My first long post about Khushi being a flirt :D - Page 3

Originally posted by: premparbat

Hi Somy ,

First and foremost I am very surprised at Khushi being characterised as a flirt. And indeed if she is doing that then what is so wrong with it ?

Have we not all at some point in our youth flirted with the next door neighbour or the brother of your best friend or a classmate. What is so wrong in such an innocent behaviour. Yes it could get dangerous if pursued inapproriately but Khushi is no Lolita.

Why is it that we women have such a stringent moral code for women ?

Why is Khushi talking to NK, why does she have a deep back in her kurta with a dori, why did she not understand Shyam's intentions ? Like any of us ..where our parents taught us to distinguish between right & wrong she will learn the ways of life as long as her character makeup is strong.

And Somy this is a TV show and not a medium for teaching moral conduct. I just don't understand what the big fuss is about.

Just very surprised at the reaction.

Rgds

Originally posted by: somzz007

"Men are not toys to play with,same applies for Women. According to another post ,Albeit being humorous and Sarcastic, that Khushi can be passed on from one guy to another.Lets not be chauvinist here just because we love ASR.

Originally posted by: DiyaS

Ratna, and all ...
I just watched the episode again, and honestly am even more surprised at the reactions ... it was evident that Khushi was if anything, much more held back in her interactions with NK than earlier ... as though very conscious of the dori scene of yesterday ... and looking at Arnav hesitantly every time she talked to NK ...

Khushi may not have a Manorama type saasuma on the show ... she has about a million here on the forum 🤣

Originally posted by: premparbat

Hi Somy ,

First and foremost I am very surprised at Khushi being characterised as a flirt. And indeed if she is doing that then what is so wrong with it ?

Have we not all at some point in our youth flirted with the next door neighbour or the brother of your best friend or a classmate. What is so wrong in such an innocent behaviour. Yes it could get dangerous if pursued inapproriately but Khushi is no Lolita.

Why is it that we women have such a stringent moral code for women ?

Somy first of all congrats for your first long analytical post.

I never thought this day would come 😆 just kidding 😉

Well I have slightly different take here.

Khushi was flirting just a little bit. Even though it was harmless and unintentional, she was. But I wouldn't hold her responsible for it.

Even if she was unaware of what she was doing, she understood that it irked ASR.

Even if we agree that she wasn't flirting it might look like flirting to another person ( from show's POV).

I said this in another post that ASR's words in the ME were ominous Adhe time tum hosh mein nahi rahti. Tumhe kabhi pata nahi hota ki tum khud kya kar rahi ho aur tumhare saath kya ho raha. Which meant that she is being friendly with NK but she isn't aware that NK is attracted to her.

ASR wasn't judging her but he only rebuked Khushi because he couldn't directly say anything to NK. But I don't blame NK here either. But we know that the cv's are masters of double meanings and symbolisms, so it also means she has let Shyam lose but she is completely unaware that he plotting murder.

I never have and never will blame Khushi for what happenedwith her in the past ( Shyam incident). Her family is responsible. She was victimized for being the adopted daughter.

We don't know what the cv's have in store for us. The story might go in any direction.Maybe Shyam will put the whole blame on Khushi...we still don't what kind of things Shyam will do or say, we still don't what NK's role will be. MAybe he will cook up a story about KKG. Shyam might somehow take advantage of KKG's friendship with NK.