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*WARNING*: I am NOT a 24 hr Drooler of ASR. I am NOT a die-hard Khushi fan. Lets agree to disagree respectfully here.Simple.
I love to make fun posts and really never discuss this show more than required. For me its just a 20 min of entertainment with fictional characters but I guess its not the same for most of you guys here. I never really put much thought in making a post but One particular post caught my eye today and I sat to write down my thoughts about Khushi being a flirt. Here's my reply.
"Men are not toys to play with,same applies for Women. According to another post ,Albeit being humorous and Sarcastic, that Khushi can be passed on from one guy to another.Lets not be chauvinist here just because we love ASR.
The lesson to be learnt from the Shyam's fiasco is that don't trust anyone easily, always research the person and listen to your heart as well as your brain. Being frank and open has little to do with what happened to Khushi.She always had her heart at right place but left her reasoning out for the sake of her family members.She has learnt her lesson and has been questioning everything after that.Isn't she?
Playing with 2 men? ASR is playing with her in fact. Life would have been rosy for all of us if he would have kissed her on Diwali ,proposed to her, Married her. But he has his issues. Its his flaws. If he is having a self realization of love, so is she. His way of dealing with it is venting out his anger and hers might be trying to get a reaction out of him. How can there be a right and wrong here then if you are not biased? Have you wondered what Khushi might be feeling after being cornered by ASR when she accidentally kissed him? I am not asking about how you felt. I know we all were excited about seeing some romance. But might be Khushi was irritated and she took it out by making ASR jealous? If you think it was OK for ASR to make her J by giving the necklace she liked to La, then how is this different? Its human nature to evolve and maybe khushi's character is showing a new trait. Is it wrong? Who are we to judge?
Khushi is quiet strong to take care of not only herself but her family.She has qualities which is making her restrain from telling the R family about the snake. Maybe someday she will need protection. And that day if ASR truly loves her,he will forget everything to protect her the same way she will forget all the history to protect her love.She won't bring up the topic that LA kissed him on cheek 5 yrs ago,so I won't help ASR. If its true love...
Nope this was not hitting the nail but screwing around with the same character,Khushi. I have been a guilty party when her 8 yr old personality emerges and I am not ashamed of saying it.
Its wrong to only accuse South Asian guys about their behavior.Generalizing it is wrong. It is basic human nature to get attracted to someone. If not there won't be any human life in this world. To generalize by saying frank and friendly behavior brings upon oneself misfortune is quiet out dated. It is the same line of thought which makes ppl believe that wearing a short skirt is an invitation of getting raped. NO. Its one's own psychotic behavior which results in harming other people. If you are psychotic issues,you are bound to make other ppl's life hell. The other person,unknowingly being friendly with the psycho is still innocent.
Again blaming Khushi for what a psychotic person did to her father is illogical. She cringed every time Shyam touched her. She made no romantic gestures towards him. She was emotionally blackmailed by her family but she still resisted till her true love told her she is no one to him. That was the final nail hit which made her say yes. Also its a show where the CVs wanted to show some interaction between Shyam and Khushi and zero interaction between La and ASR. Doesn't mean nothing happened between ASR and La. We just weren't shown that.
Khushi's good nature might attract attention from both good and bad. Its her nature which made ASR, NK and Shyam to fall for her. N we tend to forget the bad and move on with good."
This is the first time I have written such a long post...I almost fell asleep.😆... This is my POV like you have yours. So be kind to me.😳
Sorry for the rant and typos.
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