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Posted: 14 years ago
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Women11-see, she wants to get accepted n loved by the family.anandi is beti of house.abt sharing husband?j doesnt love anandi,so where is the question of sharing,even wen she was under the impresion dat she is legal wife.she was nt bothered abt anandi s rights,she never had any wish of anandi leaving the haveli.if she had gt the aceptance n wud be legal wife may be she wud never have any problem with anandi .
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankit111

u just tell me wht wrong Singh Parivar hs done with her. Before marriage she knew tht they hv disowned J. Did they went to Mumbai and created scene? Did they invited thm and insulted? If u know tht they don't want to hv any relationship with, why r u imposing urself. Why sd they give u chance to prove urself if they don't even want to hv any relationship with u. May be u will be best Beendani of the world, but if they don't want to hv best Beendani and satisfied with their life thn why r u forcing urself on thm. Even any confusion was in ur mind abt money transferred, it was cleared and real picture is before u. Just keep ur begger husband out from havely, force him to refuse tht bhikh and live ur maje ka life alone. Nobody is going to disturb u, but u r disturbing everybody life. As concern to the insecurity, u choose it urself thn why blame other.

👏 well said ankit
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Posted: 14 years ago
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All I hear is GAURI WANTS this and Gauri wants that. Who gave her the right to WANT anything in the first place ?

Everything is about Gauri wants
- to be married to Jagya
- to get acceptance from his family
- to prove Anandi is not as good as she is
- to be treated with respect in the whole village as his wife
- to romance in public in a village - Hello ! u r from a village right ? Did you ever see couples romance in broad daylight ?
- to have a baby
- get it legitimacy
- have the whole Singh family dancing with joy about it

Does Gauri ever pause to think that other people too have wishes and they too can want something ?
For instance - currently they all may just want
- to be able to talk in their own living room with their visitors as they please
- not have unexpected guests come in and fall sick and then stay here till they feel fit to go.
- Not have to hear yelling and screaming in their own house.

Gauri shud understand that they are kind n humane people who do not throw out sick people on the street. If they wanted - they could have easily arranged to have her rest at some hotel or dharamshala AT THEIR OWN EXPENSE, just so this pall of gloom could lift.

The whole Singh family looks like there is a very bad smell in the house and they can hardly breathe without making a face - Gauri just GO please..!

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Women11-see, she wants to get accepted n loved by the family.anandi is beti of house.abt sharing husband?j doesnt love anandi,so where is the question of sharing,even wen she was under the impresion dat she is legal wife.she was nt bothered abt anandi s rights,she never had any wish of anandi leaving the haveli.if she had gt the aceptance n wud be legal wife may be she wud never have any problem with anandi .



Okay now I get it. So Gauri believes in polygamy wholeheartedly. She has no problems with Anandi's rights. Jagya doesn't love Anandi now, but even if he does later, she will have no problems if Jagya wants to sleep with Anandi, as long as she is recognized as the second wife. Now it's clear, we do have a strong polygamy enthusiast in the guise of a modern, shahri daactaar.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Loved your post hooked. Imagine the plight of the haveli people. They can't live in peace for long. Either they are pestered by beggars like Jagya who keep begging for money and birthday wishes and rakhis. Else they have screamers like Gauri who walk in the haveli to just scream at them and then settle there permanently.🤣

Then just being polite is also not enough, these untimely intruders want love and attention and ashirwaad and what not.🤣 The haveli people can't entertain their guests in their own house because the intruders will try to interact and create a drama with the guests too. They can't do their daily work like running a school because the intruders would be hovering around the haveli disrupting the class.They can't cook in peace because the intruders will be hovering around in the kitchen for food of their choice. To top it all, they can't stay in peace because a high decibel voice keeps screeching throughout the day and cursing the family members. What a nuisance😕. Seriously, kya zabardasti hai yaar!!!
Imagine strangers like these in your own house who will forcibly come and settle in your house, disrupt your daily life, cry for your attention and love, scream and cry and shout in your house and even curse you!!! 🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
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A already said she is beti of haveli so how beti rights n bahu rights be same,so no question of sharing husband.dint singh parivar never wronged to g n her family?n demanding ur rights is wrong ?R they distrubing singh parivar?singh parivar is angry bt is it true dat they realy dnt care abt j?do ul realy think they r peaceful wen j is nt around,then y do they cry remembering him.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

A.dint singh parivar never wronged to g n her family?n demanding ur rights is wrong ?.




Did Gauri's family not know that when first beendhni is alive, second marriage cannot happen as per social customs? How is this all singh parivar's fault. Her parents wanted to sell her...and they did sell her for a big fat amount of money which they never returned to dadisa I might add.

The maha panchayat decided that the child marriage was socially void. so there was no rights there to begin with. and the maha panchayat held her parents equally responsible.

The law holds the adult marriage legally void.

so on both samajik and legal grounds it was void. she had no rights then and she has no rights now.


She is jagat's wife -- that doesnt automatically transfer to being haveli bahu.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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As per some logic mentioned here soon G will start shouting WHY WHY WHY WHY you remembered J, why u shedded tears, (she hs camera in haweli to watch it). It show tht u r not happy. Now as i hv proved tht u r not happy, u r bound to accept me to make urself happy. I hv full rit to make u happy 😆 😆 😆 so its ur divine duty to accept me. U hv no rit to live unhappy without me. If u want to be unhappy better u hv to be unhappy with me 😆 😆 i want to participate in ur unhappy life. As concern tht they hv told A is like beti of haveli, don't they hv rit to treat anyone as they want or it sd be passed in JAGO assembly. 😆 😆
Edited by ankit111 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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tomorrow gauri will also want to be beti... just because anandi is beti.

since there is fierce competition between herself and anandi in her own mind atleast.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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The only RIGHTS these two seem to want are total and unconditional financial ones.
Gauri entered the house screaming. She never once thought of herself like a bahu and made an attempt to touch anyone's feet. She just barged in and started screaming at Anandi.
When Bhairon appraised her of the facts, she coolly passed out and since then has beentoo weak to travel but not too weak to snoop around and have histrionics at full blast ! I think tamasha of the kind she creates - saps much more strength than is required to endure a 1 hr long car journey to Jaipur.

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