5/4/12 Arjun-Purvi:Winning and Losing Is Part Of Life - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Preeti-

Shru

am hoping we have tonite's epi minus the Haddi too. I swear "a Haddi" and i'll pull out my hair. But i feel we wont have any.

To add to this. I guess this Pune trip is the one where Punni might plan something. Day before yday we had the CV's show the FB of Varsha's Pune trip where her mother caught her with Ashwin. So there is a possibility that this time may be It would be for the good. Punni plots things against Arjun and Purvi stands by him n supports him and thats probably thier Pavitra Rishta

Hopefully it will be minus haddi. As long as haddi is not around them all should go well.

Punni has no clue of the strong connection Arjun-Purvi share. I think when she realizes this and that her tricks are not working she will play her game. I was thinking what if Sulochna's fear comes true and something happens due to which Arjun-Purvi get linked. They have not gone alone there are other associates as well from work and remember how Vinay was saying the other employee that due to Purvi his name was removed from the list that time the employee didn't believe him.

Originally posted by: Tulsey

Good post Shruti.

winning and losing helps a person to learn from their mistakes and make them better at making the calculated wise decision.

Purvi has recently experienced a painful loss and she is feeling down and out, Arjun is helping her to take heart. He is probably wanting to say to her to just around the corner waits a new experience, a new person, the potential for a new life. But Purvi may not be able to see the possibilities in her deflated emotional state. Arjun will reach out and help Purvi without realizing that he is actually falling in love with her.

For Arjun, Purvi will become his strength. He will realize that successful people are not people who always win. They are people who win some and lose some, just like everybody else.

Both will mentor, counsel and uplift each other. They both will learn from each other to hold their vision so strongly that losses, setbacks, rejections and upsets will be seen as mere stepping stones, opportunities for growth, only temporary roadblocks. They will end up beeing very compatible for each other. And this is something Arjun will never receive from Ovi. Ovi lives in a gas baloon floating somewhere up in her own world ... I just hope that all this comes true...

Thanks Tulsey

Purvi is broken because she knows her marriage was her mother dream and her rishta being broken hurted her the most and she can never see her mother in pain due to her. Arjun is acting like a support pillar to Purvi. He knows she is broken and he tries to being her out of that state.

At times you win at times you lose but what you learn from your win/loss matters and how you take it. Arjun has been so connected to Purvi that it hurts him to see her in pain and his heart/mind is at peace when he sees she is safe and sound.

Arjun and Purvi who could not stand each other when the met for first time have come to a place in their lives where they have been connected with each other by a strong bond which they are yet to realize.