Why doesn't kagdi tells truth to gohem

Originally posted by: varshu27

the only reason i can see maddy is that koki is insecure about gohem getting closer...and is trying to distance them using raji as an excuse...😡...but in the process she is going to push ahem away...oh i hope she does and gets a taste of her own medicine...

if she does tell them the truth..then maybe gohem wont help raji...but they will still be close and koki doesnt want that...

Originally posted by: maddy311

Seriously can anyone explain why she is still hiding the truth of rashi from gohem?

Yeah I know you will say she cares for jigar (to me it looks like all drama)
Even if she cares for jigar then she can tell the truth to gohem atleast and warn them to stay away from rashi.

I feel gopi will still remain unchanged but atleast ahem is wise enough to understand right or wrong. Or kagdi doesn't have faith in ahem that he will only listen to her when she shouts.

I really can't get what her intentions are. Telling them truth is the easiest way but kagdi has some other reasons as well😡

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Maddy, I do not think Kokila will tell Ahem about his SIL. To her Rashi means nothing to Ahem. Why would she tell Ahem tales about Rashi when she wants him to have nothing to do with her?

As for Gopi, Kokila has told Gopi about Rashi numerous times. Gopi is too blind to see any fault of Rashi's.

Now as for JIgar, I do not think that her love for Jigar is false. It is true. BUt she loves Jigar not as a son but as a nephew. You cannot expect Kokila to be happy about Jigar's success like she is about Ahem's. Hetal will be. She is a mother to everyone. Even Rashi.

She told them why she is angry. She does not want to get into details...

Originally posted by: maddy311

That's plain rubbish behaviour from kagdi.
She doesn't want to go in details but why? Ahem knows the truth that everyone knows and when everyone accepted rashi back and kagdi herself brought rashi back to MM then she can't blame ahem if he also accepts rashi as family member.
Why does she always force her decisions to be accepted without being questioned or without giving any sane reason?

If she thinks she has nothing to do with chirag and his family then why is she staying with them for all these years. She has taken advantage of Herag and raised her children only on the earnings of chirag.
Now if she thinks she has nothing concerned with them and feels no gratitude for what herag have done for her and her children then I haven't seen anyone more selfish than this kagdi😡

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Maddy, I do not think Kokila will tell Ahem about his SIL. To her Rashi means nothing to Ahem. Why would she tell Ahem tales about Rashi when she wants him to have nothing to do with her?

As for Gopi, Kokila has told Gopi about Rashi numerous times. Gopi is too blind to see any fault of Rashi's.

Now as for JIgar, I do not think that her love for Jigar is false. It is true. BUt she loves Jigar not as a son but as a nephew. You cannot expect Kokila to be happy about Jigar's success like she is about Ahem's. Hetal will be. She is a mother to everyone. Even Rashi.

She told them why she is angry. She does not want to get into details...

Originally posted by: Dhabu89

The highlights part is where I disagree. Koki always told Gopi to stay away from Rashi. She never did try and explain why. To Gopi Rashi is someone she grew up with and was always made to take care of by Urmi...so in sasural that is all Gopi knows. To take care of Rashi. Koki had a wonderful chance many a times to show Gopi the true nature of Rashi but failed horribly. Gopi is blind when it comes to Rashi, and the only way for her to open her eyes is to hear her mami and Rashi ben talk about her and say things that would make Gopi take notice. Like hurting Ahemji or doing some kalakari or other on her Maji...Just my POV😃

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Agree, that Koki does not give reasons.. She is from old school where younger ones listen and do as elders direct them without questions. Not correct but it is what it is..

Well I agree about you PoV on Gopi. She is blind because she was tuned that way. Even when she realized that it was Rashi who tricked her as the ghost, Koki explained to her, but Gopi decided to go with Rashi's version. So yes, unless Gopi sees with her own eyes that her Ahemji or Maaji is hurt by Raashi/Urmi,she will not believe or learn..

But Dhabu when you come to your sasural, there are some things that you need to understand. I am not saying you have to sever your ties with your family, hell no.. But there is a balance in everything. Tilting too much towards your sister is not acceptable especially if you are putting her above your husband.

Understood and agree. Gopi is in many ways is insulting the love she received in her sasural by just accepting anything Rashi does as a mistake or a misunderstanding. In that case I am with Koki. Gopi is a female version of Ahem...eyes closed and do as the person that raised you tells you

Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

Maddy, it is not that she is not concerned about Hetal and her family. She really is and that is why she is pissed that Ahem and Gopi decided to help 'Rashi'.
My question is why she took the decision to bring her back on gopi's demand? She should not interfere in hetal and her son's life
The prudent thing that would have avoided all this would have been if Ahem had with Gopi, explained to Koki and Hetal about what they were trying to achieve and get their views on it. Hetal and Koki decided to test Rashi. But Ahem and Gopi decided to make it easier on her... Gopi wanted to tell her but ahem refused so its not entirely gopi's fault. Why didn't she bother to hear their side before punishment and blaming gopi for everything?

Moreover, Kokila has lived on Chirag until her son was able to provide for her and her family. Chirag did his for his brother's family. But still to a proud woman, that would have been demeaning and suffocating. The first thing you do when you get freedom is to stay away from what you felt was suffocating you till now. Kokila is territorial because of that.
agreed here but still since hetal has never really treated her like burden, kagdi's feelings are still extreme in this regard.

But really think Maddy, is getting Rashi together wit Jigar a good decision? When Ahem trusted his mother to do the right thing from the beginning, he should have trusted her to do the right thing now. When Rashi was sent out and Gopi could not sleep, he told Gopi that his mother was there to take care of matters like that. She is still the same Koki. At the end of the day, if Rashi had proved herself worthy, Kokila would have been happy to see her with Jigar(may not have shown it). But now, she cannot feel happy about something she knows is farce. Koki remember has a doubt that Rashi pushed the wheelchair on purpose.

Plus she has been forcing decisions right from the beginning. I am not saying it is right. But we did agree that we take the bad with the good...😊
how can rashi prove herself worthy when kagdi doesn't give a damn about what she does?