Good Girls Like Bad Boys? - Page 3

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Thanks for disagreeing in a nice way..

And I read your another post where you have said girls from rich families hang out with smokers dropouts on friday sat night huggin kissing touching..

Lemme tell you something on that.. I am not supporter of smoking, bt my Dad smokes so he can be called a smoker.. My uncle is a dropout, he is one of the nicest persons I have come across in my life.. Self-employed he is..

Smoking and dropping out of our trash mechanical education system doesnt make you a bad guy.. At least these guys dont pretend to be something which they are not.. Their crimes (if you consider those to be crimes ) are open.. But these days, white-collar sophisticated and so called 'Educated' gawaars do MOST horrible crimes which we cant even THINK of doing.. Just for reference, watch the Domestic Violence or Female Foeticide episode of Satyamev Jayate.. According to the survey, it was the educated IT people, doctors, engineers i.e. so called civilized society who were found practising such crimes on a daily basis..

So I dont think smokers and dropouts can be called 'bad' guys in the first place.. And even if they are, they are much better than the horrible masked 'Babu' people of our society.. May be good girls have already seen the horrible faces of such 'educated' and 'well-mannered' guys, hence they find those street boys honest and true to life 😃

Originally posted by: V.I.P

Your opinion is acceptable but my opinion is from experience, from what I see in my day-to-day life. I know dozens of girls suffering from this case. I don't know why? I see these girls everyday at work for the last 3-4 years. I'm not even kidding, the number is too high.

Some of these girls (in their 20s) even get abused physiclly by these guys on daily basis but still they are enjoying their domestic relationships. 😕 One of the girl responded "ahh, he pays for my drinks, he cares for me but sometimes he isn't in a good mood"

Seriously, for a drink, these girls are ready to be trashed? 😕

And same with asian/desi girls.. I know so many in town. Some are from good families,good backgrounds and some are from trashy families. These girls are trolling around the streets with smokers, dropouts every friday, saturday night openly. Kissing, Huggin , Touching.. 🤢 why? I don't understand. Really.

*trashy families - those parents don't care what their kids are doing. cuz themself they r corruptd as f**k... 😆🤢

I guess, it's each girl to own opinion? I wouldn't really get it on with a guy who is worthless, illmannered, smokes, drinks, trolls around. Don't know what these girls have in mind.. 🥱

Originally posted by: Heart

That was not my post 😃

Originally posted by: cruiser51

OK...let me try to get serious for a change... 😊

It is not all that complicated. Every girl is blessed with brain, reasoning power, analytical abilities as well solid intelligence, but not for a moment we should forget that deep within she has that ingrained motherly instinct...a natural urge to be protective and caring about her would be / present family...kids...

In so many films, Sanjay Dutt, Salman Khan play baddies / guys gone wrong because of situation and audience, especially the females in audience, root for them...even when its obvious they are headed towards destruction in the end. WHY? Its same motherly, instinct that gets triggered off and makes the women's internal mechanism believe that...WE CAN pull this guy out of his troubles...he is not bad as the whole world seems to believe...he is a misunderstood guy etc.

Dozens of girls fell for Charles Shobhraj who served long sentences in Indian and Nepali prisons for multiple murders and drug related offences...Rhea Pillai visited Sanjay Dutt every day without fail when he served prison sentence for holding an AK-56 illeglally...Katrina went to Ajmer Sharief when Salman served sentence for running his Pajero over sleeping on pavement innocent ones...Surely girls like Sangeeta Bijlani, Somy Ali, Aishwarya, Katrina and all others in life of Salman have enough brain to figure out what sort of a guy he is when it comes to girls, drinks and wayward ways...Its just that the internal mechanism and basic psychology made / makes them believe..."NO...I CAN PULL HIM OUT OF THIS...". Very often in such situations, a girl would get hurt when she learns about say, Salman's fling with another girl, but incredibly, would find fault with the other girl in the end, not her man!

Needless to add, girls are not all Victims in such situations. Many a times, their own selfish motives goad them to behave like blindfolded GANDHARI of Mahabharata who refused to see and acknowledge any mistake of her wayward son Duryodhana.

Many girls have their own insecurities and psychological issues as well. When they see a bad guy who is relatively better off then most of the 'average' guys...the internal 'escape mechanism' too gets triggered off and at times without realising they tend to see their future and security with this bad chap who invariably is better off in terms of power / strength / financial aspects...

In the end, human mind is an extremely complex machine and most of us don't even use it to even 10% of it's true potential...so its a very individual thing. Whats true for one, may not be even true for most, so generalizations can never be made.😛

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

Heyllooo cruiser ji how are you ???? Long time no see !! 😉🤗

Originally posted by: prerna4rishav

😆 Nice one 👍🏼 😃

Me fine too.. Where are you these days ! 😲 Aap toh 'ga' se 'gayab' hi ho gaye !

Originally posted by: -Mystery-

^ I agree with what you said.. It is actually very rare in real life. But it does happen. Love is a very strong emotion, it changes the worst of people because it attacks the heart.