wherein if someone is making fun of him or trying to trap him ,then Ansh should himself have the courage to face that person rather than wait for his mother to do the needful 😳...Like today when Ansh complains about Palak , he was expecting Yash to blast him or mayb Aarti to take a stand but Yash rightly asks Ansh to himself reply back to Palak in his own way which can make him confident because in life not always ,his parents will come to safeguard him 👏👏..And the moment Ansh gets back at Palak himself without anyone's help ,we see a certain smile on Ansh's face for that little self-achievement and the confidence which he gets thanks to Yash 😳😳...
Yash himself might hv dealt with such situations where Payal makes fun of Palak or vice-versa ..so he knows how to tackle more than one kid in such scenarios which Aarti is not much aware of since she always had to handle only one kid 😉😛..So Aarti feels in such situations ,its better to stay away rather that face it and even Ansh feels the same ,but today Yash shows Ansh the other side of the coin and teaches him to face the problem rather than running away from it 👏👏
So basically Yash wants Ansh to become independent rather than depend on his mother 24/7 👍🏼...He even tries to tell the same to Aarti that for once try leaving his hand and see if he can walk on his own ..let him fall because only then he will learn to get up and run in long run ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️...
But hving said that ,I also admit both Yash and Aarti r also hving a certain ego war on parenting here which is not right 😊..Yash is stubborn and indirectly making a statement that once he takes a decision ,he wont change ..this is nothing but his ego because he wants to prove he is the best parent 😆...Aarti is stubborn and indirectly making a statement that Yash is trying to bribe Ansh with roller-coaster rides but in reality he does not care for Ansh's emotions...this is nothing but her ego because she wants to prove she is the best parent but at present Yash succeeds in making Ansh smile which she does not like 😉😛...
So a certain ego war between both is going on regarding parenting which is quite hot to b honest as both r trying to outdo each other 😛 and in this process they r getting more and more comfortable interacting with each other 😳 and mayb eventually both will even try to understand each other's POV ...Yash willl realise that as a single mother,its normal for Aarti to feel the possessiveness for her kid and Aarti will realise that as a father its normal to make his kid independent and boost up his self-confidence ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️...
Like I said both needs to strike a balance but in today's episode Yash scores the brownie points over Aarti and successfully brings smile in Asnh's face without changing his school 😳..Overall a perfect episode ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Awesome banner, love it!

What will be outcome of Yash's decision to change Ansh's school, will Aarti let him take control of her son?

I dont believe Yash is wrong, he made the right decision for Ansh, better for his future! His only mistake, he just didn't consult with his lioness biwi! 😆

Loved the last part, in short Yash let Aarti know, Im now in command when it comes to Ansh, so let it be!
Bechari Aarti went fumbling after seeing Yash in Sallu style tee!

Yash told Aarti whose boss!

I feel bad for him cause when he falls for her, she'll show whose boss! 🤣



[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-bE0Byjddko&feature=g-vrec[/YOUTUBE]


Just love this song


Naa toh, inkaar hua
Naa hi, iqraar hua
Jaane kya yaar hua iss dil ko
Yun tera muskurana aur aake chale jaana
Kismat ka hai khul jaana
Tera, deedar hua
Pehla, sa pyaar hua
Pehli hi baar hua iss dil ko
Naa toh, inkaar hua
Naa hi, iqraar hua
Jaane kya yaar hua iss dil k


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PV Creatives, here is a list of songs that we would like to see on Yash and Aarti! DC members or anyone, if you want to see any other songs, please drop me a PM and I'll try to update list on page 1 of DC daily!

#1. Dil kya kare jab kissi ko (julie)
#2. Bheegi bheegi raato mein
#3. Haye haye ye majboori :P
#4. Woh hain zara
#5. husn ke...laakhon ke rang
#6. aaj rapat jaiyo (namak halal)
#7. sajna hai mujhe ☺️
#8. Baahon mein challe aao
#9. Jaane do na
#10.Roop tera mastana
#11 Piya tu
#12. Bhor bhaye panghat pe
#13. Chadhti jawani meri 🤣
#14. Aa zara (Murder 2)
#14. Aaja Piya
#15 LSD 🤣
#16. Zara Zara touch me
#17.choli ke peechhe kya hai
#18 Hey sexy lady
#19. Sarkai liyo khatiya 🤣 jaada lagge! 🤣 (heard of it?)
#20. Jaadu hai nasha hai
#21.Could I have this kiss forever!
#22. Bheege hont tere
#23. Ooo lala Ooo lala (Dirty Picture)
Edited by 49erFan - 13 years ago
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Maham!!!!😊

Awesome banner for the DC... first VM and then this u r seriously an artist⭐️
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Hats offf👏👏👏👏👏
Edited by pearlnarang - 13 years ago
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Hi!

The start of the journey in striking the perfect balance

So there are ways in which Aarti is a better parent than Yash since she doesn't deprive children of their childhood. In ways Yash is a better parent than Aarti that he knows that being overprotective is only weakening a child in the long run. I like the way he built up Ansh's confidence. Aarti's overprotectiveness reminds me a little of my older sister. If anyone messed with me in school they would have bare her wrath. But that started to make me anti-social and timid. Once we switched schools I got better.

I am starting to think that Yash's irritation with Aarti is not due to any MCP ego that was instilled in him growing up that men always make the decisions. But the fact that Aarti is still so overprotective of Ansh. Anyone would get annoyed somewhat. Yash is actually being quite patient and explaining thing over to Aarti.

Once they start communicating more the way they are now. The sooner they will come to an understanding and make the perfect parenting team. I think when Gurmeet said in the Zoom interview that Yash's character is going to start talking a more. He didn't mean that he will start falling in love but after the whole Gayatri locking Ansh up in a room and Aarti being helpless Yash has come to realize his responsibilities in helping Aarti and Ansh adjust.

I still think Gayatri is a big selfish vamp. A mother should understand a mother's worries when he kid goes to a new school. My mother called me twice a day when I started college. She is so selfish leave Ansh at home so you can focus on my family. Ansh deserves to be locked up because he pinched my son. Why are you think about your son why can't you be gifting me sarees?

Did the CVs drop another hint today? What exactly did Yash mean when he says once he makes a decision he never backs down? Did he make a decision that Arpita did not concur with?

Edited by Gurtiluv - 13 years ago
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Today's episode for me was a watershed episode, a landmark in the story.

It was all about the First True Altercation between Yash and Aarti. And very subtly the power balance between Yash and Aarti got reconfigured.
Also, sparks flew through the episode, and as they say, sparks are the start of a raging fire ... it was not just about the friction of an issue that they were both toying with (i.e. Ansh and his new school), but in the midst of all the dialogues and drama, I also got the first genuine glimpses of "chemistry". This sort of chemistry has more to do with the clash of minds rather than a clash of hearts.
For the first time, again, we got virtually the whole episode dedicated exclusively to the duel between Yash and Aarti ... and there were barely any other characters gracing the screen (except for the fleeting moments of the Paridi-Gayatri flattery session, the breief negative vibes of the Bua, and the short session of the kids at school.)
I want to highlight the four points that stood out for me in this tussle between Yash and Aarti ... they were both neither right nor wrong, if we examine the situation from their individual viewpoints. But the big question for me was: What does this issue contribute to the changing dynamics between both of them? What can it lead to as the next step of their relationship?
Yash discovers the weakest point in Aarti's character
Today's episode manage to highlight to Yash the weakest point in Aarti's personality ... he has discovered that she obsesses irrationally with her maternal role and is actually insecure to the point of extreme fear with respect to Ansh. She is also so overprotective of Ansh that she actually lives the feelings of Ansh as if she were him. And since its never really possible for one person to really step into the shoes of another completely, not even a mother, she may also be imagining certain fears about how Ansh will cope without realising that children learn to cope very well very soon. Yash has found out that Aarti is a terminal worrier where Ansh is concerned and it is her insecurity and overprotectiveness that probably makes Ansh crave a father so much. His mother is, in all good intention, actually placing shackles on him. By taking the initiative of Ansh's schooling away from Aarti and into his own hands, Yash has provided Ansh with the freedom he needs and the father he craves. He has also managed to help Aarti overcome her greatest weakness, even if she does not yet realise it.
Aarti discovers the strongest point in Yash's character
In the to and fro of the exchanges between Aarti and Yash today, first before Ansh went to school and then later after Ansh returned from school in distress, Aarti saw four entirely different sides of the character of Yash - and all four sides of him were something that she's probably never seen before. In the morning he was the understanding, supportive and cajoling husband, trying to calm her fears. During the day when she went to his workplace to ask him to help her contact the school, he was still her husband, but he became more fiery and forthright. In the evening when Ansh and PayPal were all with him and Ansh was balking from going to school again, he saw that it was no use being the caring or even fiery husband any more. He stepped right out of the husband role, ignored Aarti outright and just became the smart parent in one fell swoop. Within seconds he had taught Ansh to "be a brave boy" and related to the child in such a one-to-one way that all Aarti could do was to watch speechlessly! Once the father role was completed to perfection, he then went back into the teaching husband mode, and gave Aarti the moral of the story: don't overprotect Ansh and deprive Ansh of life! In the space of one short episode Aarti saw so many diferent and strong facets of the normally quiet man, that I suspect she will never see him with her earlier perspective again!
Cross-parenting has now become the norm between them
The biggest change that has happened to both of them today is that they have started in earnest assuming their roles in "cross-parenting" the kids. Aarti has already been working on some motherly acts for Payal and Palak, but Yash today started reciprocating by playing father to Ansh. Both of them will have to realise that with this cross-parenting, the loyalties of their own kids may change and both of them will have to reconcile to that reality. Ansh may develop a bond with his father (like today) that may exclude his mother - just as PayPal may develop a bond with Aarti eventually that may exclude Yash. Both Yash and Aarti may also soon realise that they have to stop thinking of their own kids as their own, as each of them begins to mean something to the children of the other one. The children of each parent also may have to go through the adjustment of seeing their parent become the parent of the other child.
The children's friction can actually bring the parents closer
One more development I see coming from today's episode is that tthe friction between the children - between Ansh and PayPal - can actually work to the advantage in this story. The more the children are in conflict, the more the parents have to pull together to change the atitudes of their own kids and the kids of the other parent. I think someone has already posted earlier in this forum that the kids may end up bringing the parents closer. I want to add to that thought: the conflict between the kids may actually bring the parents closer than if the kids were actually friendly towards each other. The parents Yash and Aarti seem to need an "issue" before they can come to terms with each other and find their mutual level. And if the kids stay in some conflict the more the "issues" that can cement the parents!
Overall, I thought it was an episode that was quite a turning point in the relationship between Yash and Aarti. They became different people and saw each other differently as well.
Edited by skanda12 - 13 years ago
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I got a bit late today so I went through the pages of discussion that have already happened and I am surprised to see that my feelings on Yash are not at all the majority. Because I feel like Yash is in that stage of pride before fall. He is being far too cocky and self-assured and if in the last weeks I was amused by Aarti's self-declared parental guru of the decade title, now I am upset by Yash's. Granted, he has some valid points but his smugness is kind of getting on my nerves. I was with Aarti all the way today. Judging by the CVs' work so far, they do not hero-ise any one character and so I strongly believe that Yash is in for some sort of huge issue, resulting from all his unalterable decisions, that he won't be able to solve alone. He will need Aarti and he will be taken down a peg or two, at least that is what I hope.

I agree that Aarti was being a bit overprotective but it is also Ansh's first day at a new school. I think it was totally warranted. Not only has she had to adjust to a new house, constant taunts and a severe punishment of her son that left him broken, but she has had to keep a strong front for Ansh's sake and defend people she doesn't agree with. She is more scared than Ansh is because of experience, she has just seen how Ansh's dreams of his naye papa's "big house" and "big car" have been compromised by the hardship and alienation he has had to face, and now when she hears him talking about a "big school", I can understand her fear.

However, I said this in the previous thread that Yash mistakes her legitimate worry and her own turmoil for mistrust in him and his decisions. Really, Aarti's worry had nothing to do with him but sometimes men and women have ways of communicating and understanding that differ from each other. While Aarti was merely saying it is Ansh's first day at school and I am worried so can I check on him, Yash read it as I don't trust you with my son so I must micromanage his life to save him from getting hurt at your hands.

But what I thought was silly of Aarti was to admit to Gayatri that she was thinking about Ansh. When will she learn that this does not fetch her brownie points from the MIL? She could have said anything...it looks like rain, I have a headache, I was thinking about how you so proficiently manage such a big house with so many people (taking a leaf out of Paridhi's book) or if she didn't want to lie, just not say anything and apologise and say she would concentrate. Aarti needs a filter between her mind and her mouth if she is going to survive Gaya. To be honest, I don't think Gayatri is particularly vindictive towards Aarti, only with Aarti Ansh is her hook, which is sensitive. She was equally caustic when Pari walked in with the sarees, but is easily manipulated. And I think she made the comparison to Pari with Aarti to cover up the fact that she had lost control of the situation.

What I love is that it has almost become a ritual that whenever Aarti receives taunts from Gaya, Prateek shows up to make a little sunshine in her day. I love the growing friendship there. And I also love that Prateek became a sort of outlet for Aarti when she was irritated at Yash for jumping the gun on her. It reminded me of the SR when Prateek became the outlet for Yash's frustration about how Aarti saw him and the way out of that confusion. Here also, Yash is made privy to the inner gundi that he married.

Paridhi needs to be careful. She should not be using sex as an ultimatum, especially not in such an early stage of the marriage. Prateek is a very obliging guy but one day he is going to burst because I am told men get very frustrated when there needs are not met (explains why Casanova is so calm all the time 😉) and they do irrational things. But I do think they are headed for some such collision, unless Prateek finds a way to make her going to work every day an accepted thing, which he should really, considering he promised he would.

So Yash is in the same grade as Palak...more's the pity! I had kind of hoped he would be grouped with Payal as she seems to be the more compliant one. It could have been interesting to see her caught in the middle of Palak and Ansh, both the strong influences. It also gave us a chance to see first hand the subtle differences in schooling of Ansh and PayPal, as well as why exactly Mrs. Lobo was so wildly rude that day. What Palak did was pure malice and that is worrying in such a young child. And the fact that she came and told her papa about the maza in school with such relish gave me the shudders. But the upside was that the teacher was very kind. I liked that little moment when Ansh asserts himself and asks his teacher, isn't rubber right as well and I loved her for answering that he was indeed right but that there was a better way to see it. I love how Ansh's eyebrows were furrowed, as though processing this new information. I am more and more astounded by Divyam every day!

Now coming to the last scene. To some extent I agree that Aarti was the one oversimplifying the situation by saying that Ansh would go back to his old school. This is not the Aarti we are used to and I think she was relieved that he wanted the same thing she did. So she took him immediately to Yash to assert that she was right, Ansh did not like the new school. And I agreed with Yash up until the point when he made Ansh tease Payal and Palak back. This might have made Ansh feel good for the moment but it is not teaching them the right thing. Why didn't he tell PayPal not to tease instead of telling Ansh to join them? He is teaching Ansh, same as Payal and Palak that to feel good you have to put down others and that is wrong. The bribe wasn't an issue for me, Aarti did it with the chocolate cake and it got the job done. Ansh will go to school another day. But the eye for an eye was wrong to me and that is why I think there are going to be repercussions for Yash here.

My prediction now is that Ansh is going to get into a huge fight at school. When asked why he did that he is going to answer that this is what his dad told him to do. That is why today they showed him specifically stating to Palak that his mother had told him not to fight and that is why he wasn't going to. So as paranoid as Aarti seemed, her words did get through to Ansh and saved him from a fight that would have made his day that much harder. As hot as cocky Yash is, this is not going to last. I end by repeating, pride comes before fall!
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Maham.. Awesome Banner honey .. Looks smashing ⭐️
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Originally posted by: jyoti06

Credit goes to Maham(Allbut1) for this beautiful Banner 👏

Yash making a progress towards Aarti ...Aarti too needs to follow it ...Both needs to strike a proper balance in their relationship 😳😳

Yesterday Yash goes all the way out to convince Aarti once he feels Aarti is not satisfied with his decision 😳...Why does he bother to give her so many explanations when his own family and even Ansh looked fine with the decision ?? 😉..This is real proof that Aarti's opinion matters to him and her reactions affect him a lot 😳
I hv noticed that whatever Daddy Scindia or Gayatri decides ,in most of the cases Yash is indifferent towards it and does not react as if he does not care 😆... but yesterday when he saw Aarti quietly walked off from the living room after Daddy Scindia lectured her about how only men of their house takes decision , Yash looked quite restless there as if he wanted to tell her that moment only that his father's thinking is wrong because thats not the reason why he changed Ansh's school 😳...So he goes inside the room to give her the same explanation not once but repeatedly till he hears from Aarti's mouth that she is fine with it 😳...First he tries to convince her with the excuse of better education but Aarti does not agree and so he tries to convince her with the second excuse of how all 3 kids need to b together to bond well but Aarti is still not convinced 😆😳...So the point is he actually makes double-triple efforts this time to convince his point to someone which he never did before 😳...This is a real proof that Aarti is automatically making a special place in his heart and so he feels the need to be answerable to Aarti till she approves his decision 😳
What I feel is Yash has a habit of taking things for granted because in his family whenever men took decisions ,they automatically got the "Yes" from their women 😆 and so Yash feels Aarti too will do the same but this is where Aarti is different and tough nut to crack 😛 and we see Yash everyday discovering a new face of Aarti 😳 and who knows mayb Yash is taking it as a challenge to win her confidence which itself is the starting point where Yash will come out of his Arpita dreamland and get more involved trying to discover the real Aarti who is very different from all the women he has seen in his family so far and this difference will what make him fall for Aarti 😳..Now it will b a challenge for Yash to convince Aarti about his ways and this is what will make a great passionate love story 😈😛 because whenever a man is challenged by his woman or whenever a woman dares to oppose a man's view ,it has to b a passionate encounter when the man goes all his way out to live upto the challenge of his woman and prove him right 😳...Yash has already started this passionate journey when yesterday he kept checking out her reaction when she was busy giving him silent treatment 😉😳
I feel Aarti needs someone who can first boost up her self-esteem a bit ...like we had discussed earlier ,Aarti has a low self-esteem and does not trust people easily because of her past experiences ... Seeing the kind of male domination in Scindia Family when it comes to decision-making ,she feels further scared and insecure because she was betrayed by a man only in the past ...So here I believe Yash need to make efforts and give her the assurance that when it comes to their kids ,they will b jointly taking decisions here ...Yash himself needs to come out of his family's shadow and go for this positive change in decision making ..This is where both needs to strike a balance and come out of their past shadows because change in both their thoughts is what needed for a positive start 👍🏼...
If Aarti stays with her ego and feels only she has rights to take decisions for Ansh and if Yash stays with his own thought-process that being a man only he will take the major decisions for the kids , then they can never strike a proper balance and the kids will suffer more ..If both agree that a change is needed since the world is progressing ,then they should first themselves come out of their regressive thought-process and then think about their kids ...I said regressive because Yash's POV regarding how discipline can b achieved only with strict schooling or how only men can take major decisions is old-school parenting and decision-making 👎🏼 while Aarti's POV that how she is the Mother India for Ansh and will always remain so since all Men r morons like Prashant while she has the best knowledge of parenting being a mother 😆 is again a partial and one-sided thought-process 👎🏼...Let Yash come out of the shadow of his family's style of decision-making and take his own individual decision and let Aarti come out of the shadow of her bitter past experience and take a neutral decision in present ...all issues will automatically resolve 😆😛

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Coming to today's episode , Aarti's possessiveness for Ansh results in Yash's outburst ...will they finally strike a balance trying to understand each other ?? 🤔
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Jyoti,

Awesome write up. You saved me a lot of typing 😉 i agree with your POV. Yash said he put Ansh in a good school so that he is ready for the competitive world outside. That is one hell of progressive thinking and i believe that he not only said it but meant it as well.
Its Pa Scindiya who is the most regressive man of the house and noone else.
Pankaj wants to steal some moments of romance from his wife thats devoted to their family. A regressive man would be glad to have a wife like that but he understands that they have a life of their own and they should live it. Same with Pratik. he cant give up on his cooking hobby even after bua's vicious taunts or his own mother's not so favorable attitude towards it.
Similarly Yash is also progressive in his thought process. He stiffens everytime Pa says something thats regressive. its just he does not oppose it like we would love him to. Even in yesterday's episode he did not like the way Pa spoke and hence he ran to clear the air about himself. He certainly wants to come out of his dad's shadow and i feel Aarti will show him the path - much to G3's chagrin 😉

and i dont think Aarti has self esteem issues. In fact she holds herself in highest regard especially when it comes to her kid. If she had self esteem issues, i am sure she would have been gladder for Yash's actions but she figures her importance in Ansh's life and hence expects Yash to consult her before making any decision that affects Ansh. I feel Vidhi is the most doormat character but Aarti is like breath of fresh air. She is pretty vocal about what she feels. except when Pa and G3 are shooting daggers at her every now and then but she has started to open up to Yash when it gets too far. i am not complaining 😳
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I think there is a difference between being humble and simple than having low self-esteem. If anyone is insecure in the house it G3 it why she mistreats orders to make herself feel more secure and powerful. If Aarti was so insecure she would not believe that she can raise Ansh correctly. She wouldnt have the belief that she can make her son successful through a mediocre school. She is humble and doesnt have the need to be the best of the best but she is not insecure. She is secure enough to be her progressive self around a bunch of regressive people. She is secure enough to answer back to Yash. Not being the typical wife who always concurs to make her hubby happy.
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