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Posted: 13 years ago
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Assumption:

let us assume...If things were normal ... with no punishment to Ahemji and no vow from Gopi ... They would be happy in their lives...her smiling and bring his tea...serving his breakfast, lunch, dinner...with a beautiful smile on her face and a shine in her eyes...staring at each other... looking at her husband with all the love in her eyes

he would be content with the way his life is going on with work... happy to see her around at home... talking about nothing...seeing her smiling... her taking out his clothes, hanky bag etc... even without asking him... staring at each other until they hear Koki's voice or a knock on the door...

but for how long would this have continued... for days, months or years we don't know

Decision Making:

in that situation the opportunity was at hand and smart people won't let go off the opportunities at hand...and Mrs.Kokila Parag Modi did the same, grabbed the opportunity with both her hands... felt cherished with the decision she was making...

made her son sit at home...work at home...he did it.. he felt that work should not be ignored come what may...promised the same to him ... that he will work by not getting involved in any other house matters...

showed her gopi vahu that because of her Ahemji is getting diverted from work and getting involved in house matters...gopi vahu who blames herself for every problem at home ...felt guilty and made a promise to her Maaji that she would not show her face or talk to him about any other thing...

why did she not stop her gopi from the vow ? had she stopped her vow...

things would have returned to Assumption (the first part of the post)

now that she has not stopped her from the vow ... here are the observations:

Observations: (all fans are happy with the observations)

- Gopi is covering her face... literally avoiding him..and not talking to him ' just taking care of his things...

- Ahemji first confused.. perplexed with the change in her attitude...

- Feels empty by not seeing her next to him...

- Wanted to know what's worrying her at the havan...

- feels worried about her health when she slept much earlier than the usual time...

- missing her at work...and lost in her thoughts for a few moments

- came back .. missing her again.. frustration..irritation... snapping at everyone..anger for not telling him..feeling restless when she is not taking his call... vocally blurted out "wish she was here" which koki heard she is not angry with this revelation

-brought out the feelings of desperation, eagerness, restlessness, being worried ,missing each other, frustration... in them.,...mostly in Ahemji... had it not been to make them apart they would have happily lived staring at each other all their life...

what will she do next..now that she has heard his son's vocal realization... will she just let the things go on as it is... or even might make it worse asking her to stay away for couple of days more...

we all love and are happy seeing the observations we have listed above and courtesy Kokiji...👏.

Conclusion:

- Kokiji's brain works or she thinks much ahead of what a normal mom or MIL thinks... she wants things to be bright in furture ...for son and her DIL...she decides to make them apart for a shorter period to ensure they stay together as a true saathiya to each other as long as they are alive..

- Kokiji... you are the true catalyst in this love story ' had you not taken this strict decision of keeping them apart... they would never ever would have uncovered their true feelings...

- kokiji you get all the hatred for the decision you made... to make them apart '. but in your heart of heart you and few of us know that all you wish is happiness for your Son and Vahu as a married couple...


love u kokiji for being the mastermind...I salute for your thinking ... I salute u for taking the matter in your hands...

P.S: no offence to anyone


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you Munni for this post. For days I have not been able to let go of the fact that Koki is too strong to be jealous and behave in this manner. I kept going back to small news clip we got about three weeks ago about Koki being not happy with the distance between Gohem so she will bring twist to the story and seeing her reaction at Rashi's BD confirmed for me that Koki is not happy with the distance at all because all this time she thought they were getting closer, but in reality they were helping Raji. Koki being Koki never does anything in normal matter, she always takes things to extreme, but she gets the results she wants.

I hope she is the person to bring them together.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Excellent post Munni!!!!!
Love love love the way you have set it out!! Very logical!! Much thought has been put into this post!!
I have to say that Kokila's actions (whether they were meant for the good of GoHem's personal relationship or not!!) have managed to achieve what we have wanted to see for an age!!!!
Ahem has been restless and confused with regards to his wife's behaviour and has started to say out loud, even if it is to himself, how important Gopi is to his life - even if it is to do with the smooth running of his life, and let's face it the day to mundaness of life is where the importance of your life partner truly comes through. Gopi is there for him and Ahem has realised that fact.
So even if it wasn't a masterplan by Kokila to get the two to reaalise what they mean to each other, ahe has done a lot for their relationship, especially in making Ahem come to his realisations!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Great post munni. You have opened my eyes to another aspect of the storyline. I hope that your thinking is correct and she has some method to her madness.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Lovely post Munni! When Kokila punished Ahem for losing focus on his work, I am not sure if at this point she intended to use this as a way to bring Gohem together. But after hearing Ahem say that if Gopi was there she would have handled everything, then she may allow Gopi to stay at Urmi's house to make Ahem feel even more lost without Gopi. I don't think Kokila's intentions are bad, just the way she goes about things sometimes.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Munni---though I would love that Koki stands positive...Im not happy that anyone else being the reason than Ahem & Gopi realising that they love each other ...If Koki is the catalyst then all thru Gohem's life there will be a need for a 3rd party intervention because life does not stop at expressing love !!!Hoping that it not that & that Koki is just going thru the transformation of phase of being the mother of a son who was dependent only on her to mother of a son who has a wife who takes care of him !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Superb post Munni. I join you in saluting Kokila.
Kokila changes ordinary into extraordinary for her family. She believes that one should make the most of their life and the opportunities that come their way. She affirms that work is paramount to making something of ones life. She feels that when one does something do it properly and not in half measures or spliced up into bits.
She is there whole heartedly for them regardless of adversities she puts them through as she knows they will come out better than before.
In this situation she has seen her son verbalising his want for his wife. This is the first time has heard her son's feelings aired. Will she let him pine more or will she grant his want?
She was not jealous for her son's attention moving away from her to his wife. This is a natural progression in a marriage where reliance and dependency moves from mother to his wife for a son. As nani said to Kokila Gopi has to be there when Koki is no longer there. This is the start of Kokila letting go of her son's hand from her pallu.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

Thank you Munni for this post. For days I have not been able to let go of the fact that Koki is too strong to be jealous and behave in this manner. I kept going back to small news clip we got about three weeks ago about Koki being not happy with the distance between Gohem so she will bring twist to the story and seeing her reaction at Rashi's BD confirmed for me that Koki is not happy with the distance at all because all this time she thought they were getting closer, but in reality they were helping Raji. Koki being Koki never does anything in normal matter, she always takes things to extreme, but she gets the results she wants.

I hope she is the person to bring them together.


shilpa... thank you for liking the post...its been a long time since i saw u online...😃

very well said shilpa... she thought them to be coming closer ... but they made the mandir, the movie all for RaJi... this triggered her mind to do or make them realize what they mean to each other...

we have seen ...koki is not a looser... she wants the results at the end...she is clever enough to get the job done ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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fantastic post munni...if what u envisioned is true...then koki indeed is a mastermind...i like koki...i really do...but this time around ..im still on the fence regarding her behavior...i think the cvs are purposefully being ambiguous...so that they can shape her behavior any which way they want at a later date...i would love for koki to do this as a part of her tough love rather than insecurity or jealousy...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: NazmaJ

Excellent post Munni!!!!!

Love love love the way you have set it out!! Very logical!! Much thought has been put into this post!!
I have to say that Kokila's actions (whether they were meant for the good of GoHem's personal relationship or not!!) have managed to achieve what we have wanted to see for an age!!!!
Ahem has been restless and confused with regards to his wife's behaviour and has started to say out loud, even if it is to himself, how important Gopi is to his life - even if it is to do with the smooth running of his life, and let's face it the day to mundaness of life is where the importance of your life partner truly comes through. Gopi is there for him and Ahem has realised that fact.
So even if it wasn't a masterplan by Kokila to get the two to reaalise what they mean to each other, ahe has done a lot for their relationship, especially in making Ahem come to his realisations!!


thank you nazma !!!!...

this tiny separation is resurfacing all his feelings about gopi ...some vocally and some within...had they been not faced with this separation... i wonder if we would have even seen these feelings with Ahemji...

may be it would have taken ages ...

ok if it is not her plan... then why did she not refrain her vahu from the vow... while on the other hand she being the one who pushed these 2 together with things as simple as giving tea...
i do not see any other motive behind her not stopping gopi from the vow...


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