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sherma

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Posted: 14 years ago

i really find karan very cute ad really like karal as jodi,but i find karan character very weak.

karan was in love with hetal but he never stood up for her,it was mona cause of wich karal got married.from the time karal got married,hetal wanted tv,he said no,she wanted jewellery again he said no,and at teh end claiming to ask him for anything.when karan realised there was no money in cupboard,he was shit scared,on other side wen anu was in similar condition,wen dere was a chori in his house,he wasnt that scared ulta he confidently told fui he will return the cash.

note:am not defending hetal at all,d cvs are totally destroying her chaarcter.

i just feel karan lacks confidence cause of his parents,dad not working,sumwere down the line it affects children

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sherma
i really find karan very cute ad really like karal as jodi,but i find karan character very weak.
karan was in love with hetal but he never stood up for her,it was mona cause of wich karal got married.from the time karal got married,hetal wanted tv,he said no,she wanted jewellery again he said no,and at teh end claiming to ask him for anything.when karan realised there was no money in cupboard,he was shit scared,on other side wen anu was in similar condition,wen dere was a chori in his house,he wasnt that scared ulta he confidently told fui he will return the cash.
note:am not defending hetal at all,d cvs are totally destroying her chaarcter.
i just feel karan lacks confidence cause of his parents,dad not working,sumwere down the line it affects children

Which young boy buys his wife 70k necklace. Hetal is constantly asking for something or the other, she is very very greedy. On the other hand Mona never ever asks for anything. As for Chori Mona was abused and called various names by Gandhi family, while thief Hetal was protected by Karan and Chayiji. Bedi's should have send thief Hetal back to her maayika.

No boy at Karan's age has huge amount of cash to buy expensive jewellery and nobody demands jewellery like Hetal does. Hetal lives in great house and has everything she needs. Any young boy working in family business has to ask elders for huge amount of money be it uncle or father, very few boys at Karan's age owns their own business, even if they own it will be something very small, not enough even to live in a big house..they will probably living in one room somewhere in Delhi.

Karen is not insecure, he has good values and doesn't abuse, manipulate or tell lies like Hetal, if anybody is insecure it is Hetal, who lies, back bites, abuses and is very demanding, all the signs of insecure and jealous person. Karan is happy and learning the business, he is unlucky to get extremely greedy and incompetent wife. Any children Hetal will have will, if they inherit her values will be insecure..by nature children are not greedy and they need love..Bedi's are very loving family..

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sherma

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: April2007

Which young boy buys his wife 70k necklace. Hetal is constantly asking for something or the other, she is very very greedy. On the other hand Mona never ever asks for anything. As for Chori Mona was abused and called various names by Gandhi family, while thief Hetal was protected by Karan and Chayiji. Bedi's should have send thief Hetal back to her maayika.

No boy at Karan's age has huge amount of cash to buy expensive jewellery and nobody demands jewellery like Hetal does. Hetal lives in great house and has everything she needs. Any young boy working in family business has to ask elders for huge amount of money.

Karen is not insecure, he has good values and doesn't abuse, manipulate or tell lies like Hetal, if anybody is insecure it is Hetal, who lies, back bites, abuses and is very demanding.

am not defending hetal at alll,and not at all comparing her wid mona.

i am talking about akran as a character,wich young punjabi boy will let her love go like this only wen he told mona that he will never forget hetal and will alwys love her.

and about the chori issue,mona-anu was being abused,but still anu took a stand although it wasnt sumting his wich was lost,it was fuis.in this case it was only 70,000,the bedis are businessman,vimmy herself had cash at her place,and am talkinga bout karan before he knew that hetal took monery,d way he was scred was rather disturbing.and wen gurnam told he will arrange for it,satnam told him he wont have,karan was looking very sad tat time.

i just felt karan lacke confidence,have read sumwere parents creates an impression on children.in starting epiosdes if u have seen sweety was embaressed cause of his father and only mona used totalk to him

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Rani

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sherma
am not defending hetal at alll,and not at all comparing her wid mona.
i am talking about akran as a character,wich young punjabi boy will let her love go like this only wen he told mona that he will never forget hetal and will alwys love her.
and about the chori issue,mona-anu was being abused,but still anu took a stand although it wasnt sumting his wich was lost,it was fuis.in this case it was only 70,000,the bedis are businessman,vimmy herself had cash at her place,and am talkinga bout karan before he knew that hetal took monery,d way he was scred was rather disturbing.and wen gurnam told he will arrange for it,satnam told him he wont have,karan was looking very sad tat time.
i just felt karan lacke confidence,have read sumwere parents creates an impression on children.in starting epiosdes if u have seen sweety was embaressed cause of his father and only mona used totalk to him

I totally disagree with you..

Hetal is very demanding greedy and insecure..

Karan has more confidence than Hetal's father and Anu.

Anukalap is totally mamma's boy, he is asking for her forgiveness all the time, secure man don't apologize and ask for forgiveness, when they have done nothing wrong.

If anybody Anu is insecure..

Gurnam knows his brother doesn't have money..he doesn't want him to rob the bank or go to loan shark, Guptaji..I see nothing wrong with saying 'you have no money".

Every child is not brought by crorepati father..Hetal's own dad does nothing has failed in business, her mom does nothing but just abuses everybody..if what you are saying is correct in India most children should be insecure because their mom didn't get 70 thousand necklace and their father works for family business..

It seems you just hate punjabi's and love Gujjus..even though, Hetal should have married in Gujju parivar, who would have made her life hell and ask for gifts and dowry all the time and the children brought up in greedy atmostphere would be very very secure..

I think Karan is very disappointed in Hetal, he cannot understand why she is so petty, extremely demanding and mean. She hates everybody in the house does no work and is extremely jealous.

Karan looks very unhappy and angry not insecure.

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Shas3

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree with both of you. I think Karan has confidence issues and that Hetal is a greedy, jealous psycho!

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beetaurus

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree with both of you Sweety and April. Karan is an introvert and sometimes may be lacks self confidence. Maybe because of his parents nature and what they are. He promised Hetal to ask him whatever she needs. Maybe he did not expect stupid greedy Hetal to ask for so much.

At the same time I do not think Karan is weaker than Anukalp who is a mama's boy, always asking for forgiveness for nothing, and never did anything to stop the abuses Mona was going through on a daily basis.

As for Karan, how could a young guy buy a 70, 000 Rupees necklace or buy a car so early for his wife. It takes time.

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Ashirania

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Posted: 14 years ago

i totally agree abt the whole karan is insecure and lacks self-confidence part..and the part abt hetal being greedy (duh..who doesnt agree with this?)

from the time karan's charac was introduced, he's always been behind. nodding his head to other's wishes, fulfiling other's demands and the worst part was when he couldnt even stand up for his love. its sad, really, that he got a wife like hetal..see, even anu was like tat in the beginning. mona came in and changed him. she made him a more confident and motivated him to climb higher and higher..if not, even anu was just like karan. he listened to his mom only and was simply taking care of what other people wanted. when mona stepped in, that was when he changed. so the problem, really, isnt just karan. i guess at some point, everybody is a karan and an anu. its the person who comes into their lives that make a diff.

mona made anu successful, by supporting and encouraging him. she was kind and sweet and genuine in her intentions.

hetal is...ignoring the fact the anu used to be like karan too. she doesnt see the hell anu went through. she just sees the sweet fruits that mona and anu are reaping...anu never let her see that side of him and she thinks that it's not supposed to exist...

worst part is, anu used to try and make the best of what he had. he got little things for mona (however insignificant) and spent a lot of time with her...karan refuses to do that as well...so hetal cant help but feel jealous of mona...mainly, she just needs to stop comparing herself with her bro. once she does that, she's not that bad a person..she just wants the life that she sees mona having (minus the bad stuff which is kinda stupid on her part..)

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Rani

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Ashirania
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worst part is, anu used to try and make the best of what he had. he got little things for mona (however insignificant) and spent a lot of time with her...karan refuses to do that as well...so hetal cant help but feel jealous of mona...mainly, she just needs to stop comparing herself with her bro. once she does that, she's not that bad a person..she just wants the life that she sees mona having (minus the bad stuff which is kinda stupid on her part..)

If Hetal is comparing herself to Mona than she should count her lucky stars. Mona was tortured by Phui, Baa, Hetal and Ambaji. Theyinsulted Punjabi culture and Mona's parents and called Mona names all the time. Mona was not allowed to touch anything in the kitchen. In one episode when Mona's parents send food, whole kitchen was cleaned and Ambaji punished Mona by not eating for 24 hrs and constantly abused and blamed her.

Mona was not allowed to step out of the house without Ambaji's permission, Hetal can come and go as she pleases, complete freedom, Hetal character has no hobbies, no interests, her biggest interest is to be jealous and sit and do nothing. She can probably do anything she wants, find a job, go get further education but all she wants is to abuse and make up stories, like the one she made up today about the fight between Karan and his Uncle ( Satnam said to Karan that you cannot pay for the car even if work for whole life)

Nobody has abused Gujju culture in Bedi house or abused her parents and upbringing. She is the one constantly lying and insulting Vimmi and demanding stuff like a little kid, which is not necessary, things like necklace don't make people happy. Happiness comes from within. Hetal hasn't done anything to please anybody, she constantly trying to undermine all the good relationship and break up the family.

Edited by April2007 - 14 years ago

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jhansiv

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: sherma
i really find karan very cute ad really like karal as jodi,but i find karan character very weak.
karan was in love with hetal but he never stood up for her,it was mona cause of wich karal got married.from the time karal got married,hetal wanted tv,he said no,she wanted jewellery again he said no,and at teh end claiming to ask him for anything.when karan realised there was no money in cupboard,he was shit scared,on other side wen anu was in similar condition,wen dere was a chori in his house,he wasnt that scared ulta he confidently told fui he will return the cash.

note:am not defending hetal at all,d cvs are totally destroying her chaarcter.

i just feel karan lacks confidence cause of his parents,dad not working,sumwere down the line it affects children

I don't think at all that Karan is weak or lacking in confidence.

The situation which Karan and Anukalp faced are totally different things. Here Karan was totally responsible for the money and their business reputation is at stake. It is normal for any employee to feel scared if they lose the money for which they are responsible.

On the other hand when Anukalp and Mona were both in the house the robbery has happenned. Technically Anukalp is also equally responsible for the robbery. But Ambaji has chosen to shout only at Mona and she did not point to Anukalp at all. Anukalp also did not harp further that he too was responsible (that he is also in the house when the robbery took place). He instead tried to defend Mona by saying that he will return the cash. (In the process he went blame free and all the blame of being careless came on Mona).

Karan did not shout at Hetal for being careless with the money, but for outrightly lying to him about the money. He should have brought the point before all the elders and exposed her. But he has chosen to respect his wife.

Why should Karan given into every unreasonable demand of Hetal's. Mona never demands from Anukalp for anything. She never asks him for jewelry, TV in their room, extra comforts and all... Infact she works like crazy so that the people in her sasural have a good life.

I found Karan being very strong when he stood for Hetal in front of the whole Mohalla. I am not sure from where did you get the idea that Karan is weak.

As to not standing up for his love, he was not sure if Hetal will be strong enough to turn against her ambaji and come with him. If I remember he kept on telling that Ambaji will never agree to our marraige after what has happenned. And if Hetal was not strong enough to go against Ambaji then there is no point in dumping Pam who he started considering as his responsibility.