My thoughts of Prashant and Aarti

Yesterday the talk between Prashant and Aarti threw few lights on certain areas...

This post not to find any excuse in Prashant's behavior but to find the reason why he was sound so selfish and so resentful toward Aarti.. I am just trying to see in to all aspects so read on and let me know what you think also...

I think the main reason for Aarti to get back prashant is not just because of herself but for Shobha and her husband.

Prashant is their son and she feels totaly reposible for Prashant's leaving... She feels guilty about it that it did not work out between them and he had to leave and thus she was the reason of depriving them of their son's love and I think she understood that more after being a mom herself.

She wanted him back.. She said she has no concern for the past and she is ready to forget it. But he should come back as she loves him beyond the reason. He told her that he tried to make it work and it did not and it is not possible to come back as he is so much advance in his relationship with and loves her and cannot think of living her.

They showed Prashant and Aarti having good time so why Prashant resented Aarti sooo much.. The resentment for Aarti and her emotional status and crying ways were oozing from Prashant.. I felt he was totaly disgusted at her pleading and left her howling without a backward glance and he did not ask once for Ansh...

I think he did not love Aarti but was compelled to marry her was it because Aarti was pregnant???

And Shobha being the pillar of truth and righteousness stood with Aarti and did not support her son. Mr. Dubey though a weak person but has always support his wife cause he knows that she always stands for the truth and is right but he still has a desire for his son to come back..

Prashant was an only child so obviously he was an apple of thier eyes. Shobha should be very loving and great mom and must have given everything to Prashat.

Aarti was an orphaned and the few glimpse we have in their love life shows Aarti is outspoken and straighforward . Her interactions with Prashant are very playful and witty and we have also seen that she even made the people in the garden go after Prashant.. I think she loved to play the prank but Prashant may have not liked it all the time as it always put him on the spot.

While Prashant was leaving the first time his words were full of resentment toward Aarti that she has taken the place in his parent's heart and made him an outsider and he had to leave.. He told her that she does not need him as she has them. He did not care a bit for the baby Aarti was carrying.. She even put his hand on her tummy but he just jerked and walked away because he was in love with someone else and the baby was the symbol of trap and not of love..

The same resentment was shown yesterday in Prashant's speech when he told her that I will pacify my parents as they are my parents and it is my house... His resentment was clearly shown in the feeling that she being an outsider is residing in his house and with his parents and he the son is now without any shelter. He just wanted Aarti to move on so he can settled back with all which is rightfully his.. He feels Aarti's presence just as an obstacle in his life...

So in actuality he did not love Aarti the way she loved him...and that is why...

it was very easy for him to walk away..

it was very easy for him to wish Aarti all the happiness and

it was very easy for him to tell Aarti to have a life with some other man... He was not pining for her at all...

But he happy that Aarti is moving on with her life but he was more happy that an obstacle in his life is gone and he may have a chance to get back everything he lost because of her.

Aarti even told him that it is easy to get his parent's love.. She told him for my sake they will forgive you just accept Ansh but he was totally outraged at her. So I think the main reason of his resentment if the baby... I think because of the baby he got trapped in marrying Aarti... otherwise how is it possible not to care even an iota for the baby??? Because the baby may be the reason for his trapping in the marriage with Aarti.

He said he tried to work it out but it did not work... So he must have married her because of the pressure from his upright mom??? but he felt trapped and walked away.. And in this situation Shobha supported Aarti as his son was falling behind his responsibility after making Aarti pregnant but he was strugglling to maintain his sanity and he fell in love with another woman and walked away from everything once he hold dear...

He is now in love with her... his job is not that good... there is no one to support him in Delhi.. He has no house to live in.. but in all these dire conditions he does not want to leave a woman he is with now... and he left Aarti while he had everything.. and he tells Aarti that love cannot be forced upon like she is doing??? So it only means that he did not love Aarti and felt trapped to be with her..

And I think he could not let go of that resentment toward Aarti and her son that they were the one who made him lost everything he hold dear and now he is the one who is wadering here and there...

Thought Aarti is pleading him to come back and she is telling him that she is ready to forget the past but he had no effect. He tells her to stop her emotional drama and not be selfish and look for her own things as she has not changed a bit and she has always done that..

Aarti is in illusive world.. For her being with Prashant gives her the sense of belonging... As being an orphan at an early age she has no pleasure to know about all these relations. So she craves for such things and she feels responsible for Prashant's walking away.. she feels responsible of depriving Dubey's of their only child.. She feels responsible that she was not able to gain Prashant's full love in spite he tried... So the guilt factor took over and she started crying and pleading... She just wanted him to believe in her and her love so that all can work out and come to normal. When Prashant says he wants to take care of his parents... She told him yes he can do that only if he puts his hand on Ansh and mom will forgive him for her sake.. and that pissed him totaly off and he said that love cannot be bestowed forcefully..

She still pleads him to give her one more chance and he just rejects her hand from his body.. He even did not like her touching him... She was totally shock at his resentment..

When Aarti comes back she tells Shobha there was nothing there for her. She says she has lost all.. So now she has no other choice but to go ahead with what Shobha has selected for her and get a father for Ansh as that is what this all about.. Her heart is broken in thousand pieces and there is no way to mend it so she just has no desire left in her heart and she is ready to drag her life to another direction as being led by her mom. She has no trust in her judgement but she is now relying on Shobha that all will be well..

When Shobha told her that it was great of Yash to reach in time there and bring you home.. She has like mixed feelings as why he was there or did he see anything? but Shobha wanted to put the point that only because of Yash she is here in time and They were saved from lots of humiliation... (which her own son could not do...)

but Aarti's case is different. When the unfaithfulness and betrayal is there in first love... it is not remembered such a way and a woman hardly trust a man who has betrayed her with other woman... He has left her for another woman and also feels responsible for losing everything because of her.

There is resentment and there is Jealousy... .