Gauri's Anandi phobia

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Guys ! I took up for Gauri in one episode this week - when Jagya came back and she seemed very subdued.
I thought maybe finally she is realizing what a fantasy world they have been living in and that the kid is seriously not coming at a good time vis-a-vis her career and their live-in status and that they need Anadi's charity to survive on and her own parents instead of being an asset are now also dependent on them.
This thread is to say - I was wrong 😳, don't know why it seemed like she was finally making sense of the situation - anyways - her yesterday's rant proved quite clearly that she is exactly where she was when she came for her 'Bless me - I'm your new improved city girl beendni - try me once - you'll love me forever' mission.
I do hope Lal Singh will take care of Anandi in their new hospital - and if needed they can take her back to her earlier surgeon in Mumbai. 😆 Will love to see J's face while he pretends he is the same old adoring child hubby.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think Gauri's know that she is wrong ...nd Anandi is nice nd honest girl
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think this is the root cause of Gauri's problem.

Since Jagat dumped anandi because of her lower educational standard and other village characteristics, she assumes that the singhs will do so too.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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LOVEd your statement aahahahahahah

'Bless me - I'm your new improved city girl beendni - try me once - you'll love me forever'



Jetsar times should put an ad based on this
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Guys ! her 'Bless me - I'm your new improved city girl beendni - try me once - you'll love me forever' mission.]
Fantastically put. Very very apt. Thats what it was. Can't decide whether to laugh or clap. I'll do both.😆👏
Edited by TSakshi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Its nt abt improved girl ,she meant she wud perform al duties of being bendhani ,It is nt abt being better then anandi.woh sirf apne aapko asurakhshit mehoos kar rahi hai.kahi naa kahi uske saath singh parivar ne galat toh kiya hai .that was her pain n tension abt her child wil be accepted or no.was she was so pressurised earlier?today the matter is just nt abt her bt also abt her child.after watching the ful episode,how u people fail to understand her.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Its nt abt improved girl ,she meant she wud perform al duties of being bendhani ,It is nt abt being better then anandi.woh sirf apne aapko asurakhshit mehoos kar rahi hai.kahi naa kahi uske saath singh parivar ne galat toh kiya hai .that was her pain n tension abt her child wil be accepted or no.was she was so pressurised earlier?today the matter is just nt abt her bt also abt her child.after watching the ful episode,how u people fail to understand her.

u just tell me wht wrong Singh Parivar hs done with her. Before marriage she knew tht they hv disowned J. Did they went to Mumbai and created scene? Did they invited thm and insulted? If u know tht they don't want to hv any relationship with, why r u imposing urself. Why sd they give u chance to prove urself if they don't even want to hv any relationship with u. May be u will be best Beendani of the world, but if they don't want to hv best Beendani and satisfied with their life thn why r u forcing urself on thm. Even any confusion was in ur mind abt money transferred, it was cleared and real picture is before u. Just keep ur begger husband out from havely, force him to refuse tht bhikh and live ur maje ka life alone. Nobody is going to disturb u, but u r disturbing everybody life. As concern to the insecurity, u choose it urself thn why blame other.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: tanvismile

Ii .that was her pain n tension abt her child wil be accepted or no.was she was so pressurised earlier?today the matter is just nt abt her bt also abt her child..



If this was a matter of pain/tension and pressure -- then she should have clarified with the singhs as soon as she knew the legal status of the marriage -- okay, you dont like me, what if we are to have kids -- will you accept them or not?

Several months have passed since bhairon said that their marriage is illegal, before coming to mumbai and she has never had this forward thinking about what will happen in the future?

Now she gets up in the morning one day, finds herself pregnant, and then begins to question the future or the child and its acceptance?

what was she doing all this time?


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Btw wht if she decide to make a football team 😉 will she expect tht singh parivar will sponsor her football team, without informing thm her plan 😆 😆 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Gauri wants to be accepted. Granted. But on what basis?
I could understand her angst earlier----since she thought she was the legal bahu of the household and was getting rejected----so she fought for her rights. But now, after knowing the real status of her relationship, she still wants to be accepted. 😕
My question is as what? As a second wife? Or as a mistress? If she wants to get accepted as a second wife, then she should also be aware of Anandi's rights,and not scheme of throwing her out of the haveli all the time. If she considers herself as the second wife, then she should also be ready to share her husband with Anandi and not claim sole proprietorship on him.

But Gauri does not do that. So the only other option is maybe she wants to get accepted as Jagya's mistress. In that case, she should not expect any rights, not an equal status with Anandi, but only monetary compensation from the Singhs.
But from Gauri's actions it seems she wants to get accepted as the only wife of Jagya. Thinking that way, even after knowing the truth, is either madness or delusion or simple amnesia.
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