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Sujatha

@Sue Nair

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Posted: 13 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: shubba

This is the highlight ...👍🏼 ...and defintitely true .😃.😳

Yes true she needs to move on...but she would if TA is by her side for the rest of her life..!!🤢

I despise the way TA was looking at Thuls like as though she has committed a big crime. He didn't even bothered when he knew his mum abused Thuls physically - but I can imagine him jumping up and down if Thuls had just given his mum one tight slap. Where is his love for her? How come his love quickly flew out of the window just bcoz it concerns Charu? What is the point of having a good looking hubby when he is so heartless and brainless - he shd know Thulasi and her character - he shd be judging her HIMSELF rather than listening to his mum, Charu, Lav & KP. 😲

I hope Nitish shd take note of Charu's strange habits. I also wish that another girl would come into Nitish's life to teach Lav & GW a good lesson.😃 They say a pregnant woman shd think and do good things as it effects the baby badly when negative thoughts and actions are done. Lav is not fit to be a mum - I knew she was a gold digger from day one when she knew Nits was a good catch. Both mother and daughter wants to use the baby as a ticket for their own material needs. 😡

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jinju

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Posted: 13 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: Sue Nair

I despise the way TA was looking at Thuls like as though she has committed a big crime. He didn't even bothered when he knew his mum abused Thuls physically - but I can imagine him jumping up and down if Thuls had just given his mum one tight slap. Where is his love for her? How come his love quickly flew out of the window just bcoz it concerns Charu? What is the point of having a good looking hubby when he is so heartless and brainless - he shd know Thulasi and her character - he shd be judging her HIMSELF rather than listening to his mum, Charu, Lav & KP. 😲

I hope Nitish shd take note of Charu's strange habits. I also wish that another girl would come into Nitish's life to teach Lav & GW a good lesson.😃 They say a pregnant woman shd think and do good things as it effects the baby badly when negative thoughts and actions are done. Lav is not fit to be a mum - I knew she was a gold digger from day one when she knew Nits was a good catch. Both mother and daughter wants to use the baby as a ticket for their own material needs. 😡

Sue, well said. I couldn't have put it better. Basically, TT lack understanding and trust that's the problem . After living with her for one year he should trust her. He falls easily to anyone. Thats why GW, C, Lav, Keshav think he can be easily manipulated.

Edited by jinju - 13 years ago

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jinju

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Posted: 13 years ago

#53

Also whole family is hypocrisy personified.They never follow what they preach. After TA got humiliated by Padma. He never stepped inside his FIL's house again. Thulz never argued or made a big issue of it or forced him to forget everything and be cordial with her family members. Now GW has gone to the extent of raising hand shouldn't the same rule apply here. If he was an ideal hubby he would have cut his ties with his mother. It is not the first time she is humiliating his wife. How does he expect his wife to tolerate everything for him? Hate his double standards. Just proves that he is a typical MCP. His character started to deteriorate right from the day he forced T to cook when she had sem exams next day, instead of asking the other three viz. GW, Lav & Charu who were goondu chettila kuthirai ottufying...now it has reached the lowest ebb. Don't even get me started on GW!! When she herself treats her DILS like doormat she has absolutely no right to bad mouth Lav's MIL. She is 10x better than her!!

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Arizes.

@Arizes.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: jinju

Sue, well said. I couldn't have put it better. Basically, TT lack understanding and trust that's the problem . After living with her for one year he should trust her. He falls easily to anyone. Thats why GW, C, Lav, Keshav think he can be easily manipulated.

If you look things from bottom line - TA is at a responsibility to cure C's illness and at same time save T from C's illness. As long as T is with TA or any kind of patch up, C will start her plans from Stage 1 again and hence T and T cant be in peace and so is her illness - never ending.

He falls easily to anyone and people easily manipulte him - this is where the evils are going to get a shock if my assumptions are right. C thinks TA is manuipulated and hates T and here is where TA does it so well. But my guess is, it is no so...He wantedly keeps T away considering C and T's life. He knowing about C psycho and shouting back is of no use like annajay pointed out. VR and family will hate more and none will have peace of mind including T and T.

If u look things, being neutral to T and C things are very clear why TA is so. I dont mean he hates T or he likes C. Both are absurd. If u think C also needs to get a life (thinking from VR pov as a father whose dter's life is a question mark) we will know what it is all about. Charu getting dosage of anger from TA or sent to mental asylum is of no use. T and T would be more guilty as the triggering point of her psycho is breaking up of her wedding and she witnessing thru her own eyes.

I will just tell my view here - If at all TA is acting, it all started from the day he started about dropping her education, the day the unforgivable statements all started. Samtime I dont want to detail here why I think so, as my views might be wrong, giving false hopes that TA is acting. 😕.

I will wait for the day what it is actually and give my reasons even if it is wrong. 😛. But he talking to kanagu about the reason for their separation is totally unacceptable according to me. Lets see.

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jinju

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Posted: 13 years ago

#55

It is very confusing. If TA is acting I wonder why he can't confide that to T and ask her to act as well eh? Does he think she will not co-operate? HE is putting her under severe depression. What if something happens to her health because of it?

To each his own, but I don't believe TT are the root cause for C's current mental state. I think she must have this problem from childhood.She never behaved like a normal gal from day one. Remember the infamous dialogue of TA "Charu kitta pesa vaai dhaan irukku keka kaadhu illa". She was always in her la la land. She never suspected there is something wrong with TA's behaviour. If I were her I would have definitely suspected him. He never looked happy around her. Munjiya paathe kandu pidiklaam avanukku avala pidichurka pidikalaya nu. I guess she was least bothered about it. It was like I don't care whether he likes me I like him so I want him at any cost. He is no doll. Also she doesn't seem to socialize with anyone outside the family if you exclude Keshav, she doesn't have even a single good friend. These were all signals that something was wrong with her.

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karthika

@KarthiN90

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Posted: 13 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: jinju
It is very confusing. If TA is acting I wonder why he can't confide that to T and ask her to act as well eh? Does he think she will not co-operate? HE is putting her under severe depression. What if something happens to her health because of it?

To each his own, but I don't believe TT are the root cause for C's current mental state. I think she must have this problem from childhood.She never behaved like a normal gal from day one. Remember the infamous dialogue of TA "Charu kitta pesa vaai dhaan irukku keka kaadhu illa". She was always in her la la land. She never suspected there is something wrong with TA's behaviour. If I were her I would have definitely suspected him. He never looked happy around her. Munjiya paathe kandu pidiklaam avanukku avala pidichurka pidikalaya nu. I guess she was least bothered about it. It was like I don't care whether he likes me I like him so I want him at any cost. He is no doll. Also she doesn't seem to socialize with anyone outside the family if you exclude Keshav, she doesn't have even a single good friend. These were all signals that something was wrong with her.

jinju .our favourite couple always think about others happiness only.

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Arizes.

@Arizes.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#57

@jinju - If we see the T and C confrontation, before she had the psych disturbance, she was trying to prove T that she was the best. This shows her inferiority complex. She tries to hide the fact she is an adopted child. If at all she wants to get ones attention she uses the same to create sympathy - she did it twice, once before engagement and next recently after the conf. She got inf complex and to hide the fact she always tries to be being a topper so that her skills and activities are more appreciated and people around her forget her being a adopted child. She always thought her over smartness and skills will hide her being an adopted kid.

We already had a discussion earlier why T cannot co-operate - lol acording to me C watches only T, bcos T is her obstacle to reach TA. TA is her target and T is her obstacle and she thinks removal of T will make her approach TA. T cannot shut her mouth, we have seen how she let out and hit hard on C when she told she knew she is an adopted child. C knows every actions of T and moreover if at all C finds T is acting too in the plan wont C to a uncurable stage.

I would say, CTs are very neatly handling the C's track towards end...with things coming on their way and out of way, like Lav issue and Padma's involvement, though everything is in favour of T and T.

If we compare T and C, both their initial stage of life was a big question mark bcos of their parents.

But T does not hide the fact about her mother and she always faced taunting and that made her strong and she was only focussing on her education.

To the contro C was always pampered by VR family inspite of the face she is an orphan. So she tries to hide the fact and so is her parents and hence its so obvious she got inf complex.

When C saw with her own eyes that her wedding broke she could not take it and took T as a competitor and hence the issues and it triggered her the psyc disturbance.

Edited by shubba - 13 years ago

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verisimilitude

@verisimilitude

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Posted: 13 years ago

#58

Thank u Vjayam for the update ...

I was shocked to see the number of posts for this episode.. wish I could read all of them..

Tuls atleast told the truth that she was threatened nu ... otherwise MM & Puvi also would have mistaken her.. Its pity to see that even MM didnt trust her.All the characters have been hypnotised by Charu & GW...

Sudha & PA was talking sensibly today! But no use... atleast they understand Tuls situation but are helpless..

vanthutanga pa konja naal Missing nu sollarthukulla enter pannitaanga ..I remember once the engagement album caught fire in TA's house. cant they show it the same way ?

Tortures thodarum...