Ganga is only a kid!!!!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ganga is not the witch, she is an innocent victim of Patriarchy. The real culprits are Ganga's parents and Sajjan Singh.

Yes she is being dumb in marrying Sajjan but she doesn't know any better. She comes from an extreame poverty, probably not much educated, she is a child in a teen's body.
Coming from extreame poverty, she is happy being in a palace like home, getting sweets and good food, jewellery and nice clothes, and care from Sajjan. For her this is enough. She doesn't know the meaning of marriage. Coming from such a remote place, she probably haven't seen any films, doesn't know what is physical intimacy or love. The only adult thing she knows how to do is probably household chores.
Ganga is a kid in teen's body. Sajjan Singh wants to marry a teen girl who is mentally a child. So in a way he wants to marry a child.
Ganga is not in an age to make decisions for herself. It is upto her guardians' to make decisions for her. But too bad, when her own parents have sold her, what do you expect? Pratigya's should put Ganga's father in jail first for that crime. I wonder why didn't Pratigya took any step before when she came to know that Ganga has been sold.
For centuries women have suffered all over the world like this. They were married off when they were just children or in their teens.
Even though its not right and not legal, It is still better if teens girls married teen boys. My grandmother got married at the age of 16 but atleast she married a 16 year old boy. Thus my grandparents began their married life at same age and had a healthy and happy married life. They grew up together as friends and were happy with each other.
But marrying an older man, for whom teen girls are not a life partner but just a sex toy, that is simply disgusting. That is not a marriage, it is a rape and a major crime. Ganga is a victim, who should be rescued from all this.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ZooniIndian 👍🏼 take a bow my friend, my hats off for you for making this post, No one is bashing Ganga per say but probably many are reluctant to see the real plight of this young kid and what she is going to go through because of her lack of understanding of this whole marriage charad, her parents definitely shares a major blame for destroying their daughters life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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excellent post
I agree with u
A girl lik her came from poor background will definitely attracted to the pleasures like new clothes, jewellery, nice food etc...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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thanks for sharing... welcome to the forum 😃
your analysis is spot on but i dont agree with your title... "bashers" makes it seem as if people are voicing their displeasure out of spite 😕
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ofcourse G is the victim here...nobody is denying it...its her parents n SS who should be blamed n send to jail, along with the pundit who wed them n the people who stood as witness to their marriage...N the Cvs also showed that GD n P or even KN isn't thinking that G is at fault ...n also agree that G is a child...some members r only speculating what all turns the story could take by looking at the fact that humans may get used to the power n freedom they get n may learn to manipulate it or use it...nobody is blaming G for her fate...only expressing surprise that when she was told that her parents' debt will be cancelled , then why she found it to agree to the marriage...n pls change the title a bit yaar, nobody bashed G here...😊


N welcome to the forum dear...do post more often 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good post... 👏

Agree with Prags post... no one is bashing ganga here... only, is she that dumb that she cannot understand the tensions and the convos that took place in yest episode... even Prats tried to reason with her...

but Ganga seems to be blinded by the good treatment she is getting at TN because of SS... even though she knows there's something wrong and everyone's against her... she does not want to give it up...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi Everybody,
I take my words back, I changed the title of my post.
Well I am regular visitor of this forum, have been watching MKAP since ages...but have posted few times...
Zooni
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Posted: 13 years ago
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welcome to Pratigya forum

gr8 post by you 👏👏👏👏👏

Thank you 😃

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ZooniIndian

Hi Everybody,

I take my words back, I changed the title of my post.
Well I am regular visitor of this forum, have been watching MKAP since ages...but have posted few times...
Zooni



You are very much welcome here and please contribute more... you are a great writer with a clear cut concepts as per what is going on with this story. 👏
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Posted: 13 years ago
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IT IS NOT JUST A SOLUTION TO MARRY AN OLD MAN TO ENJOY THE COMFORTS OF LIFE. ACCORDING TO ME IT IS THE MOST CRAZIEST , EASIEST & LAZIEST WAY TO SURRENDER LIKE THAT.😒

THERE ARE SO MANY POOR GIRLS IN THE SOCIETY, IF THEY THINK LIKE THAT WHAT WILL HAPPEN?

ONE CAN BECOME SELF- RELIANT THROUGH MANY OTHER WAYS.

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