The first time I met my boyfriend's mom, she told me to have a baby as soon as we are married and then he will always stay with me...Like yah a baby will do that...if he wants to leave he will no matter what lol...but thats their mentality. Especially arranged marriages they really need to take time to get to know each other for while and then think about starting a family. My cousin got married in Afghanistan when she was 21 and after 2 months she was pregnant and they were engaged for 1 month during which they barely talked with each other..That's just wrong..however if they didn't then they would be sent to the doc lol to check her out and see if they have problems.
i think family members have no right to tell them to start a family that should be the decision of a husband and wife.