Sandhya's stubbornness or self-pity

I just can't believe she is behaving so rude at her in-laws. If she can do that much and get hated for it why not directly tell Suraj all that happened. What more worse can happen than this? At the most they will kick her out. They will call and taunt. Why shoudl she care one uneducated family in one small village thinks her parents haven't taught her good things! She doens't have to prove to the world.

I agree with you..I just saw today's episode after about a week and a half and I couldn't help but change the channel again when I saw this woman again..she seems selfish. All she thinks about is my dream,my dream,me this and me that..never has she thought about adjusting in her family or even giving her marriage a chance.Agreed she wasn't into marriage right now but now that she is married,can't she behave like a normal wife and give her marriage a chance?

it is not at all necessary that every girl would know how to cook, she won't die of starvation if she doesn't learn to either... study, earn, have a cook and a servant! I know of atleast 2 such couples where the wife doesn't know to cook and isn't interested and the husband isn't like those typical men who would talk non-sense on this!
but women of the neighborhood have enough faltu time to gossip on this 🤣

her stupid bro threw her into this marriage and like u said, it isn't like her bhabhi's last wish or for that matter even her parent's!
her parents n even she wants to have a career and not end up in the kitchen(no offense to house wives)

instead of walking, thinking, speaking sooo slowly, decide something. either she wants to stay in the marriage n make her in-laws understand her dream or walk out of it and work on her career. but then how will they drag the show if they don't make everything so slow 🥱

i wouldn't mind at all if Bhabho slaps her one or two times.

She is not really selfish...she helped Mohit with the money...and she stopped the slapfest on Meena,though it was pre planned...she was not like"this is none of my business"i will just enjoy the tamasha...but I agree she should not be so aloof from suraj...
I dont understand what has she really done so wrong that she should be slapped?...
And no tv soap opera is glued to reality...if it was mundane and monotonous like real life we wouldnt be watching it...atleast for me tv soaps are a much appreciated escape from reality...

It is most obvious that girls learn proper cooking only after completing their education or if they leave out in middle and very rarely some may learn out of interest or due to family circumstance. This cannot be an indication of bad parvarish.

every person has his/her own dream/ goal/ destiny/aim wateva it z. a person builds it up 4m d very young age...some try to g8 d career while some odr try to focus on d m8r lyk being housewife etc.in case of sandhya i undrstnd her mental cndsn...though d show z moving slowly now-a-dayz bt i cant blame sandhya for being such wat we r watching now as her exprssn. a girl who alws dreamed to build up a shiny challenging career had much shock-full waves all on a sudden...1st she lost her parents at d very same tym...n dn her brother betrayed her...lied a tonz n almost throw her out of d Family... n aftr dt her in-laws not well enuf to tr8 sm1 well rdr alws finding ways to harass(almost)/blame/hurt wateva it z; others...bhabo likes to dominate all odrs of d house spclly her DiLs...she speaks bout to put d women under d feet of d husbands while she own demolishes her own hubby all d tym...lol...in all dz situations how a gal can b spooky bout her heart all d tym? we cant expct dt actually...not so early...sandhya doesn't knw how to cook...i personally dnt knw how to cook...n nor evn many of my frnds n cousins...we alws do stdy stdy n stdy...our parents alws tell to all of us "1st do ur stdy, give us a very good result...bulid ur career...dn u can cook of urslf...itz not lyk u cant learn ds later...bt itz d stdy only u cant g8 bak aftr d proper tym finished...so do concentr8 on ur stdy"...etc ..learning cooking n household works is very very good...bt if any gal doesn't knw it at all dn we cant blame her or cant say dt she z spoiled...thr can b many rzns of not learning dos works...i can cmpl8ly undrstnd sandhya's mental condition...bt yeah as for show its moving slowly 🥱...she z thinking of her own dream ; well its not bad...who doesn't do it? we all do 😊

I didn't mean to say bad parvarish only because she didn't know how to cook. The way she behaved with Suraj and Bhabho with no fault of theirs does show some bit of parvarish. They have no idea what happened to her but she knows, so she should be acting more polite and dutiful esp. since she is expecting something out of them. If she has no expectations from them and doesn't matter if she is thrown out of the house, her behaviour is reasonable. But a strong Sandhya portrayed initially definitely does not behave like this.

I think I would have reacted the same way sandhya did. I have no idea how to cook and i'm pretty educated. Try putting yourself in her shoes. Being around people who have no education, doing the most retarded things like doing the fan thing to your husband. No thanks. I think Sandhya should just run away because there is no way this family will understand that a woman has dreams too!

Originally posted by: Harpreet.M

I think I would have reacted the same way sandhya did. I have no idea how to cook and i'm pretty educated. Try putting yourself in her shoes. Being around people who have no education, doing the most retarded things like doing the fan thing to your husband. No thanks. I think Sandhya should just run away because there is no way this family will understand that a woman has dreams too!

I can't believe people are blaming sandhya so much! She shows her emotions so well, like she's suffocating in jail. Bechari. I feel bad for her.

exactly! my family tells to me to concentrate on my career and frankly speaking I don't cook anything. if I ever marry and they say anything rubbish that I don't cook then they will hear some pretty things in return 😡
why is a girl's upbringing judged by her cooking? 🤪

the only people selfish here are clearly bhabho n suraj, who want a free maid who'll do all the cooking, cleaning and an additional job of producing a son! 🥱

though, sandhya should speak up in front of suraj and let him know what exactly has happened, we as viewers see the side of suraj that sandhya doesn't. why is she being judged on our basis??