Rumors and crticisms -a part and parcel of success

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Posted: 13 years ago
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We got hooked on to this show for different reasons and our love for it brings us here on IF. All fans think their favorite show is the best; their leads are the best and wish for the success of the show. When IPKKND started some began as Barun fans, some as Sanaya fans, and some just came across it while flipping channels and the show was recommended to some...but most of us ended up loving Arhi / Sarun. IPKKND has been the best for us from the time it came on air.

The show began with a promise, we loved it for own reasons but the trps were average for months. Fans more or less accepted this fact as the rulers of the trps charts are mostly saas bahu sagas and IPKKND faced tough competition due to the time slot. We were happy when our show was at the top 20, we were elated when it reached the top ten, ecstatic when it became the slot leader and now our show is at the top three and has consistently remained at the top five for quite some time.

With its uniqueness, IPKKND made its mark.

With success come a lot of things, criticisms, rumors are a part of it.

We have come across lots negative comments, criticisms, baseless rumors, bashing etc here on IF, FB, and even a baseless article in the last few days.

As fans many of us may think that our opinions don't count, what we do say on forums and social networking sites doesn't matter...but it actually does have some kind of impact. Noreen Khan's show is an example.

Our show had many ups and downs, inconsistencies but it maintained its position on the trp charts and online because of the love the fans have for this show and the leads.

Lately there has been lots of negativity, particularly after IPK won so many awards at SPA and after that Barun won at GIFTH. Barun was interviewed on the BBC Asia Network and hopefully Sanaya will be there as well. An HT Brunch article came out where a well known film critic listed Sarun as people to watch out for in 2012. This show, its leads are BIG !! They have managed to grab eyeballs.

But then we see all kinds of weird comments...people bashing them, making issue out of their statements and gestures, spreading rumors, questioning their friendship and comparing the two. If non-fans do it, I understand, but if people claiming to be the fans of the show do it. It's disappointing.

What makes it worse is the unnecessary discussion regarding certain issues. While bashing needs to be dealt with, sometimes ignoring helps too. Discussing a rumor often helps it spread more. When a baseless article or report comes out, spamming their inbox and FB pages help but sometimes not paying attention to it does the trick.

It all depends on the situation'I guess there is no right way or wrong way to deal with it. But I feel it's unnecessary to put everything under the microscope. Looking too much into everything will only complicate things.

Showing a little maturity and restraint always helps.

Do we really need to analyze every off-screen activity of our leads the way we discuss scenes, analyze symbolism and let our imagination run wild?

If we are fans of the show, then we must love our leads as well. It's not necessary that everyone has to like Barun or Sanaya equally. But it's their show. They make Arhi real for us. We can't acknowledge one without acknowledging the other. If we do then we are just fooling ourselves.

The highlight of the show is Arhi chemistry and Sarun together creates the magic on screen. If other actor's were cast as Arnav or Khushi, the characters would have remained but Arhi would not have been the same.

Arhi works because Sanaya and Barun complement each other. But we can't overlook their individual efforts and performances. One of the leads can be praised without bringing down the other.

More importantly, all these negativity does not do any good. If any of us is strictly a fan or Sanaya or strictly Barun, shouldn't we want the best for their show, respect their personal and professional lives?

NOTE : I am writing such a long post after a very long time, not sure if it makes much sense, but I just wanted to get the message across. I wrote this in a rush; there could be typos or grammatical errors...apologies. 😳

Please leave comments. I will reply later.

Edited by incandescent - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I have simple online philosophy, Fari. Separate the characters of the show from the real persons behind it. You can talk about the show, its characters, acting, storyline, histrionics, talent, you can criticize that, you can eulogize that, you can go bonkers on that. but leave the actual individuals behind that alone. SARUN and their personal life is their private business. ITS NONE OF OUR BUSINESS.

Its none of our business who sanaya dates
Its none of our business who is Barun's wife
Its none of our business whether Sanaya is a muslim, irani or parsi
Its none of our business whether Barun is a punjabi, delhi-ite, college educated etc.
Its none of our business what they do with their free time.
Its none of our business posting personal/family pictures of Barun or Sanaya on IF.
Its our curiosity to know these things but its upto SARUN to share or not share these details with us.
Its none of our business prodding, probing and nosing around in with their personal lives.

Edit - In fact, I am very happy both barun and sanaya don't have an FB page they share with fans. I am all for them creating a well moderated, monitored Fan page but I definitely appreciate their efforts to stay away from opening their personalized FB page to inquiry and curiosity of thousands of fans. Have any of you seen Abhaas's FB page. This guy is a sweetheart and he accepts anyone who sends him a request. As a result, he has a wide range of people commenting on his page. Some comments are not exactly flattering but he takes it in good sprits Hats off to him for that. But if Barun were to interact with his fans, I wont be surprised if a small minority of crazed fans sent him nude pictures, gross propositions and indecent proposals and lewd comments to make it a living hell for him. So I am actually proud of them for keeping their private lives private.


Edited by serialjunkie - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bang on dear.. Being fans doesn't give us the liberty to dissect their personal lives left and right. Just imagine yourself in their shoes. And we know Barun is a very private person. So why did deep. They both inspite of their popularity are holding their grounds and giving us awesome interviews. Off late is becoming too much of Barun/Sanaya rather then Arnav/Khushi. I hope everyone gets the point. Please leave them alone. Its definitely adding more pressure to them on top of their already hectic life. They slog like donkeys.. Work for 12 hrs a day and for a good 28 days in a months... Poor guys. My heart goes out for them.
Its high time we draw the line somewhere.Its definitely getting out of control somewhere. I hope everyone gets the message...
DRAW THE LINE PLEASE...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Fari, love your post. Sense and sensibilties. Lets not forget either.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Love your post... Wish this maturity and understanding was shown by everyone and specially the so called fans!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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very well said Fari.

They r like us ..normal people in real life.

No matter how popular u become..i would like to have privacy of my life. U never know what people takes nowadays and stretch it to nowhere.

I respect SARUN for this..i think thats maturity to keep it private and its professional.

Very rare people u see like them nowadays..people just wait for media to make oneself popular. These two r down to earth, humble..taking naturally and easy. I love them.

I am proud that i am ARHI Fan!!
Edited by Shastradhari - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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FARI BANG ON. im so sick n tired of these silly discussions on some so silly article and then y does barun insults sanaya why does sanaya says barun has eating disorder and to make things ugly we have 10 posts abt same thing roming !

Its a pitty we cant appreciciate them for their hardwork but have time for such lame stuff !


neeways my one prayer always remain may Allah keeps SARUN protected from every evil eye and may sarun remains the best of friends of each 4 ever n may we keep getting to see their masti interviews together the offscreen stuff insha-Allah !

may they win every single award in all the awARd functions and may they keep rocking as arnav n khushi for times to come insha-Allah Ameen.



Edited by Mahamluvsght - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I hope everyone reads this post and follows it..the rumours are ridiculous and joining in with them is even worse its better they just be ignored we love them as actors and adore them as arnav khushi lets keep it that way and leave there private lives to them
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Fari, love your post!! we needed this reminder!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Fari loved ur post..

I just hv one thing to say about Barun and Sanaya off screen article's and would want people to stop reacting at it. If Barun and Sanaya are not seen sticking with each other then a article will come up saying they are both at logger heads and were nt seen gelling well together though they work with each other, and now as they are good frnds we get a article saying love is in the air.
Both ways brick bats for sarun😆 either in love or at logger heads..
And im really happy that they stick to each other and gel well and have a very nice time with all the team member's. When one gets famous negative articles and comments pour down..
Good or bad publicity they are at news, and this is how the show bizz works.

With comparing Barun and Sanaya and demeaning one actor to praise the other needs to be stopped.They are both great actors individually and as a couple both.

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