My first long post about Khushi being a flirt :D

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Kasturilover
Somy,

At least yesterday KKG was not flirting...I honestly have always felt that both of them are equally good, bad or to be blamed😳,...so at best its equal serve...

Anyways I have another point and would love to hear your thoughts on it

I wrote this in a couple of posts (Tanthya and beagleboy)...and its more about ASR and the jealousy track thing.

I feel Arnav is more irratated and annoyed than jealous at what is happening...ASR knows that he loves khushi and by now he has a fair hint she does too...he just seems annoyed at his own mind not reconciling his love and Khushi not responding.

I feel jealousy is a strong emotion...and a fairly negative one...its good when it surfaces for a few seconds...but sustained jealousy can be very harmful...And I love ASR-Khushi too much for it to happen to either of them

Plus I actually like NK a lot...and it would be sad to seem him get hurt in this cross fire of tricks (if you like) played by Nani, Anj, ASR and Khushi. I wrote this on Tanthya's SBS update yesterday.

There is always a collateral damage in everything we do. Sometimes its negligible and sometimes A person gets in between 2 big egos. That's the case with NK. ASR in his heart is jealous but it comes across as irritation in front of Nani and his sister. All he needs to do is lend his hand of support to Khushi and she will grab it because she knows the Arnav in ASR. But ASR is a tad bit constrained by his own past to readily help her. And when NK with no baggage comes along and helps her,ASR feels left out and lonely.

Jealousy shouldn't prolong so much that we forget what we felt before that.

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showstruck

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

It was just two episodes where it was shown Khushi was being friendly on purpose with NK. I say on purpose because she has always been shown to be friendly and comfortable around him.

I don't think she has crossed her lines. Arnav comes so strong sometimes, I feel like he leaves her with little option. Khushi doesn't know but we know he told Anjali he is still not thinking about getting married but then he pecked the poor thing. I am surprised she hasn't lost her mind from all the mixed signals she gets from him.

I just hope NK does not get hurt in the process. Again, it looks like he is very sure of his feelings about Khushi. Then, why can't he make a clear move and find out how she feels about him. And I do feel if you are that hesitant about your move and take too long, you ought to get hurt.
Everyone is doing something wrong, so, we should not be so quick to judge only Khushi.

Edited by showstruck - 13 years ago

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Neemsundari

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: somzz007
Again blaming Khushi for what a psychotic person did to her father is illogical. She cringed every time Shyam touched her. She made no romantic gestures towards him. She was emotionally blackmailed by her family but she still resisted till her true love told her she is no one to him. That was the final nail hit which made her say yes. Also its a show where the CVs wanted to show some interaction between Shyam and Khushi and zero interaction between La and ASR. Doesn't mean nothing happened between ASR and La. We just weren't shown that.

Khushi's good nature might attract attention from both good and bad. Its her nature which made ASR, NK and Shyam to fall for her. N we tend to forget the bad and move on with good."

This is the first time I have written such a long post...I almost fell asleep.😆... This is my POV like you have yours. So be kind to me.😳

I've said this before, and I'm just pasting it here again:

I don't know if she's flirting, but she's definitely being consciously "friendly" to NK when Arnav is around, because she has figured out that this annoys Arnav.

She feels so much at a loss as to how to stand her ground in the presence of the volatile man she has 'dhak dhak and acidity' for, that she welcomes the first distraction she sees--NK. If Arnav is annoyed with NK, his focus shifts from her, and then she's more comfortable. Also, she feels good about annoying Arnav, it gives her a sense of power. She hasn't made eyes at NK, or held his hand or done anything remotely sensual..so no, no overt flirting, so far, at least.

And I don't think she's to be blamed for being nice to NK---she was being nice to NK throughout, and he was being nice to her. The open-ness and friendliness only came into question when NK's gaze fell on her 'bare' back yesterday, a gaze she was unaware of--that is when some of us began to call her talking to NK--flirting. Yesterday, we noticed that she wasn't thrilled at the idea of NK escorting her back home, and she looked at Arnav--for permission, or his reaction, I don't know, but not many posts have mentioned that😊

I love how all of us start treating fictional people as real, and analyse their actions and gestures so thoroughly 😛

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BIackSwan

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

im a fan of your posts somz; be it funny or not funny ones like this. i stand by each & every word you have said and i guess you spoke my mind about khushi's pov & her personality

thanks ☺️

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Priya_128

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

personally i think this jealousy thing is just too much...not for one min in my brilliant brain do i think ASR should be jealous of NK;...sorrry i just dont see the rationale...

so i keep going the way that hes more annoyed than jealous (and i will ignore all reactions to Glee and nani)

kkg is flirting...no doubts about that...the easy go banter earlier was something...the deliberate NK i will model bangles for u is another

but i have no doubt that the day NK makes even half a move, shes gonna go stop dude...ur just a friend nothing more...and im also very sure NK will step back graciously...

getting a reaction out of arnav...shes doing that...but abt time (for both of them) to do something beyond that...

K : ask ur self why u need that reaction out of him. why u want him riled up and why ur doing any of this...her face also falls if for a sec ASR doesnt give bhav to her attempts at flirting

A : shut up and kiss her already...since there is shoddy editing...i understand that he cant really rush out there and save the day...but once he comes back to shooting at the same time as KKG...there has to be more of this than sitting on the sidelines.

again i dont believe in jealousy...sooo...whaaat u be waiting for

lastly my biggest peeve point ! why are there so many ppl in the house...sab DM ke darshan pe kyun nahi jaate...GO ALREADY

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DiyaS

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Its wrong to only accuse guys about their behavior.Generalizing it is wrong. It is basic human nature to get attracted to someone. If not there won't be any human life in this world. To generalize by saying frank and friendly behavior brings upon oneself misfortune is quite out dated. It is the same line of thought which makes ppl believe that wearing a short skirt is an invitation of getting raped.

Thank You for this post, Somz!!! I especially loved the part above ... that's exactly what I felt ... that is blatant hypocrisy and false morality at its worst, IMO ... I absolutely hate it when people - especially women - are so quick to jump on girls with such accusations ... it was the girl's fault for encouraging it ... YEAH RIGHT!!! That's why violence against women and rape are far commoner in countries where women's rights are compromised, and they are forced to cover up, rather than in countries where women can dress as they please, and work shoulder to shoulder with men ... this line of thinking is not only outmoded, it is factually completely incorrect!

I just read an article in the newspaper today on a quadruple 'honor' killing ... am feeling even more agitated about the subject than usual!

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Divya

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Somzyy..mein bhi aa dhamki 😆😆

Yaar still busy... abhi teri post aadhi hi padi hai.. still have to go over entire thing..great effort 👏👏 I am still getting over the first line of disclaimer😊...nice touch... 😉...

I am still not over..awful collared..shiny material... brown lining..badly fitted attire of the so called fashion house owner..ASR...🤣 and the utterly blinding ellow chamak dhamak 😆😆... .will stop by later to comment...😊

but me no likey...all these unnecessary triangles and quadrangles...Just bring the romance on.. and if not that..at least show they wear great clothese and act with tons of style... I am ready 😃😃

I watch the show to be entertained 😆😆😆 but these days...I kid you not...I find IF IPKKND forums is 10 times more entertaining than the show itself... and that actually includes several ASR =Khushi scenes..🤣 I think CVs are just winging it with nanku and Shyamu's role... we may have taany- taany - fiss there...(my dilli slang for a dud !!😆)

IPKKND forum rocks

Nitzy..teri post bhi dekhi maine... Aati hoon.. wahan bhi sixer maarne... brb 😃

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momma1128

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Priya_128
i lub youuu...and the post

my only fear is the CVs...they are so capable of turning the tables on khushi...bring back all the hate...and then use this harmless behaviour against her...
and then mere so called look forward to romance track ki dhajiyaan udd jaayenge !!! but cant do anything abt that...i guess the trps rule that side of it...

This is my biggest fear.

@Somz - I agree with most of what you said. For myself, I see Khushi as using NK as a shield to keep away from dealing with ASR. She did not flirt today, but has in the past, knowingly. She knows she gets a reaction out of ASR - and not a good one. So why do you want to irritate the one person, everyone in this forum at least is saying, she doesn't want a confrontation with? The same person, who the other 4, 358 tiimes you irritated, bided his time and then cornered you?? And, given this new SP"ness" that I smell in many instances, I am scared at how this will be handled.

She is 18 years old, not 12 years old. She was engaged. She gave her sister pointers on how romance shomance (in her filmy way) with Akash. She is not a child. She is not "innocent". She is 100% without malice and 100% golden hearted. She is naive and too quick to trust. I have always seen her flaw as her not knowing the consequences of her actions. Is it wrong to say that she doesn't know where her behavior is going to get her?

Blaming the girl for attention on her is an outdated idea - absolutely. And I don't think anything Khushi did is wrong AT ALL. She didn't invite attention from any of the 3. But, again - asking a guy to pick out your bangles - that is sending mixed signals. Again, she is too naive to understand how NK is taking it, but she definitely knew how ASR was taking it.

No one can defend Shyam's actions. He is disgusting.

Edited by momma1128 - 13 years ago

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AR-ARHI_naila

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

great post somz. loved it.

and
im really fed up with the step mother treatment for khushi here. I love ASR, but this khushi attacking posts always make me remember all the rude, mean behavior of his. all his mistakes are overlooked by saying he is ASR, u have to deal with it. and in case of khushi, a small mistake of her will become a big issue. she is naivr, she is straight, she is too comic, should be paired up wid NK, and now she is flirt. its too much. please guys give her a break.

anyway thanx a lot to make this post. it was needed.

Edited by AR-ARHI_naila - 13 years ago

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stardust-

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

kya yaar somzz itna lamba?! RIP your .gif productions.. 😆

frank : i haven't read it, i don't know what this is about.. shwets too bailed me, she isin't revealing anything..

but i see half the population i know reacting so till i figure it out, you know i love you! :P

p.s. you can take whatever priya says as my reaction too, ok?

lubb