Harsh Truth-Loveatics live in Fairy Tales - Page 2

MD, I really like the way you present your views................very precise, consice and extremely lucid!

Love and Respect are interconnected..................they have to co-exist...........but at the same time there are relationships where there is no ''apparent'' respect, but there is tremendous love! But these are few are far in between...........if we talk about real life, I won't be able to come up with one example of a woman who is ready to put up with this sort of behaviour from Angad, no matter how much she loves him.

What is love after all? Isn't it as much about receiving as it is about giving? A Dog is the most selfless of all animals, yet if you keep ignoring the animal, he will stop resonding to you.................no matter how much he loves you, no much however faithful he is to you............and here we are pondering on human emotions!

Man, in the end is a selfish creature................even in selfless love, we try to find something..............if not, then why don't we fall in love with an inanimate object............why don't we fall in love with someone who is dead? We love a living human being, because we consciously or unconsciously expect and hope that we will recieve love back!

Kripa loved Angad because she had a hope that she will receive love back from him.................even after she saw him spending a night with a girl in the Outhouse, even after she saw him drinking away to glory, even after she saw his hypocratic, narasscist side, even after she saw his ruthlessness, even after she saw his unreasonable, ego-centric, obessessive side............she continued loving him, because she wanted to love him and wanted him to love her.

And she will continue doing so........................because as I said before she doesn't know anything apart from loving him! And he can hurt her, destroy her, rubbish her, tear her apart or mutilate her soul in any which way he wants to..............she will still love him!

Women like Kripa might exist in real life.........but I personally do not know of any of them.....and if I did know, I wouldn't relate to them one bit! Love is but a matter of choice, how much one is willing to give himself, how much one is willing to lose himself and howmuch one is willing to destruct himself for it..............the intensity differs, but the sentiment is the same!

Chilly

PS: Believe me MD, I am as confused by my post as you are! I was trying to convey something, but have written something else...........but somewhere I guess you will understand what I actually meant to say!😊

I know, I know what you are trying to say Chilly, as I understand what Nits is trying to convey.

I believe in true love too... I just hope I am proven wrong when my overrational side takes over. Whatever be the case, atleast in this fiction, I want love to triumph over all odds! 😊

wow guys....u blow me away by ur awesome posts.....all ov u MD, chilly, nitica, mink n all ov u other creative ppl👏👏👏

i wish if i cud be even one tenth as creative as u guys....

hey MD, nicely expressed

i agree that for many, self-respect comes first. It has to!!!!!!. A person's Self-Respect shows how confident they r in themselves.It shows that they r ready to face the world in any and all means possible.

and then again, nits u r right too in your own place.Love is a ver important thing in our life. It is our soul's faith that keeps us going. Many ups and downs come in life and our hope for finding love keeps us going and takes us to our goal. It cannot be said that Love is Reality or is it Fiction!!!!! Every1 knows that Love exists, in any form......or atleast hope that it exsists!.

Although there are real life examples like Romeo-Juliet, Heer-Ranjha and many others that show that Somewhere, Love truly exists.But the real question is that DOES TRUE LOVE EXSIST? I mean Romeo and Juliet went thru so much just to be with each other and finally try to give meaning to love. But why is it that 2 people who have loved and will love each other forever, why do they ALWAYS heve to get seperated?

pls. reply!!!

i m sorry if i confused u guys!!!!!

love KP

I agree with you LT, even I am totally confused. I want true love to be around, but know its rare. And then, the ongoing debate between love and respect is ages old.

We all here are just taking it forward.