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Posted: 13 years ago
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We hear this statement all the time.

Good girls like bad boys.

I just never could make sense of it. I do not think that good girls like bad boys.. But over the years I have learnt something I now believe is true.

Good girls like the goodness they bring in bad boys.

It's not the 'badness' so to say that attracts good girls in bad boys. It's the fact that they can bring about that goodness in them that's hidden somewhere deep within them. And once they see that their love is bringing all those changes in the guy.. they can't ignore it, no matter what.

So what's your take on this?

-Mahi

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Opposite attractions suits in movies and daily soaps. Which gal would like to spend life with bad guy? Lets assume that they can bring change in guys but is it easy to change a person? Gud gal nd bad boys things r limited till college life. It doesn work in real lyf.
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^ I agree with what you said.. It is actually very rare in real life. But it does happen. Love is a very strong emotion, it changes the worst of people because it attacks the heart.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Personally, I have never been attracted to "bad" boys and with all modesty, I would consider myself a good girl. 😳 So yeah, the good girls like bad boys doesn't apply to me but you have put up a nice thought there- Good girls like the goodness they bring in bad boys.
That's something I have never thought about but I think it's quite wise and possibly true- I think I'll try an notice that in future. :)

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^ I agree with you. I don't see how can any girl be attracted jerks?

Chivalry wins over jerkness any day. It's the sincerity in people that matters.

I have noticed though that especially in terms of Hindi soaps, some of the best love stories have been about the 'bad guys' (not out and out but they like hide their goodness with a hard exterior) and how they are changed by 'good girls' and their love.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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lol you serious, I used to wonder what could be the reason to this...

i always noticed the same thing, may be bocoz, they were bold and outgoing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Mystery-

We hear this statement all the time.


Good girls like bad boys.

I just never could make sense of it. I do not think that good girls like bad boys.. But over the years I have learnt something I now believe is true.

Good girls like the goodness they bring in bad boys.

It's not the 'badness' so to say that attracts good girls in bad boys. It's the fact that they can bring about that goodness in them that's hidden somewhere deep within them. And once they see that their love is bringing all those changes in the guy.. they can't ignore it, no matter what.

So what's your take on this?

-Mahi

My thoughts:- 😊
a) They never try to impress girls with a lie or other things!
b) The so called bad guy can say n do lots of right things without bad intentions!
c) Stupid Girls improve their looks not their mind..
d) Girls having more bad guy friends because they cause less drama...
e)The craziest girls are the ones who seem the most normal at first...
f)Some girls need to control their WH*REmones...!!!!!
g)Girls ignore nice guys, Chase a$#hles, Then they have the nerve to complain about it..
& Be patient girls, Cinderella didn't find her Prince Charming till the end😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well I believe this is true to some extent..
Cuz every girl needs change.. Good or bad.. But good girls, being good, are flooded with appreciation / praises 24x7.. But bad boys will behave rude to them, wont give bhaav.. And this is something which attracts them the most 😃 Everyone needs change.. Bad boys bring the change in their lives..
I personally am attracted to bad boys.. God knows if I am good girl or not, but I think this is true.. 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Well I believe this is true to some extent..

Cuz every girl needs change.. Good or bad.. But good girls, being good, are flooded with appreciation / praises 24x7.. But bad boys will behave rude to them, wont give bhaav.. And this is something which attracts them the most 😃 Everyone needs change.. Bad boys bring the change in their lives..
I personally am attracted to bad boys.. God knows if I am good girl or not, but I think this is true.. 😃

i totally agree with u 😊
Very good observation 👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Personally, I prefer a nice guy more over some badass guy :P Its a personal choice. But yeah, to some extent good girls like bad boys. No clue why. 😕

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