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shadi mein discuss karne layak to kuch reh nhi gaya hai.. socha aaj anshu ko hi discuss kar lete hai..🤢 idea accha to nhi hai.. lekin time pass ho jaaega mera..
ok so..
anshu has succumbed to the peer pressure.. age hi aisi hai.. kya kare.. friends friends friends.. iske aage kuch dikhta hi nhi hai..
are elders to be blamed for all this.??
sunaina and omi never got along (im bringing the kaka-kaki track here) as kaka once said.. "anshu ko humara pyaar bhi tukdo mein hi mila hai".. can this be one possible reason for anshu's such behaviour? he must have felt neglected.. tabhi to he found solace in his friends.. varna living in a joint family.. peer pressure is not that common.. u don't have time for all this! in a joint family.. din kaise nikal jata hai u don't even realise.. dosto ke liye to time hota hi nhi hai.. then why did anshu fall into this trap? something must have been wrong on the parents side..😕
what i have seen in this show.. kaki has a laid back attitude.. while kaka is strict.. and moreover.. rajshri is there to save anshu from all the problems.. anshu knows this fact.. ma vaise bhi kuch kehti nhi hai.. bauji agar kuch kahenge to badi maa to hai hi mujhe bachane ke liye..
moreover.. i have never seen anyone telling anshu the difference between right and wrong.. he's a growing child.. he should be given that education which showed him his limits.. if not parents.. he could be counselled by varsha or akshara or shaurya.. ya even dadi would do (of course that would make us frustrated.. lekin fir bhi.. anshu ke liye😛😆)
my mother always told me.. we can just show u the right path and the wrong path.. but it's always upto u which path to follow.. we cannot force u to do anything.. u will do what u always want to do.. but if we instill the right values in u.. u will know where to draw the line urself..
did anshu get any of these types of values.?? i remember he once had a spat with gopi dadi also.. when dadi slapped him for saying her a naukrani.. if at that time itself.. he would have been told about the right and the wrong.. would the situation have been different now.??
or it's just the cirumstances which are to be blamed.. beti ke sasural mein shadi hai.. sab vaha busy hai to kisiko anshu ke baare mein sochne ka time hi nhi hai.?? or it's his friends.?? ameer baap ke bigdi hui aulad (i know it's cheap.. sorry😊) the so called "studs" of the town jinki tarah ban ne ki koshish mein anshu has forgotten his values.??
ultimately.. who's to be blamed..
anshu.. his friends.. his family.. or just circumstances.??
keep discussing..😃
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