Question about gaurav/karan

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi! Im new here and I've recently started watching this show since last wk well I know that gaurav and karan are both gay but one thing i was confused at and I wasn't sure of is that can gay people turn straight?I'm sry if this topic has been posted already but i was really curious ..this show really does make you think about alot of things ...i dont want vidya and gaurav to get a divorce coz i have done some research where they say that gay people can bcome straight depending upon the situation..i was just really curious if someone could help thanks..and sorry if it has already been posted :(

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I will just link you to the some of the other topics which talk about this. I'm not doing this in a b*tchy way, just that there are good posts in these topics.





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Posted: 14 years ago
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no i haven't heard bout a gay dude change to straight...so idk...she might end up w/ someone while he is happy w/ karan...thats wat i think
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I worked with someone whose husband of about 15yrs left her and their 3 kids for another man. If this can happen, why can't the other way? I would like to know the answer myself. Yes, this show does make you think and question things!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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me too wanna knw about it...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tereliye06

Hi! Im new here and I've recently started watching this show since last wk well I know that gaurav and karan are both gay but one thing i was confused at and I wasn't sure of is that can gay people turn straight?I'm sry if this topic has been posted already but i was really curious ..this show really does make you think about alot of things ...i dont want vidya and gaurav to get a divorce coz i have done some research where they say that gay people can bcome straight depending upon the situation..i was just really curious if someone could help thanks..and sorry if it has already been posted :(


all are eager to know but long back i read a article that many gay's succumb to society pressure and get married and have children, but stiil they continue their relation with their partner secretly.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tereliye06

Hi! Im new here and I've recently started watching this show since last wk well I know that gaurav and karan are both gay but one thing i was confused at and I wasn't sure of is that can gay people turn straight?I'm sry if this topic has been posted already but i was really curious ..this show really does make you think about alot of things ...i dont want vidya and gaurav to get a divorce coz i have done some research where they say that gay people can bcome straight depending upon the situation..i was just really curious if someone could help thanks..and sorry if it has already been posted :(

Well...it has happened that gay becomes straight and straight becomes gay...
I guess rather than being a homesexual you might have to have bisexual tendencies for this to happen.
See if Guarav is bi then he could end up having a one night thing with Vidya..which could lead to more dramatic storylines as she gets pregnant...I wouldn't mind watching the show deal with bisexualism - there is more there to depict ...however once everyone finds out the Gaurav is a homosexual with Karan...then what!! Isn't that story kind of over then.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i dont really know the answer to this i dont think if anybody does. But i can tell u that if the show wanted vidya and gaurav together then why start the gay track in the beginning. They cannot end it now because they will get hell from the society.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Thank you all for replying..wasn't expecting alot of responses lol..but nigo123 i agree with you that if they wanted to make gaurav and vidya to be together then why crearte the gay track..well as far as Ive seen the show maybe they are just trying to show that this has happened and is happening in our community...i havce heard alot of people from US marrying girls from India under famly pressure but they are gay but can't confess to the family...but i think gaurav will finally realize that what he has with vidya is actually true love and that he was never gay..cause the way he has been acting with vidya..or maybe thats wat I would want it to be lol :)

thank you Likarsh for the links ;)
namita_murti..u are absolutely right..its sad how people can do such a thing after being married and having kids..sad sad
soni2004...i think ur right the story would end but maybe gaurav can turn straight who knows...its possible theres always hope :)
miller88..i hope she doesn't end up with someone else like chinnu..lol
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Posted: 14 years ago
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There is a famous incident of a gay man turning straight. Guys, google Tom Robinson. He was famous in the 1970's because of his song "Glad to be Gay". He subsequently fell in love with a woman and is now married to her. Also, google the British poet Stephen Spender. He turned gay-to-straight. But, there are just as many incidents of men turning gay after many years of marriage to a woman. All I am saying is, sexual identity, like any other aspect of one's identity, need NOT to stable and fixed. Having said that, if Gaurav falls in love with Vidya, AS IS LIKELY NOW (because he is beginning to avoid Karan) can we please spare a thought for the acute pain Karan will go through? Is it his fault that he loves Gaurav? I think Gaurav and Karan should live together eventually and Vidya and Cheenu should find love in each other's arms.

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