MAA Jaisey Yaa AUNT - Page 5

Originally posted by: abhi786

I agree with you nets.. There will be surely a rift between suhana and disha for kushi...

On Mahaepisode suhana expressed her feeling towards kushi...

I think when suhana saw the baby alone in the park, her mind was filled with Disha can't become pregnant ... So she should give this baby to Disha Bhabhi... But when she lifted the baby into her arms..Suhana started to get motherly feelings towards the baby... In that single moment she became the mother of Kushi without her knowledge..suhana started to feel as a mother for Kushi..

But when she came home with baby, she knew that the baby is for disha , as disha can't have a baby.. Suhana gave the baby, but her motherly feelings didn't change for the baby...

Even Ishaan & rajni have told her now disha is the mother of the baby.. Suhana agrees that disha is kushi mother, at the sametime, wants to be mother of Kushi...Suhana says she is MAASI, MAA JAISI..

Seeing the baby and being with Kushi gives her happiness and somewhere in her heart, she wants to be the mother of kushi, but also knows that she can't claim the baby as she bring it for disha and she can't be a selfish and take back the baby...

Suhana love towards Kushi, will surely bring problems with Disha.. As now Suhana is taking care of kushi in the mornings when disha goes to school... Soon Kushi-suhana gets attached with each other.. Somewhere disha will want suhana to back-off and leave kushi with her.. suhana couldn't stop herself from loving kushi, even though knowing disha is feeling bad, but couldn't stop herself being with kushi...

I think in future rift will come, disha will say suhana shouldn't meet kushi, Rajini, Ishaan are will support disha, as she is the mother, But suhana will say, she became mother when she lifted kushi 1st time in her arms, and when kushi first said MAA to her...Suhana will say, she can't claim motherly rights on kushi.. but will be there for her as a mother...

Originally posted by: madhu_d

Netriji ! no one is there to support suhana at this juncture ! not even sona jaise dil .. vo tho akeli hogayi bechaari.😆

Now itz high time for suhana to understand the difference between a mother and aunt..god has made her to see the abandoned child..it was incidental..but that does not mean that she has all rights on her..she has openly declared that itz for disha but again interfering and not allowing disha to enjoy the lost motherhood is not what expected from suhana...its an feeling that is necessary to bring the bonding between a mother and child nd suhana cannot develop that kind of bonding ever with kushi as she is an aunt. i give myself as an ex ..i leave my little one at my mothers place since she was born and my mom is everything to her in my absence...she takes care of her in the finest way more than me but the moment my daughter sees me she forgets everyone/everything and just fall into my lap. the feeling, the tender care, the touch.. etc...are the essentials for a mother child bonding to develop...As suhana thinks care N concern are the only things needed to b an good mom is again a show of childishness..so a mom is a mom👍🏼

at present suhana is in a state of obsession -(first it was ishaan and now kushi) which changes according to the situations heading to a syndrome ..again needs a BM treatment

Awesome post netri..

Originally posted by: netri

Madhu Great Points . 👏 I m not a mother but proud aunt of 2 . I love those kids . This is my real story . I was paying some silly game with my niece , She said " I wish U were my MOM , My mom [ SIL ] is so scary " 😆 To add the masala her mom was in the same room , To all this she didn't say a word . I didn't responded , few minutes later My niece said all this again . By then I had time to collect my thoughts . I told her [ With breaking my heart ] " Sweety , I want to b so much like ur mom , She is doing such a wonderful job regarding U , She loves U , Cooks yummy food for U . I think she is the best MOM in the world . I believe If I was ur mom I would have been more scarier than her " My niece [ No idea what she understood but she never said those words again ] While after my niece left the room , My SIL told me they had a fight abt something so that's Y my niece thought She was better off with me . My SIL never for one moment worried abt it , she found my reaction funny . It is hard to see their parents make some choices [ to which I don't agree ] I get it when U love someone else 's kid , U some how share these amazing bond as motherly as they can b but never take the kid away from parent . I never in front of those 2 kids dis-agree with my Bro or SIL , & never do anything that says I m far more fun than their parents . I repeatedly tell them I m an AUNT so it my job to make sure I spoil them , I m not ur parent so I don't have to discipline them .

Madhu How long BM is going to tell her What she should do ? I mean BM gave last massage which went down the drain . Now another message is coming up . I m tired of Suhana's childishness .

[/QUOTE} whatever you did is very apt, if you start encouraging such words taking it as an credit of your attachment/bond with them, then the kids will develop wrong notions towards their parents especially when they are being scolded are not given those things they have asked for... and u are doing the right by not disagreeing to their parents in front of the kids even though you defer on their opinion..if needed has to be discussed in their absence...So full marks for being an good aunt..👍🏼

I would have enjoyed this track if it had taken place ahead of BT and Amnesia..this sudden change in suhana's character after her showoff of high degree of maturity is not welcomed by me too...Why C'V's had made suhana to stand at Square1 once again is a puzzle left unsolved in my brain...they can easily show suhana involving herself in the problems of rajni, disha BM etc...and finding solutions or helping out them one by one rather than showing of immature behaviour and BM making her to realize everytime..

i guess unlike us most audience like dumbo, gussa wali suhana and BM-Suhana lectures...so we have to bear it till C.V's decide to show the growth..