Rashi's kalakari for the best?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Just thinking aloud, guys. Rashi is now going to do major kalakari to divide the family. What if it turns out well after all? because the way I see it, the Modis are quite a dysfunctional family. The manage to stay happy because of the good natures of Hetal and Chirag. It is their maturity that keeps them on an even keel.
Left to Koki she had managed to ruin the temperamental of both her children. She is jealous of Jigar who is the nicest guy on earth. She is so overbearing and competitive -these are not the best qualities in a homemaker, particularly in a joint family!

Although Rashi will not succeed in breaking them she could certainly shake them up! It could rearrange the dynamics of the family for the better. What say?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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yeah both rashi and gopi will be at peace if rashi could succeed.. koki should be put in her place by hetal.. koki's interference in mota bhai parivaar 😡is too much.. afterall what rashi said is correct at the end of the day koki's iccha hi sab lok manthe hai.. koki always thinks best of her ahem dikra.. hetal and chirag also support her accepting he is the elder son.. but koki doesn't want jigar to be successful.. she want him to be parag no.2..

eventhough i know rashi can't split the family but still i hope she try her level best..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think in future cvs may bring such a track where there will be partitions between chirags nd parags family due to rashi or other reason...🤔

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rashi.krishna

yeah both rashi and gopi will be at peace if rashi could succeed.. koki should be put in her place by hetal.. koki's interference in mota bhai parivaar 😡is too much.. afterall what rashi said is correct at the end of the day koki's iccha hi sab lok manthe hai.. koki always thinks best of her ahem dikra.. hetal and chirag also support her accepting he is the elder son.. but koki doesn't want jigar to be successful.. she want him to be parag no.2..

eventhough i know rashi can't split the family but still i hope she try her level best..


Hey rashi , like a true kalaakarni i second u 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i understand what you are saying but it would be good for both families a little separation, hetal, jigar, chirag again has her eyes close to rashis kalakaris if they have to deal with it themselves n not kokila then it will be a lesson learnt by themselves not told to them by kokila.
As for kokila she needs to see for herself as well that aham cannot do with his back support ie chirag n jigar he is only successful because he has support from equally successful persons. Aham will manage n gopi will be full hands on so it will be good to see.
As much as i dont like kokila shouting etc it would be good for rashi to come down to earth a little bit she again is hovering regarding material things n not her love for jigar n she is out of the mansion then her true colors again will show. after all she did trying to get back to mm she still did not learn any lesson from it.
This week kokila was right about ordering the rations so that it covers the week or month but you can be flexible as well if you dont eat a certain food one day n swap it for another that is also ok.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Agree to u .but a lil. Modi family ki unity ke liye agar hetal ki achai jaruri thi ,to utna hi jaruri koki ka discipline bhi tha. Agar, modi family ka break up hota hai, to, shaayad koki ko ye samajh aaye ki jo pyar aur respect use mm mein mil raha tha wo priceless tha jise usne kabhi value nahi diya.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I actually welcome a split, Gopi won't have Rashi on her back always being jealous, also Urmila won't know what's happening their side of the family, Rashi will rule her side of the family, Hetal will do all the kitchen work and they will get a maid to do the housework, everyone will be happy, Gopi will just have to keep Kokila happy, which is better then dealing with so many different obstacles to her happiness, one less will be good for her.

The more I think about it Hetal will be happy even though Rashi doesn't do any work in the house, she will do everything in the kitchen and employ a maid to help her, Rashi will do what she likes with her mother. Initially I was thinking Hetal can see how lazy Rashi is about the house, with no Gopi to do the work and pick up the slack and Kokila won't be there to talk, so Hetal will see with her own eyes and realise Kokila was right about Rashi's behaviour, but the more I think about it, I think Hetal is a modern mum, she doesn't mind if Rashi does nothing, she likes to do the work and will employ someone to help, when she eventually dies, Rashi will just get instead of one servant two, a chef as well for the kitchen...and everyone is happy, apart from Gopi and Aham, but until they buck up and start talking to get Kokila to back off they will stay as they are.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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The split will be good but unlike the popular belief, I think it will be good for the Chota bhai parivaar.. I think this family balanced out on things.. Hetal is kind and generous while Koki is stern and strict.
We have seen Kokila maintain the books while Hetal is good at making the family feel good.
When there is a split, yes Ahem, Gopi and Koki will miss the other family but they will survive.
Gopi will be able to flourish. Without Rashi filling her brain, she will be able to take care of the house and her MIL properly.
Ahem is good at business. Although it will hurt when or if there is a split, he will still be able to do well. Kokila will be her own self but less irritable because she does not have to stay at Rashi's tail all the time. She can concentrate on something worthwhile for a change. This family may not often go out to parties but they will be happy and content.

As for the Mota Bhai parivaar, I agree partly with Nafisa that Hetal will take it easy at the beginning. Yes. At the beginning. But however lenient you are, there are times when you will have to put the foot down.. Like the monthly budget..
If Rashi is allowed she will spend the entire budget on pedicures and manicures.. So slowly as the two set house, even if Hetal does not worry about Rashi working, she will see what Kokila meant about money.. However rich you are, you stay within the limits.

Then there is Rashi's nature.. Now she is in the process of making Hetal happy. But previously she did not think once before accusing or hurting Hetal.. Rashi will not need a reason to be jealous of her MIL. If her FIL or MIL tell her something she will immediately crib and make it an issue. You can Java dena only so many times. Urmila will be at their house most of the times whether Rashi likes it or not. It is only Koki she is afraid of now..
No offence to Jigar but he has just given one presentation to get a deal. He is not yet settled in business. So the onus of running the business will be on Chirag for quite some time to come which does not augur well..
So however we hide it, the cracks will for be there in the Mota Bhai parivaar permanently.

The spilt will be a welcome change to the Parag Bhai familty is MHO... But, a split is invariably painful. In a family that is so well balanced, it will leave an indelible mark. Even if there is no split, it will show how necessary it was for Kokila to raise Ahem this way. If not for Ahem, Kokila and her family would be on the road if there is a split.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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completely agree with nafisa and harini with split...

The split is welcome, how much ever hurtful it may be...it will clearly bring the differences between Rashi and Gopi as bahu's to the fore and also the differences between Hetal and Kokiji as their saas...
.the split in the family shows the differences between these 2 sisters as bahus of 2 families

- Rashi as bahu: Rashi who is selfish and evil with her own ways is gonna create a feud between the Mota Bhai Parivar itself, maybe between Hetal and Jigar, Chirag and Jigar,
-Hetal will not keep books... she will trust rashi with it... Rashi being rashi will spent of the whole part for herself and when asked she might make a scene out of it
-Hetal, Jigar will know about rashi's negative qualities as there is no gopi to cover her activities
- Rashi is lazy and cribs about small things if told...
-Hetal can take over the work.,.what if she is ill... will rashi take care of her...a big NO
-Chirag will find it difficult to work without Ahemji...as he said that he does not feel like going to work without Ahemji

- Gopi as bahu:Gopi being gopi will always with her patience and endurance, even the though she will be the most effected, will stick with her MIL become support system to Kokiji and Ahemji...
- as nafisa and harini said, kokila is better off without rashi, koki trying to mend her ways all the time..and rashi making faces...atleast koki will be spared in this section...
-kokiji can give all the work to gopi and sit back... because no rashi, no kalakari and there will be no mistakes for which gopi has to take the blame for
- Gopi will be taking care of the house as usual... with love and care for everyone in chota bhai parivar (of course she will be sad and hurt with in)

other points to be noted:

-everyone in the house, including meethi will be really hurt and painful except rashi...and most affected will be Gopi...as she can't see anyone unhappy😭
-till now it's koki's sternness and strictness is what kept Modi Parivar together... her tough decisions made everyone stick to their work and routine...she thinks ahead and plans ahead
- If koki was also soft and happy bunny like hetal... anyone in the colony or friends or relatives or urmila would have taken them for a ride...
- Even though koki and Hetal are as different as chalk and cheese... they run the house smoothly because one is fire (koki), other is water (hetal) because of which there is stability in the house...
- koki warned hetal about rashi on the day of the weddings... but hetal said javadena and she is and will face the consequences of the decision she made

Gopi as a peace maker:

if gopi is successful as a peacemaker and be able to stop the split then there are 2 outcomes in gopi's favor

- Ahemji sees the selfless person she is and her love towards his family... till now he has seen gopi being worried about Ahemji or Rashiben or Maaji individually ,... now if she stops the split gopi's love towards his whole family and she will obviously rise in his eyes... in terms of love, respect and trust

- Kokiji will be glad and more than happy to give the responsibilities of the house to Gopi as the elder bahu...she can sit back and relax and with full confidence and conviction let gopi take the responsibilities of the house ...but she will be still there behind her gopi vahu ... as a mom to hold her when she stumbles

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Munni.. Fantastic reasoning Munni.. The bahu comparison was wonderful.. 👏 You have listed the points logically to cover what the long term future holds for the 2 families in case of a split instead of just the immediate future.

At the beginning it will look like the Mota Bhai parivaar is better off by the split.

- Rashi will be happy that she is the only DIL
- Hetal though sad will also be happy for her son and DIL
- Hardest will be for Chirag and Jigar to pick up the pieces of business that split due to the politics among women but they have each other.
On the other hand,
Gopi and Parag will be sad. Kokila will be devastated but the proud woman she is, will not show her worries to the outside world. Ahem will be angry and also devastated like Koki. But again he may share it only with Gopi and no one else.. So at the beginning we will have an angry Chota Bhai Parivaar and a happy bunny Mota Bhai parivaar

I think in the longer run, it will be the Mota Bhai Parivaar who will see that they lose a lot..

- Hetal can continue dreaming for some more time that Rashi is an uncut diamond but it will not take long to see the mistake...Reality will crash in to show that till now Rashi shone only because she reflected the light that Gopi provided. All that glitters is not gold.
- No offense to Jigar, he is really a good man but I cannot see the drive and Passion in him that Ahemji has and for a person who is just coming up in work drive is the most defining factor.
- Currently Rashi is jealous of the place Ahemji has in business but she forgets that to gain that place, Ahem made a lot of sacrifices. If she expects Jigar to be both the lovey dovey guy and a tiger in business, it will not be easy. He will have to compromise sometimes and Rashi is not patient enough to understand that. There are bound to be fights on petty things..
- Chirag is so used to working with Ahem. He has been the mentor like Ahem is mentoring Jigar now. So both Chirag and Jigar will see the gap that Ahem leaves. It will not be easy to fill that gap.
- For 30 years Hetal and Koki worked together. Both played the role in keeping the family together. One cannot be given the greater praise. If Kokila was the mind, Hetal was the heart of the family. It will surely be difficult but Kokila will come out of the rift and handle it better than Hetal...

Just my 2 cents... But again my intuition says that there will be a rift but no actual separation. Maybe Hetal will start imposing a few things and override Kokila a bit for sometime. There is bound to be taunts and accusations flying around for some time too. But Hetal cannot hold that grudge long and she does not impose herself a lot. Rashi will find that they all go back to the original state soon. Next time Kokila will be more careful and Rashi will be at the receiving end...

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