Part-4
Geet came to near marriage mantap with her friends and relatives. Now vanamala rasam started. Again she try to see him…but his face is closed by sehara(flowers) groom parents are standing next to him. when rasam started balwanth try to put garland to geet, brij and chachu picked her to high. There is too happiness in their face. But their real face only geet aware…after two three attempts groom succeeded to put garland to geet. when geet tried no one are lifted him. now geet observed ,with balwanth very few people came to marriage.
After vanamala exchange pandithji ask them to sit in front of fire(agni). Geet only praying her bhabhaji. She is too confused about what happening. One part she can not accept her marriage another part she left every thing on her bhabhaji. When raji came and knotted their pallus she is in heaven. Now pandithji ask them to take seven steps (sathphere) which is very important part of marriage. As per pandithji guidance when maan hold her right palm in his right palm, he can feel her shivering, she is shivering like soft feather. Blood is rushing in her veins within a few second her body temperature raised.
Balwanth and geet moved around the fire taking their oaths to their marriage. There is very beautiful meanings for sathphere where the bride and groom take promise. Every one started to put flower petals on them. Geet dipped her head down and followed balwanth singh.
| 1. On the first round, both of them pray to god that they always get nourishing and good food. | |
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| 2. On the second step, they pray to God that he may give them physical, mental and the spiritual strength so that they may |
| be able to lead a life that is healthy. | | |
| 3. With the third step, they pray to the Almighty for a life full of prosperity and preserving of wealth and that they will be with each other at the time of |
| pains and sufferings. each other at the time of pains and sufferings. | |
| 4. On the fourth round, they swear to stay together and attain harmony and happiness by sharing love and trust mutually between them. |
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| 5. On the fifth step, the couples pray to have a family of their won and they also pray for the well-being of all the beings of the universe. |
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| 6. With second least step, they pray to God that he may give them togetherness forever and help them lead a long and life full of joy. |
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| 7. With the seventh step, they pray for companionship, understanding, unity and loyalty with each other. |
After her sathphere she is totally in heaven. She completely agreed from her heart balwanth as a her husband. Before sathphere what worries she had in her mind everything is vanished just one touch of him. now she is totally surrendered to him. when she sat next to him she is in air. Her happiness is glowing in her face. As per pandithji guidance balwanth extend his hand ,now geet placed her soft hand on his palm. He can feel her silky skin is wetting…pandith ji kept flower in their palms. Now they are promising in front of agni(fire) they both are one in their life.
Pandithji started marriage manthras… "..om Swasti na indro vridhashravaah. Swasti nah pooshaa vishwavedaah. Swasti
nastaarkshyo arishtanemih. Swasti no brihaspatir dadhaatu. Om shantih, shantih ..." both again taken promise in the proof of( panchabhuth sakshi) water, fire, air, sky and earth.
now the time for filling her mang with sindhur. When balwanth taken sindur in his hand even his fingers are shivering. Finally he filled her sindhur.
Mangalyam tantunanena mama jeevana hetuna:
kanthe badhna shubhage twam jeeva sharadha satam.
Now he tied black bedded mangal suthra in her neck. when his arms around her neck she gulped her saliva once. There is a very sweet wind passed between them. They both are too close ,they both can feel each of them breath .Geet try to see him again now only she can find his eyes , his blue eyes are shining like a blue emeralds.
What a pure relation made by god between man and women.
After marriage immediately they taken her to car. Geet couldn't control when she is leaving her mayaka. Yes its true she suffered much in mayaka, its true she lived like servant and a prisoner, but still there is attachment, which is attached her from childhood to this haveli. Only her room walls no about her happiness and sorrows. They are the proof of her pains and tears. She shared every thing with them which she can not share with any human bees. Once she want to go for her room. But no one are let to go. After marriage immediately they send with balwanth.
While moving from hosaipur she want to meet her dharji, she saw balwanth in her eye edge. he is sitting like a stone statue. He didn't bother to speak at least once with her. she scared to move to close..without knowing anything, without aware of the person who sitting next to her is now her husband. She want to tell him that she want to go her form. but …she gulped her saliva.. "balwanth ji, I want to go for our form…" no answer from his part, she gathered her stamina and again requested him" balwanji , I want to take blessings from dharji…" before completing her words….he banged his hand fur sly on staring.
Geet scared..she jumped back…what a heartless man he is..how to move with him in future..she is in insane…. After looking his angry she didn't dare to speak a word with him. she don't know where he is taking her…she turned back and try to trace his parents car…but their car already changed the route. Now she scared. Both the window sides darkness is covered. She don't know in which way the car is traveling….she scared..her tears rolled on her cheeks. She is become orphan when too small she didn't cry when they passed. After dharji passed she know about the feel , tears and pain… but she didn't feel so much of pain when she is living with chachi house. Some how she accepted everything is her faith.
Now she had plenty of dreams about marriage…but now it seems something horror…she scared. But know one are there to fill courage in her.
Again her gaze slowly moved her so called husband….still he didn't remove his sehara. Really its looking something very strange. She scare to open her mouth. Only she can pray her bhabhji. Only he can help her….
Pre cap: geet committed suicide.
Friends I know I have too much described about marriage…it can be bore to..but the reason for every step of marriage why I explained you will come to know in coming updates. Pls don't ignore it bcoz I update bored in this part pls press like button and get me your comments.
Imp note: I am a south Indian , I am not much aware about north Indian marriage rasams. here I explained marriage process in north Indian style. If any thing wrong in my part pls forgive me.
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