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@navyab

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: shruts18

What a mindblowing reply Tina and I need to give you a long reply to this now😆The highlighted quote in red and black is very much true...love has to happen in a split second! the spark seen their eyes yester was different...love always culminates in a physical relation because God has made man and woman to share this kind of physical intimacy to express and share it with each other without which it is incomplete! And how much ever we talk of true love, until and unless there's trace of physical needs in it, the love is complete.

For Ahem to truly feel and see Gopi as his love, he needed to confess to him first that he wants see her as the dreamgirl of his life, the one with whom he can be intimate! The incident for sure would have soared his feelings high and for a man I believe physical relation is of utmost importance, he's actually guided by them. So I might seeing him doing things for her now which he himself or us would have thought as well. Maybe along the way he can show his repentance and all that he did in the first year!

Don't worry on the return of the favor part! When a guy is in love, it is said that he can fetch moon for his beloved! So now we'll see only Ahem and Ahem only doing up the stuff. His real role starts now😃

Well read thru both your points & agree !!!

I agree that intimacy is the highest level of love couple in love use to express it with one another...it is the expression of how much love one feels for the other person...it is the desire of the heart to show & feel that love when you are in love with the person...And for love to succeed without intimacy is very difficult ...the relationship itself starts to die...& Im seeing it happening in the marriage relationship of my friend...so I agree on this point...

I also agree with Tina that Gopi always had unconditional love & never blamed anyone for her misforture...she could have easily said her MIL even after knowing she got her into this marriage or anyone else...she accepted that she was not perfect for him & worked on it...she worked on anything & everything, put all the humiliation back & moved forward...this reminds of one scene which Gopi had with Rashi after the ghost incident , she told Rashi that I know that both you & Jigar are different people & have different ways of expressing love but me & Ahem are different & thou it is difficult I will wait for the time to come...it was something like this...she says...this clearly shows that she never gave up on Ahem, She loved with all her heart with no expectations & hoped that time will come in her life that he will also reciprocate the feelings...

Ahem on his part thou indiiferent in the past, hated her as the time went by...but the day he stood for her during the education track, it shows that somewhere he knew that he was responsible for her...& as time went by he started to know her & was attracted to her...if he was not he would not have stopped Gopi from leaving the house when Rashi was being thrown out...somewhere attraction & responsibility was what he felt for her...but the night he almost lost her...it bought him to face reality that she meant much more than he just being responsible for her...& after that his ego or pride none of it was there...he took care of her , nursed her back to health as he knew what she meant to him...& he started to woo her to know where does he stand in their relationship...he loves her that is sure... but how much & at what conditions only time will tell...so when a situation of adverse hits her or their relationship...will his love sustain them to go into together & will he stand by her then giving unconditional love & support ???

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@shruts18

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: navyab
Well read thru both your points & agree !!!

I agree that intimacy is the highest level of love couple in love use to express it with one another...it is the expression of how much love one feels for the other person...it is the desire of the heart to show & feel that love when you are in love with the person...And for love to succeed without intimacy is very difficult ...the relationship itself starts to die...& Im seeing it happening in the marriage relationship of my friend...so I agree on this point...

I also agree with Tina that Gopi always had unconditional love & never blamed anyone for her misforture...she could have easily said her MIL even after knowing she got her into this marriage or anyone else...she accepted that she was not perfect for him & worked on it...she worked on anything & everything, put all the humiliation back & moved forward...this reminds of one scene which Gopi had with Rashi after the ghost incident , she told Rashi that I know that both you & Jigar are different people & have different ways of expressing love but me & Ahem are different & thou it is difficult I will wait for the time to come...it was something like this...she says...this clearly shows that she never gave up on Ahem, She loved with all her heart with no expectations & hoped that time will come in her life that he will also reciprocate the feelings...

Ahem on his part thou indiiferent in the past, hated her as the time went by...but the day he stood for her during the education track, it shows that somewhere he knew that he was responsible for her...& as time went by he started to know her & was attracted to her...if he was not he would not have stopped Gopi from leaving the house when Rashi was being thrown out...somewhere attraction & responsibility was what he felt for her...but the night he almost lost her...it bought him to face reality that she meant much more than he just being responsible for her...& after that his ego or pride none of it was there...he took care of her , nursed her back to health as he knew what she meant to him...& he started to woo her to know where does he stand in their relationship...he loves her that is sure... but how much & at what conditions only time will tell...so when a situation of adverse hits her or their relationship...will his love sustain them to go into together & will he stand by her then giving unconditional love & support ???

Yeah Navya thanks for going into our thoughts and responding with a deep insight into Gohem relation till now.😊he was attracted to her physically from the beginning. But his ego needed some relief from showing up everytime his attraction used to surface. So with the changing circumstances and knowing her slowly as a person, and then getting dependent on her brought his ego down and the awareness that she's such a beautiful person to be with.

Now I wanna see how he handles their relationship now. One pattern I am seeing is that CVs haven't made it a dreamy romance! Its very much practical and grounded right from the beginning. So a perfect dreamworld confession would have been Ahem falling for Gopi's good nature and beauty and realizing all his mistakes, then confessing to her about his love.

But I think its not to be. They are showing it the practical way. Who would have imagined that the towel would come off. One would have bet on the reactions of Gohem on their SR only. But now I feel there's a long way to go for SR in the making. Slowly CVs are trying to show that Ahem is getting physically attracted towards Gopi. So he will start loving her madly and I think very much madly. But one more thing I am feeling that before his confession happens, something might happen which may stop him from telling his feelings to her. Maybe he sees some of the truth of past kalakaaris and then he feels guilty and regret. For CVs haven't touched this kalakaari chapter at all as far as Ahem is concerned. So then starts his way to redemption and indeed an interesting one. But I am sure that their love story wont be like a regular give rose, say I love you and :yes I love you too" like that. It would be different.