One thing I don't understand about Indian shows!

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Taral

@taral83

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

Ok Kinjal hates Dhawal, she disrespects him to the core...she doesn't even think of him as her husband...then why all the shola shringar????? Why wear mangalsutra and sindoor? ITS disrespectful to wear that and then treat your husband like the dirt on your shoe. I am sorry it just got me annoyed. Why act like your married and you don't even respect that marriage. It happens in all the shows. Same goes for Urmi and Jitubhai. All the vamps that have show case husbands have more sindoor on then the main lead sometimes!!! Just got me annoyed with her behavior to poor Dhawal.

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_Precious_

@_Precious_

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

Its just to show the society that they are married. Such hypocrites.

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-Nafisa-

@-Nafisa-

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: _Precious_
Its just to show the society that they are married. Such hypocrites.

Absolutely that's the main reason, if you are a married woman you get more respect in society you are listened to, people take your advice, they think compared to an unmarried person, you see it all the time with politicians. We all think what applies here in the west doesn't apply there, but in this matter it does...Kinjal having mangalsutra and sindoor means she has respect in her business (modelling) from agents and prospective employers, also as you get on in age, if you are unmarried people there, think something wrong with her thinking that's why no man has come to propose, imagine Urmila her age what respect would she get in society if she wasn't married.

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moksha89

@moksha89

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

i know exactly what you mean ..

although in the case of jeetubhai & urmi, its much like koki & parag .. the men are resigned to the fact that this is how their relationship will be. even dhaval to some extent, but the only difference is that the other two women gave their husbands their right on them atleast once.. they followed the idea that they must procreate.

kinjal hasnt even let dhaval touch her, rashi did the same to jigar. the fullest insult they could give their husbands would be not to wear sindoor & mangalsutra. maybe there'll be a time where they renounce even those things in an act of spite. who knows.

on another note, koki has the most bejeweled sindoor ever. do you notice her little diamond bindi at its base & on top of the long bindi? kya style hai 😆

Edited by moksha89 - 14 years ago

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Queen.Bee

@Queen.Bee

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: moksha89
i know exactly what you mean ..
although in the case of jeetubhai & urmi, its much like koki & parag .. the men are resigned to the fact that this is how their relationship will be. even dhaval to some extent, but the only difference is that the other two women gave their husbands their right on them atleast once.. they followed the idea that they must procreate.
kinjal hasnt even let dhaval touch her, rashi did the same to jigar. the fullest insult they could give their husbands would be not to wear sindoor & mangalsutra. maybe there'll be a time where they renounce even those things in an act of spite. who knows.

on another note, koki has the most bejeweled sindoor ever. do you notice her little diamond bindi at its base & on top of the long bindi? kya style hai 😆

and rashi don't wear mangalsutra😆😆😆😆 only when going to bed that too only in mm.. i think for jigar if rashi wears these two it is insult😆😆😆

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-Nafisa-

@-Nafisa-

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: rashi.krishna

and rashi don't wear mangalsutra😆 only when going to bed that too only in mm.. i think for jigar if rashi wears these two it is insult😆😆😆

😆 even Gopi the same when sleeping that's when she puts the mangalsutra, it's because they are going into the bedroom and the husband is there, if they don't wear it, the husband will start worrying, so they put it on when going to sleep, or it's maybe in-case they die in sleep, I don't know...Also I noticed when Gopi left the house she was wearing her mangalsutra the whole time she was at Urmila's house, and I was like yah, just because he said he doesn't want you and you left the house you want everyone to know you are still a married woman...😆 , you see guys even the good characters Gopi was doing the same, all for societies sake.

Edited by Nafisa_blossoms - 14 years ago

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-Nafisa-

@-Nafisa-

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: moksha89
i know exactly what you mean ..
although in the case of jeetubhai & urmi, its much like koki & parag .. the men are resigned to the fact that this is how their relationship will be. even dhaval to some extent, but the only difference is that the other two women gave their husbands their right on them atleast once.. they followed the idea that they must procreate.
kinjal hasnt even let dhaval touch her, rashi did the same to jigar. the fullest insult they could give their husbands would be not to wear sindoor & mangalsutra. maybe there'll be a time where they renounce even those things in an act of spite. who knows.

on another note, koki has the most bejeweled sindoor ever. do you notice her little diamond bindi at its base & on top of the long bindi? kya style hai 😆

Both mothers as spiteful as they are to their husbands need to make their daughters sit down and explain the procreation part.😃

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Queen.Bee

@Queen.Bee

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms

Both mothers as spiteful as they are to their husbands need to make their daughters sit down and explain the procreation part.😃

OH! MY GOD...leave kokila aside she will manage.. just imagine urmila explaining to rashi 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆.. hooo! what a scene just wanna see rashi's facial expressions...

do u think urmi knows that her daughter didn't let him touch her for the past one year? or does the mom told daughter not to.. as they have to go from one mm to another after looting so better not carry extra lugguages😆😆😆

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Queen.Bee

@Queen.Bee

Sparkler

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: moksha89
i know exactly what you mean ..
although in the case of jeetubhai & urmi, its much like koki & parag .. the men are resigned to the fact that this is how their relationship will be. even dhaval to some extent, but the only difference is that the other two women gave their husbands their right on them atleast once.. they followed the idea that they must procreate.
kinjal hasnt even let dhaval touch her, rashi did the same to jigar. the fullest insult they could give their husbands would be not to wear sindoor & mangalsutra. maybe there'll be a time where they renounce even those things in an act of spite. who knows.

on another note, koki has the most bejeweled sindoor ever. do you notice her little diamond bindi at its base & on top of the long bindi? kya style hai 😆

still i have a doubt.. why kokila let parag it is understandable.. family's izzat.. it won't look good it they have no children and also the eager to score before hetal😆😆😆 (i personally think that is main reason i also thought rashi will also think about overtaking gopi but such thought didn't came up in her mind(urmila)).. but why happen to urmi???? if she was like rashi.. then rashi will never be born and poor jigar must have been saved..😆😆😆 but somehow he got punishment for his past life deeds.. after all millions and millions of females in earth his kismat was RASHI.