Are they rushing with their decision???

Shwets1502 thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Achiever Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 14 years ago
#1
I was just watching yesterday's episode again and the precap...
and i really liked the way the family said they will legally adopt the baby...thats sooo nice of them..
but thinking again...is it the right decision...???are they rushing with the decision???i mean under the circumstances...
the family still wants Disha to go to another doctor...as they still believe she can become a mother...and if she does...what will happen to the child...???
we dont know whats going to happen at the police station...bt surely...the parents are not known...what if the baby wasnt abandoned by the parents...and by some other means the baby was separated from the parents...and if they come back??what if the parents accuse them of kidnapping...
i think the family should think a lot before making this decision...they should be sure before going with the process...about themselves...and the baby's parents details...iam happy they are thinking abt adoption...bt i dont want probs to occur after the adoption...
i thought of bringing this topic...cos i read in papers abt babies being abandoned...and later adoption without legal procedures..and the original parents coming back and making a mess of the situtation...and ultimately...the baby suffers...

Created

Last reply

Replies

67

Views

4k

Users

15

Likes

120

Frequent Posters

smarty22 thumbnail
Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#2
A very intellectual topic... They should wait for some days before taking any decision...
Shwets1502 thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Achiever Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 14 years ago
#3

Originally posted by: smarty22

A very intellectual topic... They should wait for some days before taking any decision...

even without knowing anything...they are very attached to the baby now...
and cos of which they are making this decision...
they have to think before taking the decision...
on a lighter note...what if Suhana finds another baby????😆
MadameX thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#4
I agree with you Shwets. They should seriously do thorough investigation of baby's background before adopting it. I was watching Aap Ki Kacheri and a case about adoption came up in there and it said that once the baby is adopted, that's it. Original parents, whether they like it or not later on, can't do anything about it. So eve if parents are willing to give up the baby now...later down the rad, they might want to change their mind and cause trouble for the adopters. Even thought hey no longer have the rights to.
Shwets1502 thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Achiever Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 14 years ago
#5

Originally posted by: MadameX

I agree with you Shwets. They should seriously do thorough investigation of baby's background before adopting it. I was watching Aap Ki Kacheri and a case about adoption came up in there and it said that once the baby is adopted, that's it. Original parents, whether they like it or not later on, can't do anything about it. So eve if parents are willing to give up the baby now...later down the rad, they might want to change their mind and cause trouble for the adopters. Even thought hey no longer have the rights to.

yes Ekta...and Kashyaps should be clear abt the decision...
they should not give away when the parents come with sad faces...
the baby is not a ball to keep passing from one person to another...this is a very good track..and if done properly like the last one..it can do wonders...
and if the original parents come back claiming...for instance..Ilesh and Disha will always have a fear in their mind that they will cause trouble to them and the baby...
meenakshi_16 thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#6
good post shwets...

even i thnk they shld wait and investigate properly regarding the child's parents and also consult a good gynecologist ...

if there are chances of Disha becoming pregnant and gives birth to her own child than it would be really difficult situation...to love others child as Ur own without being partial...

and at the end if the adopted child tend to do any mistake...they may land upo saying that u r not my blood(as shown in K3G)
Shwets1502 thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Achiever Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 14 years ago
#7

Originally posted by: meenakshi_16

good post shwets...


even i thnk they shld wait and investigate properly regarding the child's parents and also consult a good gynecologist ...

if there are chances of Disha becoming pregnant and gives birth to her own child than it would be really difficult situation...to love others child as Ur own without being partial...

and at the end if the adopted child tend to do any mistake...they may land upo saying that u r not my blood(as shown in K3G)

yes meenu...when the child makes one mistake..the truth comes out badly...
what do u think yar...should an adopted child..at some point of time..should know the truth or not...from the parents...
as we were speaking yesterday..may be this is a reason for Alok not being entirely happy...
meenakshi_16 thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#8

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

yes meenu...when the child makes one mistake..the truth comes out badly...
what do u think yar...should an adopted child..at some point of time..should know the truth or not...from the parents...
as we were speaking yesterday..may be this is a reason for Alok not being entirely happy...


i don't find it wrong to disclose the truth as one day he is goono know the truth its better u say to him and and make him so strong that he is able to accept the truth...and face the reality.

he'll always be grateful to u...

and regarding Alok even i feel this thoughts must be running in his mind too...
Shwets1502 thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Achiever Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 14 years ago
#9
@meenu...yes...and its always better the parents and the family tells the truth..rather than hearing from someone else...that will make the person more confident and will trust his/her family...
yes..even i feel Alok must be thinking abt this...as we saw..the family is sooo happy with the baby...that no one is thinking the consequences...
meenakshi_16 thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#10

Originally posted by: Shwets1502

@meenu...yes...and its always better the parents and the family tells the truth..rather than hearing from someone else...that will make the person more confident and will trust his/her family...

yes..even i feel Alok must be thinking abt this...as we saw..the family is sooo happy with the baby...that no one is thinking the consequences...


And as we all the the only 2 sensible member of kashyap's right now is RB and Alok...and this time when it came to his notice(as most of the time his is unaware of the situation) he will definatety think of the consequence

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".