One thing I don't understand about Indian shows! - Page 2

I agree with all everyone said...but my point isn't that. I really don't care about society...but I just feel like going up to these people and just saying if your not happy with him then why put all these things on? I want to see their reaction!...as for Urmi and Jitu and Koki and Parag...well I don't think Koki treats Parag as bad as Urmi treats Jitu. Yes they are sometimes at the same level with their attitude towards them ...but at least Koki has some what of a reason to be mad at Parag (him not having a job) but Urmi whats her excuse? just that she is evil?...What I am asking is the mentality that these people hold. they don't want to respect their husbands but put on sindoor with great pride!! WHY?? I just felt like slapping Kinjal.

and exactly if Gopi and Rashi can play off not wearing a mangalsutra then Kinjal ka special case hai?I guess I am frustrated because Dhawal is the type of man that we as women (most of us) look for in a man. If you think about it...all three boys play a quality that we women look for in a man.
Ahem: the angry macho manly guy
Jigar: the romantic sweep me off my feet guy
Dhawal: the understanding loving and always putting me first sweetheart.

Though the first two matter, but the most important is the last. Someone that can support you in the toughest of times and also point out to you your flaws. Kinjal has it, but her egoistic self-centered mind wont except it.

Originally posted by: taral83

I agree with all everyone said...but my point isn't that. I really don't care about society...but I just feel like going up to these people and just saying if your not happy with him then why put all these things on? I want to see their reaction!...as for Urmi and Jitu and Koki and Parag...well I don't think Koki treats Parag as bad as Urmi treats Jitu. Yes they are sometimes at the same level with their attitude towards them ...but at least Koki has some what of a reason to be mad at Parag (him not having a job) but Urmi whats her excuse? just that she is evil?...What I am asking is the mentality that these people hold. they don't want to respect their husbands but put on sindoor with great pride!! WHY?? I just felt like slapping Kinjal.

and exactly if Gopi and Rashi can play off not wearing a mangalsutra then Kinjal ka special case hai?I guess I am frustrated because Dhawal is the type of man that we as women (most of us) look for in a man. If you think about it...all three boys play a quality that we women look for in a man.
Ahem: the angry macho manly guy
Jigar: the romantic sweep me off my feet guy
Dhawal: the understanding loving and always putting me first sweetheart.

Though the first two matter, but the most important is the last. Someone that can support you in the toughest of times and also point out to you your flaws. Kinjal has it, but her egoistic self-centered mind wont except it.

Originally posted by: taral83

I agree with all everyone said...but my point isn't that. I really don't care about society...but I just feel like going up to these people and just saying if your not happy with him then why put all these things on? I want to see their reaction!...as for Urmi and Jitu and Koki and Parag...well I don't think Koki treats Parag as bad as Urmi treats Jitu. Yes they are sometimes at the same level with their attitude towards them ...but at least Koki has some what of a reason to be mad at Parag (him not having a job) but Urmi whats her excuse? just that she is evil?...What I am asking is the mentality that these people hold. they don't want to respect their husbands but put on sindoor with great pride!! WHY?? I just felt like slapping Kinjal.

and exactly if Gopi and Rashi can play off not wearing a mangalsutra then Kinjal ka special case hai?I guess I am frustrated because Dhawal is the type of man that we as women (most of us) look for in a man. If you think about it...all three boys play a quality that we women look for in a man.
Ahem: the angry macho manly guy
Jigar: the romantic sweep me off my feet guy
Dhawal: the understanding loving and always putting me first sweetheart.

Though the first two matter, but the most important is the last. Someone that can support you in the toughest of times and also point out to you your flaws. Kinjal has it, but her egoistic self-centered mind wont except it.

Originally posted by: moksha89

i know exactly what you mean ..

although in the case of jeetubhai & urmi, its much like koki & parag .. the men are resigned to the fact that this is how their relationship will be. even dhaval to some extent, but the only difference is that the other two women gave their husbands their right on them atleast once.. they followed the idea that they must procreate.

kinjal hasnt even let dhaval touch her, rashi did the same to jigar. the fullest insult they could give their husbands would be not to wear sindoor & mangalsutra. maybe there'll be a time where they renounce even those things in an act of spite. who knows.

on another note, koki has the most bejeweled sindoor ever. do you notice her little diamond bindi at its base & on top of the long bindi? kya style hai 😆