Posted:
hi all
im a silent reader of this forum for a long time. this is my first post.
these are my pov's regarding Gauri/Gudiya. many of them have raised this topic in diff ways. i din't mean to hurt anybody's feeling with this.
right from the start of Gauri/gudiya's introduction till date there are many changes to the character as a whole
1. when gudiya was shown first she was a pretty girl who has desire to study a lot and become something in her life.
then all of sudden DS approached her family to ask her for jagya. marriage was fixed too. "may be" listening to this she has got her first trauma.
2. after marriage all the scenes against marriage of entire family got to know the truth and were against to it and called for mahapanchayat. In maha panchayat except DS and gudiya's parents all were against this marriage and reveled the same to the sarpanchs.
later her marriage was cancelled by maha panchayat. her parents too felt very insulted and went through very bad situations and left her near badi haveli.
3. in the haveli too she wasn't accepted by any one except anandi. her parents were traced and sent gudiya with them.
if every one remember her expressions changed from crying to anger in the last saying she has nothing to hear from any one. she was already in depression that it effected her studies at that time and her parents condition too as every one were seeing them as culprits. in all this badi haveli people rejection.
i think by this time any girl of that age might go into a very bad situation mentally. she might have struggled a lot to come out all this situations but couldn't though fully.
after that we weren't shown gudiya till jagya met her first. this is all about guidya we saw in the past. i felt after this her parents didn't object her for any thing she asked and gave full freedom for what ever she asked they gave it without objecting.
4. older gauri as introduced first was shown as a brave girl have modern thoughts etc. which jagya wants to see in anandi. later all how he met gauri in college and all the things jagat liked in her fell in love etc.
her state of mind was good with modern thoughts, free to live with no restrictions etc. all the 5 yrs they loved each other out of which she didn't know anything abt jagat. but when she thought abt the past she was very scared when she spoke with her paretns. i felt she was struggling still to come out of that trauma.
5. when she got to know the truth which leaded to her past she couldn't bear the truth. we saw her actions where she destroyed her wedding dress and all the things related to jagat. she was completely out of mind. and i thought they were showing from here on gudiya and not gauri.
6. she thought to marry jagat for they were married previously and convinced her parents too for this. but to me when we are in a bad state of mood we believe what ever the other person says might be correct (sometimes not all).
as far as gauri is considered she belived what ever jagat was saying was correct and belived him without any enquiry.
7. went to badi haveli but rejection after rejection till date. may be she was is the same old trauma state of past and trying to get approved as beendini. her state of mind is not in situation to accept the rejection.
may be her family members has fulfilled what ever she wanted till then. and when this thing is happening she is not able to bear that its not getting to her.
so this might be the reason why she is not able to understand what evry one are saying to her. i think she started realizing a bit from bhairon's words, then come phooli, anandi and with sumitra's words i think she will be completely come out with the truth.
today's precap showed that she was spking but her eyes were lifeless thinking for something which she wished to. i hope cv's take the story to the track of realizn at least from now.đ
for all these situations gudiya has nothing to do with. she was innocent. gauri i think has lost somewhere. and until and unless gauri character comes into light there won't be any realizn.
im not a gauri fan nor against to any other character in BV. the cv's i think are showing the hidden trauma of gudiya in gauri.
there are many flaws in jagya/jagat character which i think will take a long time to write n post.đ
these are purely my POV's. if it hurts any one feelings plz for give me.
thanks
Swetha
Sports
