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Posted: 13 years ago
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There you go Maddy.. Answers in black

My question is why she took the decision to bring her back on gopi's demand? She should not interfere in hetal and her son's life

Kokila knows that Rashi is Jigar's wife and one day she will have to come back to MB. It was Hetal and Kokila's decision although they were blindsided by Gopi's request to bring her back and give her a chance. They were just doing that. They brought Rashi back and decided to test her to see if she was changed. If Hetal had disagreed Koki would not have insisted. She knows her limits. She was making a decision with her Jethani. But forgiving Rashi is another matter and every person had their own timeline. The same applies to Jigar. He needs to to forgive her on his own and not because he was is obliged to his brother and Bhabhi. Ahem and Gopi were more interfering than Koki in Jigar's life.

Gopi wanted to tell her but ahem refused so its not entirely gopi's fault. Why didn't she bother to hear their side before punishment and blaming gopi for everything?

Agree.. It is Ahem's fault also and he is getting punished for that. Gopi decided her own punishment. Koki shoots before listening and this is not the first time.. Again the good with the bad thing. She did not blame Gopi on everything. She blamed her for 'changing' Ahem. She blamed Ahem for changing and not thinking things through.

agreed here but still since hetal has never really treated her like burden, kagdi's feelings are still extreme in this regard.
Maddy.. It is still demeaning. Even if the intentions are pure, imagine being a burden for a person who she is not even related to by blood. Kokila is proud. Hetal may treat her with all kindness.. But the kindness itself becomes a poison and a suffocation. She would not mean it that way but to think that Hetal is kind because she feels sorry for her is what would have killed Koki slowly. I cannot explain it. But for an extremely proud and capable person, it is very difficult to be obliged to someone because you have no choice...
how can rashi prove herself worthy when kagdi doesn't give a damn about what she does?
That is not true. Koki did praise Rashi when she concentrated on work. Koki is not easy to please. It took Gopi a real hardworker a lot of time to please Koki. Rashi does not even try and when she does she does it half -heartedly. If Rashi had been a little more persistent then that is another matter. Plus, Koki knows that Rashi works and acts niceif she wants something badly. She was the first one to notice it when Rashi was trying to please Jigar when only he knew about Sonal. So we cannot blame her for taking time..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@harini
getting too long I guess. I can't see everything with that much optimism but I agree with all your points, still can't digest her absurd behaviour. And I feel that soon her intentions would come out whether it was only raji issue or she was insecure of gopi😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: maddy311

@harini
getting too long I guess. I can't see everything with that much optimism but I agree with all your points, still can't digest her absurd behaviour. And I feel that soon her intentions would come out whether it was only raji issue or she was insecure of gopi😊


Totally agree.. I think it is a little of both with the RaJi matter tipping the scale a bit.. But I think she also knows that Gopi will never go against her.. She did emotionally blackmail Gopi but her disappointment was that Ahem also decided to agree to the plan. Let us wait and watch 😛
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Maddy...still kagdi eh
heres my 2cents
GoHem interference with RaJi was wrong anyway u cut it...
I agree with you that Koki's feelings for Jiger quesstionable...
Her anger, hurt etc very valid esp re Raashi and Ahem involved cos of Gopi...
yet I find the way she is going about it is retarded (for a lack of a better word)
right now it looks like she is running a puppet show and manipulating everything...GoHem then are too young to be married (and i dont mean age)...
Ahem is an adult who conducts a well est business etc...relationships should have changed mumson should be talking things out...the ironing, the bar from work etc are so ove the top hard to digest v unrealistic,...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tangam


Hi Maddy...still kagdi eh

heres my 2cents
GoHem interference with RaJi was wrong anyway u cut it...
I agree with you that Koki's feelings for Jiger quesstionable...
Her anger, hurt etc very valid esp re Raashi and Ahem involved cos of Gopi...
yet I find the way she is going about it is retarded (for a lack of a better word)
right now it looks like she is running a puppet show and manipulating everything... GoHem then are too young to be married (and i dont mean age)...
Ahem is an adult who conducts a well est business etc...relationships should have changed mumson should be talking things out...the ironing, the bar from work etc are so ove the top hard to digest v unrealistic,...



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@bold part
well said. Loved it 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Maddy you keep calling Koki kagdi and im just laughng!🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@chika
I am officially on protest against kagdi's changed behaviour and will continue until she changes back to old kagdi or comes clean out of this matter

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