Koki's perspective *Debatable?*

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-JollyJabeen-

@-JollyJabeen-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Okay right,Im calm down now since yesterday and i've been thinking about Koki lots since yesterday,Heres my take on her,Before reading this,Enter this post calmly with an open-mind,Than f you want to debate/argue,go for it!👍🏼

Stage 1: Right,So remember when Nani gave Raashi the trunk and allowed her to keep the reward inside,Koki was furious and than we had the Koki-Nani confrontation where we discover that Nani was always harsher towards Koki than any of her other siblings🥱 (Keep this s mind.)

Stage 2: She comes into the Modi house as a daughter-in-law, God knows in what situation but she constantly feels insulted that she has to ask money from Chirag or Hetal, She doesn't like it, Koki believes her husband, Parag should provide for her by joining the Modi buisness but he ends up doing 'supid' poetry and wasting his time.

Stage 3: SOMEHOW Koki becomes pregnant and gets her first son, Ahem who she vows to love and to make a successful person who will keep her name proud, She's very sensitive about Ahem, She wants to make him a man Parag never was and she is very close to him, which made Ahem go into 'Mom mom mom' mode but anyway, Even before Ahem was to marry, Koki was looking for a girl who would NEVER speak against her or attempt to take Ahem from her, She needed, She wanted Ahem under her control. Remember the scene when she was talking to Ahem and gone emotional because she was scared she would lose him after marriage!

Stage 4: Ahem HATES Gopi, Ahem LOVES mom, contradicting but true.

Stage 5: Ahem for the first time starts to prioritise family and Gopi before work, Now this is a massive blow to Koki because she has socialised and raised him up to become a hard-worker, Her fear of Ahem become a poet/non-buisness type is causing her insecurities to grow and scream at everyone.

Therfore leading to a frustrated and pissed off Koki..

So Saathians,Remember as a mother, Its not easy especially after everything Koki has been through, Imagine everything she's been through that made her character strong and right to where she is today, I mean come on, Before she was interfering with Gohem, Everyone loved and respected her right and now suddenly were getting Gohem, Were side-lining Koki and blaming her, I aologise to all, I don't mean to say anything bad about poets, Its not a bad thing, I just realised my mistake, With our demands and increased expectations for Gohem, We can NOT forget Koki is an awesome mother-in-law and an amazing person who's been through so much, So remember, Koki's behaviour is JUSTIFIED!👍🏼

P.S Koki lovers must be so proud!😳

Edited by CHIKA784 - 13 years ago

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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

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Posted: 13 years ago

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No I strongly disagree with you Chika!😒

I think Koki has always been way too strong and adamant about everything. She has a lot of ego and this ego she has transferred to Ahem as well. Though fate has gone against Koki with regards to her husband but she has very nicely made a niche for herself. Chital seems to be too good to treat her badly...its only her own insecurities and ego which made her treat her family like this. What about Gopi? She also didnt have a good life n never got the chance to speak up! But does it mean that she goes on venting it out on everyone. But Gopi didnt do so...she absorbed everything ..the worst!

Koki has some good qualities in her but at the same time she goes blind when it comes to Ahem n now Gopi! She cannot take a logical decision. Thats what naani judged bout her when she said that in love of her dikra, she seems to be not noticing anything wrong in Gohem relation n supporting her son...i feel her ego is hurt with not receiving kangans! I didnt like her attitude...if she had seen gohem comforting rashi then her behaviour would have been justified, but what about Jigar? She didnt like the fact that Ahem was supporting Jigar?😲 Its Gopi's sweet nature that Ahem is learning to take care of family now,...its truly said"Jaisi Sangat Waisi Rangat"...

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-JollyJabeen-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: shruts18
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No I strongly disagree with you Chika!😒

How come?😊

Go for it, I would love to hear your view!😃

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Jiya

@jiya25

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: CHIKA784
Ok

So Saathians,Remember as a mother, Its not easy especially after everything Koki has been through, Imagine everything she's been through that made her character strong and right to where she is today, I mean come on, Before she was interfering with Gohem, Everyone loved and respected her right and now suddenly were getting Gohem, Were side-lining Koki and blaming her, I aologise to all, I don't mean to say anything bad about poets, Its not a bad thing, I just realised my mistake, With our demands and increased expectations for Gohem, We can NOT forget Koki is an awesome mother-in-law and an amazing person who's been through so much, So remember, Koki's behaviour is JUSTIFIED!👍🏼

P.S Koki lovers must be so proud!😳

sorry chika, but stongly disagree with the underlined part. If you re-read your post carefully, you will find that it is all ABOUT koki. She has always put herself first. She did not allow ahem to have a proper childhood so that he can be a working machine to make HER proud. She did not consider her own son's happiness and desire when choosing his wife because she wanted a girl that suited HER. she didnot think about weather ahem and gopi would be happy with each other as long as they both behaved according to HER. She never thought of herself or ahem as part of the family. She decides for everyone else, but when someone tells her what to do, she goes in her angry mode...why? She is mad at gohem because they are not behaving according to HER, but has she stopped to wonder for a second, 'is my ahem a bit happier, calmer and nicer person these days? what is bringing this change? is this change good for my son?' NO...its all about HER DESIRES, HER WISHES, HER DREAMS.

I have a lovely mother-in-law, and the best thing about her is that she cares about both me and my husband and wants us both to be happy, even if it means that we live life differently than her thoguhts. she encourages me to be a better person but what makes her the best MIL is that she always tells my husband that I am their responsibility and that she promised my parents that their daughter would always be loved in her house. so she tells my husband to always put me first. That to me is a good MIL because she wants her CHILDREN to be happy, not HERSELF.

Parents who want their children to fulfill the dreams that they themselves couldn't, at the cost of the childrens' happiness are essentilly being selfish and unfair to their kids. No matter how much they try and convince themselves that what they are doing is for the kids.

Edited by jiya25 - 13 years ago

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navitha reddy

@navithareddy

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Posted: 13 years ago

i agree with u for some part but she is the one who wish and tried to bring gohem together. so before she burst on gohem she shld think wht actually they are doing. She is elder and matured she shld not come to an opinion so soon on what she saw. She has to think twice and explain them what to do and wht to not.

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-JollyJabeen-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: jiya25

sorry chika, but stongly disagree with the underlined part. If you re-read your post carefully, you will find that it is all ABOUT koki. She has always put herself first. She did not allow ahem to have a proper childhood so that he can be a working machine to make HER proud. She did not consider her own son's happiness and desire when choosing his wife because she wanted a girl that suited HER. she didnot think about weather ahem and gopi would be happy with each other as long as they both behaved according to HER. She never thought of herself or ahem as part of the family. She decides for everyone else, but when someone tells her what to do, she goes in her angry mode...why? She is mad at gohem because they are not behaving according to HER, but has she stopped to wonder for a second, 'is my ahem a bit happier, calmer and nicer person these days? what is bringing this change? is this change good for my son?' NO...its all about HER DESIRES, HER WISHES, HER DREAMS.

I have a lovely mother-in-law, and the best thing about her is that she cares about both me and my husband and wants us both to be happy, even if it means that we live life differently than her thoguhts. she encourages me to be a better person but what makes her the best MIL is that she always tells my husband that I am their responsibility and that she promised my parents that their daughter would always be loved in her house. so she tells my husband to always put me first. That to me is a good MIL because she wants her CHILDREN to be happy, not HERSELF.

Oh damn it Jiya!😳

Im so conflicted, Now im on your side!😆

Whatever your saying is justified aswell, Why is it so conflicted!

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shruti aggarwal

@shruts18

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: CHIKA784

How come?😊

Go for it, I would love to hear your view!😃

have put forward my viewpoint! i could go on n on but made it as short as possible😊

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maddy311

@maddy311

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Posted: 13 years ago

This was a lovely post chika. Beautifully written👍🏼

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

A wonderful post Chika and you have piled Koki's defence very nicely..😃

I am always for Koki... I do not think she is wrong and her anger is definitely understandable. She is just really disappointed and frustrated right now with Ahem but we know that she will understand once she calms down. She is a really good mother and she will be going forward.*Fingers crossed*..

We have accepted that Ahem shows his love via anger. Koki is Ahem's mom.. She does the same. She gets more angry at the person who she loves the most. That is why Gopi and then Ahem become her targets for the smallest mistake..

So even after today, I will still recommend that Koki be looked at in that aspect than for the words she spews.. She is after all the savior of Gopi and the main cause of GoHem..😃

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Nilu Dasuni

@Nilu.Dasuni

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Chika, may be that was the mothers first feeling when she sense her life as son is going miss for someone else. May be the fear of loosing precious thing as that's her whole life till today.
But i believe for a mother, her happiness depends on son's. Then, if son is happy with his love mom should be happy for him. But koki stole that happiness from Aham once and trying to same again. Thats not suited for senses

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