Jigyasa told her daughter that "till date she in not only her mother but her friend too. That she gives her all kind of support in whatever she wanted to do. She gives her liberty to live her own life as she wanted to live. Even then you consider bani as more closer to u that her own mother". While she was saying all this, I felt bad for her. I never like jigs as a woman. Her thoughts, her doings, her behaviour all are down grade. Sometimes its shameful to call her a woman. Her behaviour with bani can't be tolerate at all. She should be punished for her doings. She is a big failure in giving happiness as a wife, as a mother, as a sister and as a daughter in law. But for anu's part and her outburts on bani, in some sense justify. Though how bad she is and though she is a failure in performing her duty as a good mother, but still she is a mother. I think for every mother it is beyond a tolerable limit that her own daughter is hiding a matter with which not only her daughter's life but her own family's life and pride associate. It is every mother's right to know such a big news of her daughter's life first. Then its her look out how to deal with it. Anu not only hide the matter for 3 months from her mother but took the support of bani who is no. 1 enemy of jigs. Both the fact alongwith jai's support to bani made jigs mad.
My point of view towards bani
Bani's intension was very good but the path she choose was totally wrong. First she didn't take her husband into confidence thus creating problems in her own marriage life (which is on a very delicate mode right now she knows) lead it to divorce and creat a havoc in jai and her own life. Second she save family pride at the cost of her own self respect and heard the things which is far beyond to tolerate as a woman (pls. Bani don't make a habit to become a "mahan" all the time. It is utter rubbish). Third she also creat havoc in jigs life. She snatched a mother's right by hiding such an important news from her for 3 months. She knew tht jigs never like her from the day one she stepped in walia house. She never gave a thought that if something bad would have been happened with anu during this time in any way, how can she be able to face jigs, a mother of anu. At that time nobody will consider her good intension but blame her for wrong deed with anu and hiding the fact from everyone. When you take such a step, you have to take in mind all the consequences related to it. Where bani failed.
My point of view towards jai
Whatever jai told to jigs and adi, I 99% agreed with him and 1% disagreed with him. He rightly said that becoz of their all the time fighting with each other, both are failed in performing their duties as a parents. when he said to jigs tht due to busy with business, adi will not perform his duty well but you being a mother totally failed. Here I partially disagreed with him. When you have a child, its their joint duty to look after them and give a good upbringing. For a child mother's attension is equally important as father's attension. Adi is very intelligent man with good heart. As living in same house with jai, adi is totally aware of jig's only moto of get bani out of the house. he is aware tht his wife is busy with her evil intension and not giving proper attension to her own children. He knows that it is almost impossible to turn jig's mind to other direction then in this situation his duty as a father increase. It is his duty to know what his children are doing in their life. But he too failed as his only moto is to fight with jigs all the time. So both failed as a parents and look how their children are. For my tedhe medhe jai I m very happy as he shut jigs up and take bani's side openly. He also didn't hesitate in committing his mistake in front of bani. Then very softely yet firmly stopped her from leaving the house. oh jai… u r so sweet….😛
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kiah
Anupamaa
Dr Aarambhi
