Hi SRKLuvr,
yes, my thought process is based on irritation with the singhs.
I think they are taking the whole thing too too far.
Yes, Jagya has made very serious mistakes in the way he handled his affair and subsequent marriage with gauri.
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Yes, he did turn down their hospital which they had hopes and aspirations for him to run.
But, I think that a lot of these mistakes came to pass because he felt suffocated in the environment that his parents were providing him -- a child marriage and a hospital.
I mean it would only be appropriate if sumitra and bhairon had made a contract with him before he was born saying "you will abide by everything we say, marry whom we choose and do work in Jayetsar only" and he had agreed to it.
It's not like children choose to come into this world. Parents foist life on to them. And therefore, children are not under obligation to do *exactly* what parents want, nor are they obligated to carry them for old age etc...unless they want to and feel good about caring for their parents. That compulsion should not be there.
Obviously every human being craves some degree of freedom and has their own bent.
I can understand the initial silent treatment meted out to jagya, but stretching it out on a life long basis seems a little too much for me.
If bhairon is now saddled with anandi's responsibility of finding a groom, then very good!! After all, he did do the child marriage despite being an educated responsible man in society. It is not that he was in support of child marriage. He was just spineless to stand up to his mother/dadisa.
He is 80% responsible for anandi's state today. Jagya can be 20% responsible.
Bhairon making faces all the time, glaring at him with contempt filled eyes makes me sick. I really dislike it.
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