Bitter the medicine soon you will recover

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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey this is the policy whats kagdi is following, thank god she is not like other mothers who will always treat their children with love and there are also some blind mothers who will love their son blindly ...
they never think of hurting their kids, even if they see the children are walking in the wrong path they will make their children to understand their mistake by making them to realize their mistake sweetly..
but kokila stands as a unique mother of TV who believes tasting a bitter medicine will recover from ailments sooner than the sweeter medicines...
but i am so sad to hear many of the viewers of SNS are thinking that the act of Koki punishing aham was wrong, and she will try to separate GoHem...
no way she is upset with GoHem because they are not fulfilling the their respective duties properly and they are supporting the wrong person and when they themselves are not in a Husband -wife relation...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhavya

hey this is the policy whats kagdi is following, thank god she is not like other mothers who will always treat their children with love and there are also some blind mothers who will love their son blindly ...

they never think of hurting their kids, even if they see the children are walking in the wrong path they will make their children to understand their mistake by making them to realize their mistake sweetly..
but kokila stands as a unique mother of TV who believes tasting a bitter medicine will recover from ailments sooner than the sweeter medicines...
but i am so sad to hear many of the viewers of SNS are thinking that the act of Koki punishing aham was wrong, and she will try to separate GoHem...
no way she is upset with GoHem because they are not fulfilling the their respective duties properly and they are supporting the wrong person and when they themselves are not in a Husband -wife relation...


Well said bhavya!

I have full faith that Koki is acting in GoHam's interests and will continue to do so. It is pointless standing by and watching your kids make a mess of their lives.

Take Hetal for instance. She is completely fooled by her dil. And she has failed to realise that Jigar is going to get even more hurt in the future. But it is easier for her to pretend that all is well in RaJigland. That way she does not have to deal with reality.

Koki prefers living in reality. And she prefers her kids doing the same.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree, Kokila is upset as they helped Rashi and also that Ahem was distracted from his work in the process. He was distracted with Gopi and her accident but I think this was the last straw for Kokila. I can see what she is trying to do though I do think she needs to realise that Ahem will need to make some room in his life for his wife as well. Ahem needs to get a work and home life balance.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA


Well said bhavya!

I have full faith that Koki is acting in GoHam's interests and will continue to do so. It is pointless standing by and watching your kids make a mess of their lives.

Take Hetal for instance. She is completely fooled by her dil. And she has failed to realise that Jigar is going to get even more hurt in the future. But it is easier for her to pretend that all is well in RaJigland. That way she does not have to deal with reality.

Koki prefers living in reality. And she prefers her kids doing the same.

i agree shaun koki wants the bst for gohem she dsnt want them to mess around and nt concerntrate on the lives she wants the best for her son n dil koki dsnt want gohem getting hurt thts y she behaves like this so bth gohem understand...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA


Well said bhavya!

I have full faith that Koki is acting in GoHam's interests and will continue to do so. It is pointless standing by and watching your kids make a mess of their lives.

Take Hetal for instance. She is completely fooled by her dil. And she has failed to realise that Jigar is going to get even more hurt in the future. But it is easier for her to pretend that all is well in RaJigland. That way she does not have to deal with reality.

Koki prefers living in reality. And she prefers her kids doing the same.

ya thanks for giving a valuable view ...the difference between sweet mom(Hetal) and bitter mom (kokila),
Kokila lives in the reality world unlike Hetal ,...where Hetal is remaining blind and she is ready to give Jigars life to Rashis hand ,...where we can see that Hetal has not tried to change rashi at all, she is accepting rashi the way she is , she herself is giving the chance to rashi to hurt her son once more...if she was a brainfull mother she would atleast would have tried to change rashi...but she remained blind...
Aham and gopi needed a proper direction from some one who knows what is right what is wrong,
as we all know gopi is so blind to rashi and she is dumb to rashis real face...
gopi not only became goat and also made aham goat...
as soon as knowing the reality koki took an immediate action of punishing aham rather than gopi because koki has seen the mirror image of herself in aham ...but she was unable to find herself in aham, rather than her values she saw the dumbness/innocense/foolishness of gopi in him...
kokila has raised aham as an responsible individual and made him intelligent but koki was unable to find the old aham in him...so she took a drastic step to wake up the sleeping aham...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sandyuk

I agree, Kokila is upset as they helped Rashi and also that Ahem was distracted from his work in the process. He was distracted with Gopi and her accident but I think this was the last straw for Kokila. I can see what she is trying to do though I do think she needs to realise that Ahem will need to make some room in his life for his wife as well. Ahem needs to get a work and home life balance.

ya definitely kokila has not interfered in GoHem relation after seeing aham molishing gopis legs, and also when aham washed gopis hairs, she knows the importance of gopi in his life...and she has given enough room for GoHem relationships to develop , by sending gopi with aham for the pooja of new car, but the devil rashi spoilt the atmosphere, she even told gopi to do good things for aham so that aham will notice her, but again rashi devil spoiled, ...
all the time when kokila helped gopi to get closer to aham rashi evil tried to spoil the plans...
kokila believes that Rashi is an jodi breaker of Gohem...so she dont want to take any risk in GoHem relation,...
she wants to keep Rashi away from GoHem...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey Bhavya & Shaun, you have made some very good points there. I think all this will lead up to Koki pointing to both Gohem that they shld be working on their own r'nship. I think Koki is pissed of that Rashi got gold bangles for her birthday when she did not deserve it. I hope Cv's have got a major lesson planned for Rashi if not they should just get rid of her as I am sick of the kalakaris.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bhavya.. Perfectly put👏.. It is only a mother who will be able to tell her kinds harshly that they are wrong because it is only a mother who will hurt the most when they fail due to their mistakes.
Kokila may be harsh but this lesson will help Ahem and Gopi all through their lives. Kokila if she was angry at Gopi and Ahem being closer would have told them that directly. If she says she is angry with their foolish Cupid roles, I agree she means it and has the right to admonish them.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA


Well said bhavya!

I have full faith that Koki is acting in GoHam's interests and will continue to do so. It is pointless standing by and watching your kids make a mess of their lives.

Take Hetal for instance. She is completely fooled by her dil. And she has failed to realise that Jigar is going to get even more hurt in the future. But it is easier for her to pretend that all is well in RaJigland. That way she does not have to deal with reality.

Koki prefers living in reality. And she prefers her kids doing the same.


👏 Well said.. As a mother Hetal should be the one who sits Jigar and Rashi down if she thinks their marriage is in trouble. Being sad because your son is sad makes no change. And avoiding reality also makes it no different. Now the next time Rashi's mistakes come out in the open (maybe sometime at the end of next year), the same thing will repeat..

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sandyuk

I agree, Kokila is upset as they helped Rashi and also that Ahem was distracted from his work in the process. He was distracted with Gopi and her accident but I think this was the last straw for Kokila. I can see what she is trying to do though I do think she needs to realise that Ahem will need to make some room in his life for his wife as well. Ahem needs to get a work and home life balance.

Sandyuk, Koki was ok to Ahem being a nurse to Gopi. She was unhappy but she let it be.. It is not that she does not want Ahem to have space in his life as a husband. She just wants that space to be used for proper purposes.
When Ahem missed work for Gopi, she reasoned with him about others being there to help Gopi, but Ahem insisted. Koki's unhappiness was more due to the lack of trust than anything else.
But this time, it was plain stupidity. Ahem and Gopi have to learn to make choices after thinking things through. It is stupid to spend time without realizing that all their efforts will only make the situation worse the truth comes out..

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